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First of all, I personally think that the best way for couples to express their feelings is "companionship", and they are willing to spend time with each other。Whether it is a friend or a couple, feelings are getting along, the best way to express feelings is to be willing to spend time and energy on each other, willing to accompany each other, for example, once a particularly good friend, even if it is close, with further education, work, family, no time to play together, the relationship will gradually fade. Therefore, if couples want to express their feelings, they don't have to be so complicated, they often go on dates, accompany each other to do what they like, and they can express their feelings from their actions.
Secondly, couples must maintain effective communication in order to further express their feelings。However, if couples want to express their feelings, there is also a premise, that is, two people must maintain effective communication, otherwise both people will not speak directly, do not ask if they have doubts, and will not solve any misunderstandings, always ask each other to guess, and they are not so trusting of each other. In such a state of mutual suspicion, it is impossible to express feelings, and even if you want to express your feelings, what you blurt out is full of distrust.
Moreover, if couples want to express their feelings, they must also figure out what the other person really needs。Sometimes, many people feel that they have paid a lot for each other, and they say anything directly, and never hide it, but it seems that there is always a gap with the other party, and they have done a lot for each other, but the other party always does not appreciate it. In this case, the more you express your feelings, the hotter your feelings become, the more annoying they are, because you don't think from the other person's point of view, you don't understand what the other person really wants, sometimes others obviously want to drink water, but you think that others are hungry, and hand others cookies, and others can understand you.
Finally, couples can also express their feelings by creating some small surprises and small romances。Expressing feelings between couples is really not so complicated, and there is no need to waste too much, as long as you spend more time and energy to accompany each other, spend more time and mind for each other, and occasionally prepare a little gift at the moment outside of birthday and Valentine's Day, such as bringing a bouquet of flowers home at the subway station when you come back from work, or buying back the food you like by the way, these small surprises are also a very good way to express your feelings.
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1 8 Step by Step Reading.
Tell your lover that you love him or her
Although it is often said that actions speak louder than words, words are often more expressive and straightforward than actions. Every now and then we have to say our love to our lovers.
A simple sentence of "I love you or you are all I have" is very useful to make the lover feel cared for, feel loved, and feel safe in a relationship.
2 8 Do things that have not been done together.
People's memories are classified and stored, if you are the first person to think of in each type of memory of the other party, then you will truly have you in me, and you have me.
3 8 Make a little romance.
People who are in love should not only think about giving their girlfriend a surprise on Valentine's Day when they are in love, that is too long, and romance does not have to be at a specific time.
4 8 From time to time, there is an outpouring of love.
Small intimate gestures – pat each other on the back as they pass in the aisle, sit on the couch and put your arms around your lover's shoulders, and place your hands on each other's legs while sitting next to each other.
Holding hands while shopping - it will make your other half feel strong affection and convey your true love. A small touch is important, much stronger than the clouds and rain all night.
5 8 Respect and love for each other.
Many men will be able to speak well in pursuit of being gentle, but after a long time of dating, they will talk inelegant and behave impolitely.
Know that the two sides of the relationship are not objects, they are not meant to be possessed or discarded casually. Both parties should respect each other, rely on each other, find life in love, and learn to keep love in life.
6 8 Integrate into each other's circle of friends.
When two people fall in love and become a couple, they must learn to integrate themselves into each other's social circle or circle of friends, so that they can also chat about the topic, and they can also get to know each other better through friends, so that they know each other, and the more they understand each other's temper, the fewer conflicts will be in the future.
7 8 Reach a consensus in case of trouble.
It's normal to have differences of opinion in life. Disagreement does not mean that the personalities are incompatible, and the two can reach unity of affairs by discussing when dealing with problems.
Ask the other person what they think of the matter, listen to his or her opinion, and then express your own opinion, and convert the two people's opinions into a compromise method to reach a mutually acceptable level. Take a step back and open the sky.
8 8 Find common topics.
The reason why it is called a couple refers to the combination of men and women, the different genders and personalities are obvious, and it is very important for couples to be able to talk about each other, and if they talk about topics that both parties like, the distance will naturally be extraordinarily close. Common topics are a bridge to communicate with each other, and it is not difficult to observe the things that the other person likes to pay more attention to in life. The point is to have a heart.
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After the two have a good feeling, a simple sentence of "I love you or you are all I have" is very useful, which can make the lover feel cared for, feel loved, and feel safe in love.
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