Hua Xin in the split seat, what kind of person do you think he is?

There's nothing wrong with him, he's just serious about pursuing his goals, it's just that his friend is a nerd.

Profit-seeking, keen on fame and fortune.

"Cut the mat and cut it off.

From "The World Speaks New Words", in order to illustrate the truth that it is difficult to become friends if the will is different. The created Hua Xin is a good wealth, a good and rich person. So Guan Ning parted ways with him to show his severance.

Whether Hua Xin in history has such an experience is not necessarily. However, this person actually said in Chen Shou's Three Kingdoms that he was known as a pure and virtuous person, and the official worshiped Xiangguo, but "Xin Su was poor, and Lu gave him Zhenshi relatives and deceased, and his family had no stone to bear".

Therefore, cutting off friendship may just be an image of Hua Xin deliberately fabricated in order to show the way of making friends and persuading people to work hard.

Whether we are making friends or falling in love, the criteria for judging whether the relationship is worth our effort can be distinguished by the degree to which the basic needs it brings are met and the purpose is fruitful.

In other words, a relationship, such as friendship, marriage, parent-child relationship, etc., is defined as a good relationship that contributes to personal development as long as it supports or enhances the satisfaction of belonging, security, self-esteem, and even the fulfillment of your need for self-fulfillment.

On the other hand, if it hinders you, regresses, and sinks, it is defined as a bad relationship, that is, a relationship that will make you worse and worse, and such a person is not suitable to be friends.

In addition, the gentleman and the gentleman, the wisdom is matched with the same way as friends, and the villain and the villain are friends with the same benefit. A relationship between two people cannot be called true friends if it is based on interests and not on common interests or values. Because in the future you will turn against each other because of conflicts of interest.

When you meet someone you want to be friends with, you need to put in the time and effort to maintain your friendship. You can't just expect to take warmth from the other person and not want to give anything yourself.

Of course, if it's just yourself who is blindly giving and being cautious (for example, always when you take the initiative to connect with each other, always when you take the initiative to maintain relationships), you need to re-examine your relationship. Friends, only by cherishing and valuing each other can they become friends, otherwise it may just be your wishful thinking.

We admire someone and want to develop a relationship with them and others to talk about everything, but only if they want to.

First, friends are meant to meet people's emotional needs, not financial needs. So whether she's giving you the last cookie, or inviting you to dinner, or something like ......thatOf course, it is possible to express emotion, but this is incidental, not the reason why you make friends.

Second, we are not obligated to treat all those who are good to you as friends. Although this is a bit hurtful, friends must first be like-minded.

Third, if the subject is a boy, then I can see from what you wrote that these two friends of yours are girls, right? I bet a dollar that they like you. Not pure camaraderie.

Measure it yourself.

Original. Guan Ning socks and Hua Xin (xīn) are hoeing vegetables in the garden. Seeing that there is a piece of gold, the hoe is no different from the tile stone, and Hua catches it and throws it.

I also tried to read at the same table, and there were those who passed through the door by taking the Xuan Dress (miǎn), and would rather read as before, and read the waste books out of view. Rather cut the seat and sit separately, saying:"Zi is not my friend.

Translations. Guan Ning and Hua Xin were hoeing vegetables in the garden together, and when they saw a piece of gold on the ground, Guan Ning still waved the hoe and kept moving, no different from seeing the tiles and stones, Hua Xin picked up the gold piece and then threw it again. They once sat on the same mat and read, and a ** in a luxurious car passed by the door, Guan Ning was still reading as before, but Hua Xin put down the book and went out**.

Guan Ning cut off the mat (and Hua Xin) and sat separately, and said, ".

You're no longer my friend. ”

Paraphrase. This article shows the high morality of Guan Ning and Hua Xin through the different performances of Guan Ning and Hua Xin when they saw gold and Xuanmian passed the door. It originally belonged to the eleventh article of "Virtue".

Guan Ning: The word Youfeng is good Sun An, a Wei man in the late Han Dynasty, and he died without success. Hua Xin: Ziyu, a native of the Eastern Han Dynasty, was appointed as Shangshuling by Emperor Huan, and after entering the Wei Dynasty, he became an official to Situ, was named Marquis of Boping, and was attached to Cao Cao's father and son.

Catch: Pick it up, lift it.

Throw: Throw. Go: Throw away.

Taste: Once, once upon a time.

Xuan Fu Crown: Partial meaning of compound words. It refers to the luxurious vehicles that ancient scholars and doctors cared in. Xuan: A kind of car with a shed in ancient times, crown: a hat worn by officials above the status of doctors in ancient times. This refers to the noble officer.

Therefore: it turned out to be the same. Such as: like.

Scrap Books: Put down the books.

Waste: Put it down. Seat: seat, cushion. In ancient times, people used to spread a mat on the ground and sit on it. Now the wine is called a feast, which is the same meaning.

The silver chain is not my friend: you are not my friend anymore.