Why did Jia s mother choose her granddaughter in law and why did she abandon Dai and choose hairpin,

1. Bloodline.

Jia Baoyu's aunt is Lin Daiyu's mother. The two families are close relatives. Although there is a cousin who marries, it is said that the kiss is added to the kiss. But after all, the blood relationship is too close, and for the Jia family, which attaches great importance to the inheritance of all generations, the union of the two may not be a good thing.

2. The body says.

3. Personality theory.

Lin Daiyu lost her mother when she was a child, and her father was an official and rarely communicated with her. made him form a withdrawn character. There is a big gap compared with Xue Baochai.

Although Jia Mu likes Lin Daiyu very much. But Lin Daiyu doesn't often go to Jia's mother's place, and she is unfamiliar with it for a long time. And Miss Bao ran to Jia's mother twice in three days.

After a long time, Jia Mu will also have illusions.

4. The family said.

Although Lin Daiyu's ancestors also served as big officials, by the time of her father's generation, they were already in decline. Although the Xue family was also defeated, there were still relatives who were prominent in the imperial court. If the Jia family wants to prosper forever, it is more affordable to get married to the Xue family than to marry the Lin family.

5. Face said.

Jia Mu regards Baoyu as the pearl of her palm. How could she not understand Baoyu's mind. She knew that Baoyu had only Lin Daiyu in her heart.

If it is not Daiyu, it will not marry. But Lin Daiyu is sick, and Jia Baoyu is also crazy. This made Jia Mu afraid.

If you really let the two be combined. Then there are two mentally ill people in the Grand View Garden.

The face of the Jia family, the family business for several generations will be ruined. Mother Jia listened to Wang Xifeng's words, and finally forced Lin Daiyu to death by 'Li Dai Taojiang', and also hurt her own grandson. fell into the end of lifting a stone and hitting himself in the foot.

Original work: Mother Jia clearly designated Lin Daiyu as a candidate for her granddaughter-in-law, and Mrs. Wang hoped to choose Baochai as her daughter-in-law. In the end, the attacker came up with an idea to let Mrs. Wang borrow Yuan Chun's will, and Yuan Chun chose Baochai in his heart. Jia's mother had no choice but to listen to Niangniang's will.

The last forty episodes are not the author's original intention, Gao Yi is purely a dog's tail continuation mink. If you want to study the Dream of Red Mansions, you should study the first eighty times.

Lin has nothing, the Xue family still has some power, and for the situation that the Jia family is becoming more and more depressed, it is better to find someone who can support it.

This is already the plot of the last forty episodes, and you also know that the last forty episodes were not written by Cao Xueqin, and from the first eighty episodes, Jia Mu supports Bao Dai's love, so this is not Cao Xueqin's original intention, and there is no need to add more.

Lin Daiyu herself is a rebel against feudal etiquette, and her family has aged prematurely, while Xue Baochai's family has "a good foundation and is now rich". The marriage of the two families of Jia Xue can strengthen their relationship of "supporting and covering up, and both have to take care of". And more importantly, he must choose an ideal person who meets the requirements of feudal norms and can help Baoyu embark on the "right path" to save the decline of the entire family.

And Baochai is the best choice and meets their requirements, so I chose Baochai!

Personally, I don't think this is Cao Xueqin's original intention, and the continuation of elevation is simply....Off topic wow.

The first point is that because the jade of Baoyu is written in the first part, which is a symbol of status, it echoes the golden lock of Baochai in the back, so that it will not appear abrupt of the jade at the beginning.

The second point is that in such a feudal era, in such a class-oriented society, in such a big family that values family honor so much, the idea of being a family is very deep-rooted, you can say that you love vanity, or you can say that in order to better stand in your own place in the high class of cannibalism, for far-reaching considerations, you should choose Baochai, her identity, background, and property are much better than Daiyu.

The third point is that Daiyu's personality is more annoying than that of Baochai, and there are fewer people who support and speak for him (considering it in such a large environment).

Fourth, sometimes tragedy can give people more food for thought, and the decline of such a large family implies the decline of feudal society, and the author's purpose is to criticize the dire situation of the society in which he lived at that time.

The fifth point is that Daiyu herself has been ill for a long time, although everyone in the same big family does not say it, but they know that who will put their precious grandson to such a woman, but also from the other side to reprimand human nature for the darkness, there is no love at all.

There is a thought-provoking question: in reality, do you choose Baochai or Daiyu?

Xue Baochai can be a person, so the people in Jiafu like her; However, people who can be human are not necessarily suitable to be granddaughters-in-law.

Maybe in Jia's mother's heart, she didn't regard her as a real granddaughter-in-law.

The old lady Jia Mu looked at it and understood, she knew that Xue Baochai was not so simple-minded, she was a ruthless person.

Of course, because his status is not very high, Jia Mu has always looked down on him.

The old man has walked more roads than we eat salt, and he can't see what his heart looks like?

Maybe Baoyu doesn't like her very much, Baoyu likes Sister Lin.

Praise is praise, but to be a granddaughter-in-law depends on temperament.

Xue Baochai, the daughter of a defeated businessman, the only brother is still an unobtrusive troublemaker; I lost the draft, I was scheming, and my personality and temper were not what Jia's mother liked, but more importantly, Jia's mother liked Baoyu, and Baoyu was only happy with Sister Lin.

This is naturally because Jia Mu doesn't look down on him, because his status is not particularly high.

Because in ancient times, it was very normal for a man to have three wives and four concubines. So it's very normal for this to happen.

Although Jia's mother has already determined Baochai as her granddaughter-in-law, she is still looking for a partner for Baoyu in order to find a spare tire for Baoyu, in case Baochai and Baoyu can't have children for a long time after being together, then you can serve Baoyu from the object you find.

Because polygamy was a normal thing in ancient times, and Jia's mother didn't want Xue Baochai to be dominant, so she would continue to find a partner for Baoyu to restrain Xue Baochai.

I think the main reason is that Jia Mu loves Baoyu very much, and if she can find someone better than Baochai, it will be a way to get the best of both worlds.