Daiyu speaks harshly, why didn t Mother Jia teach her?

It is impossible for Mother Jia not to know about Daiyu's words and deeds, but why has she never taught Daiyu? So much so that after Daiyu heard Baochai say not to read miscellaneous books, she was so moved that she wanted to recognize Baochai as her sister, and immediately released her suspicions, and said to Baochai: "If you calculate carefully, my mother died early, and I have no sisters and brothers, I am fifteen years old this year, and no one teaches me like what you said the day before yesterday."

Why didn't Jia Mu teach Daiyu? Why did Daiyu slowly become soft again and lose her previous vitriol? ActuallyThis is all because there are six masters behind Daiyu, five of whom were sent by Jia's mother, and one was arranged by Lin Ruhai.

The first is the purple cuckoo. Zijuan was given to her by Jia's mother, and her original name was Brother Parrot. Zijuan is not so much Daiyu's girl, but Daiyu's big sister and good girlfriend.

Not only Daiyu's diet and daily life, but Zijuan must be carefully served; Even Daiyu's mood, Zijuan has to take care of it; The most important thing is that Zijuan also often educates Daiyu.

The other mothers-in-law in the Xiaoxiang Pavilion also know etiquette. For example, one time, Daiyu was asleep, and Baoyu came. The mothers-in-law hurriedly told Baoyu to go elsewhere first, and her sister was sleeping. Daiyu didn't actually fall asleep at the time, so she hurriedly said who was sleeping.

As soon as the mother-in-law heard this, they immediately called Zijuan, "The girl is awake, go in and serve." The mother-in-law did thisIn fact, it is to teach Daiyu to keep a distance from Baoyu, one year older and two years younger, not to make mistakes, otherwise it will damage the girl's reputation.

Zijuan and these four teaching grandmothers were all sent by Jia's mother, and Daiyu also had another master, who was arranged by her father, that is, her nurse Wang Mama. To be a wet nurse for Daiyu, there must be two brushes. And the nurse has a high status and great power, not only taking care of the diet and daily life of her brothers and sisters, but also teaching her brothers and sisters to talk and behave and behave and so on.

Maybe Daiyu went from being willful and mean to slowly becoming forbearant and peaceful, precisely because of the teachings of these six masters. In the early stage, she didn't even look at Aunt Zhao, and later Aunt Zhao went to Xiaoxiang Pavilion, although she knew at a glance that it was a favor, but she still greeted her with a smile, please sit down and ask for tea.

With the teachings of these masters, why did Jia Mu teach herself? In fact, in such a family, parents and grandparents do not teach their children and grandchildren very personally, and they are all taught silently by wet nurses.

Because Lin Daiyu spoke very harshly before, but then several people have been teaching her,So Jia Mu is also very relieved, since someone has taught her, why should she teach her.

It is impossible for Jia's mother not to know Daiyu's words and deeds, but why did she never teach Daiyu? So after listening to Baochai's words that she didn't read miscellaneous books, Daiyu was moved to recognize Baochai as her sister, and immediately relieved, and said to Baochai: "Okay, my mother died early, and I don't have a sister or brother."

I'm 15 years old and no one can teach me like you said the day before yesterday. ”

Why Daiyu is gradually getting softer, and not as mean as before, in fact, this is because there are 6 masters behind Daiyu, 5 of them were sent by Jia's mother, and 1 was arranged by Lin Ruhai, the first one is Zijuan, this Zijuan was given to her by Jia's mother, she is responsible for teaching Lin Daiyu's daily rules and family rules, it was originally called Brother Parrot, Zijuan is not Daiyu's maid ring, but Daiyu's sister and good friend, they get along very well, so Daiyu also likes to listen to her.

Not only Daiyu's diet and daily life, but also Zijuan's care, even Daiyu and Zijuan's mood should also be concerned, the most important thing is that Zijuan often educates Daiyu, every time she quarrels with Baoyu, Zijuan will educate Daiyu in a timely manner, Jia's mother also sent four teachers to teach Daiyu, just like the three spring sisters, Jiafu's tutors must not be ordinary people, naturally, she knows what to do, and the four of them are responsible for teaching Daiyu etiquette, words and deeds. If Daiyu's words and deeds are not good, they will teach them privately.

Therefore, Jia Mu has already sent someone to teach Daiyu,There's no need to go out yourself. In this way, Daiyu will not be unhappy, and it will give enough face.

It is to teach Daiyu to keep a distance from Baoyu, one year older and two years younger, not to make mistakes, otherwise it will damage the girl's reputation.

Because we don't have the point, don't educate Lin Daiyu, and she is not a person who grew up in Jiafu.

The next generation is a spoiled child, since ancient times!

She changed her words and said, "I haven't been to school, so I have to recognize a few words", this little girl is really too smart, and she reacts so quickly.

Mother Jia has always raised Daiyu as a skinny horse.

Jia's mother is not her mother.

I think I'm holding back my anger and waiting until the time is right to make a move.

I haven't been to school, so I have to know a few words", this little girl is really too smart.

Mother Jia asked her what books she had read, and she said "I have only read four books", and then politely asked, "What books do the sisters read". Jia Mu said modestly

What they read, they just know a few words, and they shouldn't be blind. As soon as Daiyu heard this, she understood that her words were too flamboyant. Later, Baoyu asked her, "Have you ever been to school", and she changed her words and said:

I haven't been to school, so I have to know a few words", this little girl is really too smart and responds so quickly.

The love between Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu in "Dream of Red Mansions" is the envy of countless people, and in Jia's mansion, there is no shortage of daughters who are born with the beauty of the country, but Jia Baoyu only has a soft spot for this cousin. Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu are not only very compatible with Jia Baoyu in appearance and identity, but also have similar thoughts and common love. Therefore, many people agree with Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu's "Shimu Love", and some people support Xue Baochai and Jia Baoyu's "Golden Jade Relationship".

And Jia's mother happens to be a supporter of "Shimu Love", which means that Lin Daiyu is the second grandmother candidate set by Jia's mother. <>

Although all matters in Jia's mansion are decided by Jia's mother, Jia Baoyu's biological mother, Mrs. Wang, is still alive, and she still has a large part of the right to decide on Jia Baoyu's marriage. Therefore, Mrs. Wang supports the "golden and jade relationship", and Mrs. Wang and Aunt Xue are sisters, so Mrs. Wang naturally hopes that Xue Baochai can marry into the Jia family in the future. Many people believe that Jia's mother delayed Lin Daiyu's marriage, which also indirectly harmed Lin Daiyu's life.

In fact, there is such a partly reason, the reason why Bao Dai and the two are not allowed to get married is that the two are still young. But when Xue Baochai's sister Xue Baoqin came to Jiafu, Jia's mother liked it very much, and specially asked her about her birthday, wanting to marry Jia Baoyu. So it shows that Jia Baoyu has reached the age of marriage, and Xue Baoqin is younger than Lin Daiyu.

Secondly, Yuanchun intended to promote Xue Baochai and Jia Baoyu, but at this time, Jia's mother also clarified her own thoughts, so Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu missed it. <>

Rather than Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu's relationship is so unclear, it is better to deliberately separate the two from the beginning and find a family affair for Lin Daiyu, so that the two will not fall into such a deep trap. It is not that Lin Daiyu died on the sickbed after hearing about Jia Baoyu's marriage. Mother Jia delayed Lin Daiyu to a certain extent, if the two were stranger at the beginning, there would not be such a situation.

But it is precisely because of such a mistake that there will be a classic love story between Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu.

I agree very much, although Mother Jia looks very close to Lin Daiyu, but in fact, she is not so good to Lin Daiyu, so she delayed Lin Daiyu.

Mother Jia always wanted Lin Daiyu to stay by her side, and her promise was to drop the check air, so Lin Daiyu died of depression.

Yes, I also feel that this person actually delayed Lin Daiyu, so I agree with this statement, and this is also one of the four famous novels.

In the end, Jia Mu couldn't fight Mrs. Wang, she was too light on the enemy, thinking that Mrs. Wang was very honest. Power is also hollowed out.

When it comes to the most hated Lin Daiyu in "Dream of Red Mansions", everyone must think of Xue Baochai first, because she is a rival in love; or Shi Xiangyun, because of the arrival of Lin Daiyu, Xiangyun was forced to leave Rongguo Mansion. Or rather, it is an attack, because the attacker has a ...... for BaoyuIn fact, the one who hates Daiyu the most is none other than Jia Baoyu's biological mother, Mrs. Wang. Mrs. Wang hated Daiyu to a certain extent, and she was extremely cruel to Qingwen, who looked a little similar to Daiyu, leading to Qingwen's death. Why does Mrs. Wang hate Daiyu the most?

1. Daiyu is not the ideal daughter-in-law in Mrs. Wang's heart

The ideal daughter-in-law in Mrs. Wang's mind is her niece Xue Baochai. First, Baochai is generally knowledgeable, tolerant and gentle, and has a gentle personality, such a daughter-in-law must have few family conflicts; Second, Baoyu marries a wife, she must be the hostess of Jiafu in the future, and with Baochai's emotional intelligence, she will definitely be able to take care of the family business in an orderly manner, while Daiyu will only be sad and sad; Three responsibilities, the fertilizer and water do not flow into the fields of outsiders, after Baochai and Baoyu got married, the hostess was still his niece, and she was their royal family. <>

Second, Daiyu always lost her temper with Mrs. Wang's precious son Baoyu

As soon as Daiyu entered Jiafu, Baoyu was about to drop jade, which was the beginning of a bad impression. Daiyu loves to be petty, especially to lose her temper with Baoyu. When it was serious, she even provoked Baoyu to fall into jade, and Mother Jia felt that the two were a pair of happy enemies, thinking like this, naturally because of her spoiling of Lin Daiyu.

But my aunt Mrs. Wang doesn't think so, Baoyu is a baby son that he has only had when he is old, and he is a baby pimple-like existence, holding it in his hand for fear of breaking, and holding it in his mouth for fear of melting, how can he bear the anger of other girls? And his son, who is not angry, goes to coax others every time he gets angry. Of course, Mrs. Wang, who protects the calf, will not feel that Baoyu is not angry, but blames Lin Daiyu for being sour and mean, and not knowing the general situation.

3. Mrs. Wang had a holiday with Daiyu's mother

Finally, Daiyu's mother Jia Min is Jia's mother's youngest daughter, and when Mrs. Wang passed the door, Jia Min had not yet left the cabinetSince ancient times, there have been many sisters-in-law who are not harmonious。Perhaps, Daiyu's mother was entangled with Mrs. Wang, and he transferred his emotions to Daiyu.