Is there still a preference for sons over daughters in this day and age?

This phenomenon is inevitable in all ages, after all, from the genetic point of view, only boys have the genes of the male father. In daily work, it is often men who dominate, and the so-called strong women are rare.

The older generation must have thought this way. Nowadays, many young people don't have this kind of thinking. On the contrary, I still think my daughter is good.

Last year, I helped my uncle in the countryside. Because of trivial matters, my uncle quarreled with my aunt, and my uncle said, "You have the ability to give me a son."

My aunt stopped talking. This sentence is like a thorn in the back, I didn't expect such patriarchy in the countryside. My aunt's family has three daughters, and the family is unwilling because they didn't give birth to a son.

In the countryside, many people prefer sons over daughters, but in fact, people in the city also have this concept. Now I don't distinguish between the city, and the countryside has Tomoga. The preference for sons over women is prevalent in societies with balanced gender balance, in economically backward areas, and in rural areas where manual work is carried out.

But to be fair, men do have an advantage over women in life and work. There is no choice of gender. This kind of unfair concept of equality is gradually decreasing in a society where there are more men and fewer women.

But there is still a long way to go.

Summary. The most serious time for patriarchal thinking should be before the 80s, as we all know, around the 80s, family planning in China began. The sketch "Superborn Guerrillas" of that era vividly showed the background of the society at that time, in order to give birth to a boy, various evasions from the Family Planning Commission.

The most serious time for patriarchal thinking should be before the 80s, as we all know, around the 80s, family planning in China began. The sketch "Superborn Guerrilla" of that era very vividly showed the background of the society when the stove was filial, and in order to give birth to a boy, Sen collapsed and evaded the Family Planning Commission.

After the 90s, this kind of thinking began to weaken in the cities, with the continuous improvement of people's living standards, the popularization of cultural knowledge, and the popularization of education, after the 90s, China has become more and more in line with the world. This refers to the gradual fading of the idea of ascending the bridge. Coupled with the policy of only one child in a family, it is very funny that the hidden family is a baby regardless of the boy or girl.

I think it's important to be clear about what "hidden" in patriarchy means when discussing patriarchy.

Often, we think of "patriarchy" as emphasizing the value of men and ignoring women. But the mention of implicit sex means that the strong position of men is not deliberately emphasized in the family, but there is still a certain prejudice against women in everything, just like this man, who uses whining to get rid of his own ideas.

I think my family still has this "hidden" patriarchy.

1. Occlusion of the environment.

Because of the living environment, there are still remnants of the beliefs and ideas of the ancestors in the family, so they will be particularly sensitive to men. The ideas of the older generation will always unconsciously affect the parents.

2. Definition of value.

Since men are generally more physically active than women, and rural areas are places where physical labor is particularly needed, men are more likely to take on these tasks to reduce stress.

3. Social cognition.

It may be that we were born today after only a few decades of reform and opening up, and more people need people who can create more value in society. In the eyes of parents, there are always the greats and successful among men. As a result, there are some differences in the treatment of men and women.

Thankfully, these are not unchangeable. When my parents slowly realized the development of today's society and saw my ideas and abilities, I knew that they were also trying to enter this society and change a lot of original prejudices. Because I know they still love me.

Personally, I think that there are still some people in life who have this kind of thinking, but most people should have broken away from this kind of thinking, and I feel that it should be difficult to feel the phenomenon of patriarchy in our lives, because many people's thinking has changed, and boys and girls are the same.

In rural areas, there are more or less shadows of patriarchal preference in life, and the shadow of this phenomenon is still relatively common and easy to find.

Take grandpa's house as an example, every year during the Spring Festival, there will be a family gathering, the whole family will get together for a meal, but when eating, it is often the women in the family who are busy cooking, and the men in the family generally only need to sit at the dinner table and chatter, drinking tea and waiting for the female members of the family to prepare the meal, and no male member of the family takes the initiative to go to the kitchen to help the women in the family cook, which is a typical patriarchal phenomenon. After all, such household chores should be shared between male and female members.

And when it comes to eating, often the man sits at one table, the woman and the child sit at the other table as a dish, when it is ready, it is to serve the food on the man's table first, and then give the woman and the child this table of dishes, which seems to be a small detail, but it can also be clearly felt that obviously in this family, the man is treated with special care, and when the meal is over, the men in these family members do not need to clean up the table, continue to go back to the house to chat, or watch TV together, and the female members of the family need to clean up the table and wash the dishes, although this is just a small detail in life, but more or less it still makes me feel a little uncomfortable, after all, these housework should be shared by male and female members, and should not be pushed to female members.