What is the reason for asking a girl out?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-10
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Before the relationship is formalized, use it well"Please help".with"Distance beauty".With two tips, the success rate of dating will be significantly improved.

    1. Ask for help trilogy

    Little thingsAsk for help, pay attention to the "little things" that don't let her know about the trouble, don't take up too much of her time and energy, and do a lot of effort.

    For example, if you are hosting a banquet for your very important client near where the girl works or lives, call her a ** and ask her which restaurants or coffee bars are suitable for entertaining important clients nearby. (Two important points, one is a very important customer, and the other is to use "what" instead of "there is").

    The above is just an example, the specific things to ask for help vary from person to person, think more about the model that suits you

    Thank each otherAfter completing the above help, buy a delicate one within a week, and the price is inLess than 100 yuan(gifts under 100 yuan are suitable for ordinary friends and will not cause psychological pressure), beautifully packaged and then couriered to the girl's workplace.

    Invite her to a noon business meal again, don't be too grand, so as not to come out next time.

    Although it is not said in words, how valuable it is to help, everyone has a beam in their hearts.

    After receiving a gift, you invite her to dinner again, and she will usually come out and rush to pay for it. Influence.

    The principle of reciprocity mentioned in the article, no one wants to take benefits for nothing, since they have received it, they will find a way to pay it back.

    The above is just an example, think about the way of thanks

    Find the topicWhen people get along with each other, the more they have in common, the more topics they have, not only in hobbies, but also in dressing habits, body movements and handling styles.

    Find what you have in common, such as the same zodiac sign, both like the color blue, like to watch movies, play the same game, etc.

    2. Grasp the distance and harvest love

    1. Pay attention to the time distance and space distance, don't make appointments too often, just like a work of art, it is better to fill in the blank space and have more imagination.

    In addition, don't send messages too intensively, and pay attention to avoid two misunderstandings:

    Before the relationship is established, don't disturb the other party too much during the rest time, such as try not to send a message after 9 o'clock in the evening, call **, unless she sends you "Have you slept?" ”

    Use less WeChat****,**Calls will generally be answered happily when you don't have to worry about privacy leakage, and when your relationship has not reached that point, you can't send it at every turn**, which will make the girl disgusted and have a sense of rejection from being spied on.

    2. When meeting, be good at grasping the art of non-verbal communication.

    When she is telling an event, you lean forward to show interest.

    Pushing the cup, when chatting, naturally push your glass closer to hers, if she quickly removes her glass, she may not like you very much.

    If you're talking face-to-face, keep it at a 45-degree angle (adjust the chair angle in advance) to avoid feeling pressured.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can ask the girl for help, because the girl is you, you can thank the other party for the reason of eating, so that you can ask the girl out. If the girl is interested in physical exercise, you can also ask the girl to run with her.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can ask girls to go on a trip, go to a bookstore together, do public welfare activities together, and so on. Especially doing public welfare activities, you can not only ask girls out, but also show your love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Invite her to dinner. Because now everyone is a cook. Asking a girl out for a dry meal is neither embarrassing nor polite.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Find a girl to ask for help in terms of professional ability, so that next time you have a reason to ask her out to eat alone, you can also find something that the girl is interested in, such as asking her to sing if she likes to sing, going to eat if she likes to eat, climbing a mountain if she likes sports, etc.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    For example, if you want to ask a girl some questions, or if you want a girl to do something for you, etc., these reasons are enough to ask the girl out.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, it is very simple for dating girls, you are calm enough in your heart, and your character is good enough. Such as: I miss you, such as: I bought you a small gift, such as: Can I treat you to a meal? I believe it is a very good reason for girls who like you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You can tell the girl that you want to ask her a few questions, and hope that the girl can answer them on the spot, so that you can ask the girl out.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Personally, I think that if we want to ask a girl out, then we can simply ask a girl out for a walk, relax and relax, and this reason is more sufficient.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Understand the other party's preferences, and then find the corresponding venue according to the other party's preferences, you can communicate well with the girl, and it will also make the girl think that you are a very careful person, and the favorability will also increase.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think the reasons why you can come out with girls are:1Have some academic talk with yourself, 2A simple gathering among classmates.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    We all know that when a man likes a woman, the best way to warm up the relationship is to go out on a date with a woman, so how to date a woman more easily? We have summarized the following methods, how many have you used?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Then you find a reason that she can't refuse to ask her, and when you are still dating a girl, you must show your sincerity, if she hates you, no matter how you ask her, he will not come.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    That means he doesn't feel useful to you and doesn't like you. So you better choose someone else, don't waste time.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It shows that she is unwilling to go out with you and has no feelings for you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Girls who can't make an appointment don't want to date, girls don't have feelings for you, don't like you so they don't want to hang out with you, don't want to waste time on you, and find a reason to reject you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Find the next girl, never hang yourself from a tree, or you will end up suffering yourself.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If it's like this every time, find all kinds of reasons, it means that she is rejecting you, she doesn't like you, so give up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This shows that she doesn't like you, so she doesn't want to go out with you, so you might as well give up.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you have never met and don't want to meet, if the other party asks for money or something, you still have to be careful, it may be a lie.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Summary. There are too many reasons to let girls go out on a date, but if girls don't want to date each other, try to avoid saying the word "date", you can be euphemistic, such as: 1, I found that the dishes in such and such a store are really delicious, I will take you over to taste.

    2, so-and-so movie is about to be released, this movie has a super high rating on the Internet, I invite you to enjoy it?

    3, so-and-so is on the field to do activities, things are super cheap, how about we go and pick up a leak together?

    4. I heard that there are meteors tonight The weather is very good tonight, and you can see a lot of stars, so go downstairs and take a look?

    Give girls a reason to come out on a date.

    There are too many reasons to let girls go out on a date, but if girls don't want to date each other, try to avoid saying the word "date", you can be euphemistic, such as: 1, I found that the dishes in such and such a store are really delicious, I will take you over to taste. 2, so-and-so movie is about to be released, this movie has a super high rating on the Internet, I invite you to enjoy it?

    3, so-and-so is on the field to do activities, things are super cheap, how about we go and pick up a leak together? 4. I heard that there are meteors tonight The weather is very good tonight, and you can see a lot of stars, so go downstairs and take a look?

    Thank you. You're welcome

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In the beginning, I was looking for something small! For example, if you have something to borrow from her, then borrow, then return, then please eat, then go to the supermarket by the way, and then pay attention to what she likes to eat, buy it for her in the future, and slowly find all kinds of small things to create opportunities together! Coupled with humorous words, I believe it will be done soon!

    Hehe! Good luck!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You don't really need a reason to ask a girl.

    Ask her directly. Do you have time for xx days?

    Let's come out and have fun.

    Too high-sounding reasons will make girls think that you are scheming.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Introduction: Many boys want to date the girl they like but can't find a suitable reason, what should they do? In fact, boys must first be psychologically not afraid of rejection, so as to facilitate the next invitation.

    Speaking of the reason for the invitation, here are a few recommended methods, I hope you can successfully ask the goddess out!

    In fact, it will be more difficult to find a suitable reason to suddenly invite a girl out to play, and it will be very purposeful. You can create more opportunities for future invitations in normal times, such as chatting more about each other's hobbies, and then agreeing to be together at a certain time! Or integrate into each other's circle of friends, etc., which can make future invitations twice as effective with half the effort!

    It is common to ask girls out for dinner. The method of dating a girl, of course, you have to find a reason for eating, otherwise the girl will obviously feel your purpose, and according to the girl's personality, she will generally resist. So the reason must be comfortable with the other person (although it is easy to see your purpose), for example, it will be easier to invite her to dinner on the grounds that she has helped you or to build a friendship, etc., than to be straightforward.

    Girls prefer to watch movies, especially anime and romance movies. Generally, a girl will not refuse a guy to ask her to watch a movie, unless she is really in trouble or you don't have a good impression of you. And the movie is not easy to be embarrassed than other projects, and the girls are more comfortable, if you are also interested in the movie, you also have to talk after watching the movie!

    As for the reason, let's just say that it is a very good movie recently, but it is too boring to watch a movie alone, so it is better to be a companion together!

    A girl refuses a boy's invitation, in addition to having no good feelings for him at all, another reason may be embarrassment. Many girls will be nervous to be alone with a boy they like, afraid that they can't find a topic to talk about, etc. Therefore, find some familiar friends and ask her out to have a higher success rate!

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