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If you are hurt a lot, you will slowly build a castle in your heart, and the so-called strong heart is that you won't cry when you're sad, and if you look down on everything, you'll be strong, and you'll be strong if you're not affected by the environment, people, and things.
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Expose your own shadow. Whenever we suppress our emotions, shortcomings, character traits, or talents, we throw those parts in the garbage bag. Bligh said that in the first 30 years of his life, he was busy emptying his most precious parts into garbage bags, which became heavier and heavier as time went on.
As a result, the years to come will be spent rummaging through garbage bags to retrieve and develop those parts that we have discarded. And this process of retrieval is the process of exposing our own shadow and constantly accepting it. Only then will we be able to continue to develop the shades that we once hated.
Accepting the reality that cannot be changed is a necessary thinking for a mature adult. Imagine what you can do if you can't accept what you can't change, like a boulder in front of you, blocking your path forward. There are only two ways for you to move on, the first is to move the boulder, and the second is to accept the powerful presence of the boulder and take a detour.
Which method will you choose. Sometimes, it is wiser to accept the truth that cannot be changed than to change.
Try to change yourself that you can. We all have a lot of shortcomings, but some of them are things that we can change and improve. For example, our eloquence is not good, and there may be times when we will escape from the place and opportunity to speak, so that our so-called "shortcomings" are not displayed in front of others, so as to shape ourselves in the eyes of the outside world.
However, this will only allow you to continue to live in the perfect world you imagined, but sooner or later, the cruelty of the outside world will make you manifest yourself.
There is no other way to change this situation completely than to face up to your problems. You may know that you need to develop your career depending on your strengths, but we have also heard of the "barrel principle", we need to develop faster, and those shortcomings that will have a big impact on us are also things that we need to consider and improve. So try to change yourself that you can change, and when you slowly make your shortcomings not so short, maybe you will be able to accept yourself more easily.
Because the shortcomings no longer exist, there is no need for you to deliberately hide them.
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I think there is a way to do it: Confucius once said: "Those who know the poor have a fate, and those who know the time to understand it, and those who are not afraid in the face of great difficulties are also the courage of saints."
Confucius believed that a person's invincibility depends on his heart, and the strength of his heart comes from his ability to cultivate patience, and after he knows the meaning of the Mandate of Heaven, he is willing to wait for the right moment and finally be able to calm down.
The strength of the heart lies in listening to the destiny of heaven after doing one's best. At the end of the day, the inner strength is to have the courage to face reality and do everything to the best of your ability, but to be bound by fate. There is a proverb in a chapter of the Analects:
If you don't know your life, you won't consider yourself a gentleman. "Destiny, whether it is Taoism, which advocates birth, or Confucianism, which emphasizes accession to the WTO, regards it as the supreme mastery.
The strength of the heart lies in waiting for luck after obeying the mandate of heaven. The ancients always attributed their success or failure to three factors: time, geographical location, and harmony of people, and time often took the first place.
A person with a strong heart is usually a person with a distant heart. The reason he was able to endure a moment of silence was mainly because he believed that the right time would always bring him a bright future. Unfortunately, the wealth of time does not come overnight.
The vast majority of people tend to lose their inner resilience in the long wait, and become suffering from gains and losses and timidity. Its message is to warn the world that this is often the most difficult moment. After patience, you will know which one is stronger.
The root of inner strength lies in trust in one's own abilities. Of course, waiting for a time like sleeping on a paycheck and tasting the bitter fruit requires patience.
The strength of the heart lies in the state of mind after realizing the fortune. The mood of indifference is the selflessness advocated by Confucianism, the leisure that Taoism talks about, the emptiness in Buddhist scriptures, profound cultivation, and the highest state of thought that can help you overcome everything. People who live in this world cannot pray that everything goes well and that the road is smooth.
When you walk among thorns, you will be exhausted. If you can't forget the words of Confucius: "The true inner strength is not the courage to struggle, but the courage of a saint, who is fit for difficult times and is not afraid of difficulties."
Then, Confucius's elaborate cardiotonic has been injected into your mind. So I think by doing this, I can become a strong person on the inside.
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To be truly strong is not to conquer something, but to be able to withstand something. To be truly strong is not to conquer something, but to be able to withstand something. Bear all the pain and suffering that life throws at you, and accept yourself as you really are.
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People with strong hearts have many excellent qualities that ordinary people do not have, such as being strong and resolute, not afraid of difficulties, not afraid of hardships, and the indomitable spirit of moving forward.
At the same time, when encountering ups and downs, they can use their strong regulatory ability to solve difficulties, and the more difficult they are, the stronger they are, and they are not afraid of all problems.
In fact, it is normal for people to live for a lifetime and encounter some hardships and misfortunes, only when there is bitterness can there be sweetness, and only when they experience setbacks will they become strong and have a chance to achieve success.
History and reality have proved that people who are weak in their hearts will not be productive, and those who succeed must be a group with strong hearts.
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Spain and Portugal are located on the same Iberian Peninsula and belonged to the same country in the Middle Ages.
In the first year, King Alfonso of Portugal declared Portugal's independence, but Spain did not recognize it, and the two countries endured more than 300 years of war.
It was not until 1143 AD that Spain recognized Portugal as an independent state. In 1494, Spain and Portugal signed the Treaty of Tordesirias.
The treaty provided for the drawing of a demarcation line between 41° and 45° W, with newly discovered lands east of the line belonging to the Portuguese sphere of influence and newly discovered lands to the west to the Spanish sphere of influence.
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Spain, at the height of Philip II's reign, had conquered Portugal and thus ruled for decades. Soon after the death of Philip II, Portugal regained its independence.
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The Wittgensteins.
When we look at the Forbes list and think that Bill Jr. is the richest man in the world, the people of the Rothschild Wittgenstein family hiding in some castle must think it's ridiculous. They are the richest people in the world. When they were called the Sixth European Reich, the United States had not yet been founded, and when he paid for the war with Lenin from Kolchak Denikin, whom we were familiar with, there was not a single country in the whole of European capitalist countries to help him financially.
One of their families was fighting with Lenin.
The Rothschilds (Redshields).
International ** hyped Bill, who is worth $50 billion, all day long. Gates, when he was re-elected as the richest man in the world, if you believed it, you were fooled. On the well-known so-called rich list, you can't find the "invisible" super-rich at all, because they have long tightly controlled the main ** in the West.
The Rothschild family is still banking today, but if we ask 100 Chinese on the streets of Beijing or Shanghai, 99 of them may know Citibank and not necessarily 1 Rothschild.
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It's been two years together, and when I heard about the breakup, I really couldn't bear it in my heart, I washed my face with tears every day, I didn't want to eat, I didn't want to sleep. But it's okay, thank you
Charm bag.
The two are now back together.
As before, they love each other more than before.
I'm going to get married next year.
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bl?Shy Carrot's Essay (University).
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Our habits have changed to such a one.
Tonight we went on a trip together.
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Kind, smart, lovely...
You just have to listen to the theme song.
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How detailed you haven't finished the original sentence Simple understanding The Smurfs lyrics have a sentence that sings like this Oh, cute Smurfs.
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How detailed you haven't finished the original sentence Simple understanding.
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Looking horizontally, the side of the ridge becomes a peak, and the lonely night spring breeze comes.
The distance and height are different, thousands of trees and peach blossoms.
I don't know the true face of donkeys and horses, and the fat water does not flow into the fields of outsiders.
This fate is in this pit, there is grass on the edge of the nest, why bother to run all over the mountain, 100% repeat customers of Tokyo's powerful merchants.
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YF Qingmei boiled wine, learned impermanence, married chickens and chased chickens, changed the name and surname, buckled.
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