How can a person not be cowardly in words and deeds?

Many people have this kind of bad character: taciturn, inactive, few friends, very low voice, hesitant to do oak calling, and often afraid to go out alone. The biggest characteristic of a cowardly and timid person is that the word "fear" is the first, no matter what happens, the first reaction is "fear", afraid of this and that.

Therefore, actively eliminating the word "fear" and boldly showing oneself is the most important way to get rid of cowardice. In this world, in the end, you have to rely on yourself for everything. Only oneself is the master of life and the master of destiny; Only by relying on one's own struggle and hard work can we reach the pinnacle of success.

A person who is dependent on others everywhere will eventually achieve nothing.

First, have a positive view of yourself and the society in which you live, and see yourself as a capable person who is liked and warmly received.

Second, I have had a successful experience in learning and interacting with others.

Third, the degree of independence is constantly increasing, self-love, self-esteem, and self-confidence.

Fourth, they should have the ability to realize their self-assertion, be good at showing healthy and positive emotions, have the wisdom and courage to refuse the unreasonable demands of others, and become independent and individual.

Fifth, be strict with yourself, and gradually strive to be firm but not stubborn, brave but not reckless, bold but not rude, strong but not strong, lively but not frivolous, clever but not suspicious, decisive and not reckless, stable but not indecisive, cautious but not timid, loyal but not stupid, sophisticated but not sophisticated, tolerant but not weak, self-confident but not conceited, humble but not inferior, self-cherished but not arrogant, self-love but not arrogant. Learning, emotion, and behavior develop in harmony, and the personality traits of different people develop in harmony to form a reasonable and harmonious character structure.

Sixth, seize the first period of character formation, seize the organic opportunity, give full play to your own subjective initiative, and constantly improve yourself.

Seventh, the process of illuminating the path of character development with the fire of wisdom, promoting knowledge learning, and increasing talents has become an effective process of integrating and optimizing character.

Eighth, learn to pioneer and innovate and accelerate the development of creative character.

Courage and cowardice are often just a moment, telling myself: I don't want to be cowardly anymore, I want to be brave, I want to be generous, I have to do things quickly, look at my efforts in the future!

You may not be cowardly, it is very likely that your personality is boring and introverted, and you try to make yourself open and ruined, communicate with multiple people around you, and achieve a combination of introverts and extroversions!

Cowardly people are generally afraid of problems, and when they encounter problems, they can think about what they are afraid of.

Sometimes when you take the brave step and face the problems you encounter, you will find that many things are not as bad as you imagined.

In fact, there are two sides to human beings, it depends on which side you inspire.

The fundamental change in my personality was due to the fact that I started working in sales as soon as I graduated, which was not my original intention, but there was no way to survive. That's how people change passively, because my work dictates that I can't be cowardly.

The year before last, there was a person to hire a salesman, this person had a very bumpy experience, I also sympathized with him, I have been doing business for many years, because of the constant frustration has become numb, there is no confidence anymore, when he asked me for confidence, I said I can't give you confidence, because you have full confidence in your nature, as long as you prove it from your own heart, you can be full of confidence, and any external force is not fundamentally and not final, I can only keep reminding him to pay attention to his mentality, But the most fundamental thing is to rely on his willingness to increase his faith.

People are so weird, when he realizes that he has enough confidence, he only needs to prove it in work and life, he has changed now, sometimes he loves the waist of cat pants, I will say: "Young man, hold your chest up, you are Genghis Khan", he laughed, he found confidence. I was laughing at him a few days ago, do you need me to give him confidence Follow-up question:

o(∩_o...I'm a shy person, and a bit straightforward, I don't know how to deal with some people in life, some things, some words, I don't know how to choose, inadvertently show cowardice, I hate it, I want to change my personality, but how to change.