Older leftover women, a person who likes himself but doesn t like him chooses to accept or reject

Don't force yourself If you just want to get married and be with him Then don't you feel very sad I think you should not be too naïve The Internet is unreliable You just saw his surface Do you know his family situation Have you met his parents Let's learn more Confirm that he is not ** and he really loves you Wait until you really fall in love with him from the bottom of your heart Then consider getting married.

Loved ones are happy! Those who love others are blessed! Two people who love each other are hard to come by! Many of them are fleeting, and a lifetime of happiness is considered! What is your future focus on family? Child? Or yourself?

Calm down and think carefully about what you really need. Is it a vigorous love or a stable and ordinary life. If you meet someone you like, you should be brave enough to chase it, and if you like yourself, then try to see it, give yourself a chance and give the other party a chance.

It's good to ask your heart before you do anything, and feel worthy of yourself.

See what you think about love!

Love and marriage are not the same, love is often vigorous, but marriage is going to last a lifetime, maybe today you meet a person you don't like and he likes you, maybe one day you will meet a person you like and he doesn't like you, and eventually you will meet him who is like a true son, and that he may be you knew before, or has been on a blind date!

Life is like this, the opportunity is grasped by yourself, and hesitation is not the way!

Here's wishing you a happy life!

A street kid who is still looking for love! Hehe.

What is the concept of leftover women? . . Women do not live to bear children to others

If it's not something you like, give it up, I'm a good example.

Let's talk to my brother. Brother is the president of the 'Utopian Ideal Association'...

Older leftover women, true love is hopeless, you can't marry someone you don't like, because marriage is a lifelong thing, rather than indiscriminate, true love is the most important.

Yes, if you think that person has a good personality, gets along well, and is willing to take care of you, then you can marry him and live a respectful life according to his needs.

Anyway, if it were me, I wouldn't recommend that you choose to find someone to marry because of your age, after all, marriage is really linked to the happiness of your life

First of all, you have to have financial strength, you must be stable, you can spend time with each other, and then you can also spend money on each other, and you must have a stable residence.

You should find what she is interested in, understand her eating habits, understand her routine, and usually pay more attention to her and send her more messages.

You have to chase the other party steadfastly, which is good for you, and you can also let the other party know your attitude and make the other party feel that you are very stable.

First of all, you have to think like this, there must be a reason behind the leftover girls of the older age, I saw some funny blind date scenes in the movie, which gave people a kind of revelation, there are some older leftover girls who don't seem to have any problems, but when you really communicate with her in front of you, you will find that the problem is very big, and the reason why they are left behind is for unique reasons, for example, some people may be because of psychological reasons, and some people may be because of various unspeakable reasons, When a woman doesn't marry herself off for many years, I have reason to suspect that she has some unspeakable secrets that she doesn't want to be talked about.

This topic reminds me of buying vegetables in the supermarket, maybe this example is not appropriate here, first of all, I want to show that I don't mean to be enemies of all women, just make a simple analogy, when buying vegetables in the supermarket, everyone will pick those that are fresher, the quality is better to buy first, and after the purchase, the rest may be sold at a discount in the supermarket, because these vegetables may not be as fresh or as good as the previous ones, Therefore, I can understand that these dishes often have some flaws and are picked on by others. Speaking of which, it is already very vivid, and it seems that there is a certain truth in using this principle in the case of older leftover women.

I did encounter such a problem when I went on a blind date, those older leftover girls have a very high vision, even very harsh, I once met a girl who looks okay, she can work in her 30s, but she always feels that she is particularly good, thinking that she can be matched with a better man, her eyes are on the top of her head, and she uses all kinds of eggs to pick bones to demand each other harshly, this is the terrible thing about older leftover women, If she hadn't had such harsh demands, she might not have survived to this day, so the poor must have something to hate.

To sum up, there must be a reason why the older leftover girl was left behind, and I may not be willing to accept the reasons why she was left behind.

The phenomenon of a large number of older leftover women is abnormal, and the essence is that the supply and demand situation in some areas has changed.

Because older leftover women have no experience of marriage, they regard themselves as high, arrogant and unsociable, and their ideas and practices are a little extreme, which is different from ordinary people, so they refuse to choose older leftover women.

1. The temper of older leftover women is strange and difficult to get along with. A few older leftover women that I came into contact with around me. They are not ugly, and they all have certain abilities at work, but they have a very common characteristic, that is, they have an eccentric temper, always unsociable, and like to go their own way, and they feel that it is particularly difficult to get along with her.

Often many older leftover women are more self-righteous, often thinking that what they say is right, only insisting on their own opinions, and not liking to listen to other people's opinions. Therefore, because of the eccentric temper of older leftover women, men basically will not marry older leftover women unless they are forced to do so.

Second, older leftover women are demanding, picky, and difficult to meet.

The reason why many women become leftover women is because they have higher requirements, and they don't look down on ordinary men. So the more picky they are, the higher their vision, even if they are very good men, they can't look down on them, so in the end, it becomes more and more difficult for men to meet her requirements, and this will form a vicious circle, resulting in the older the woman, the more she can't get married.

In fact, many women who can't find a partner are ruined by the requirements for men. In this world, there are not many men who are too good, and if women want to pursue perfection, they will be easily left behind. And this has become another big reason why men don't like older leftover women.

3. Older leftover women often don't understand feelings and have low emotional intelligence.

Many women are not chased after them when they reach a certain age, often not because they are not good enough, but because women's emotional intelligence is too low and they don't know how to fall in love. Maybe in the process of interacting with a man, the man has already given her a certain hint, but she can't see through it at all, and she rejects the man vigorously, so it is difficult for such a woman to get a boyfriend, and it is easy to be left because of this weakness. Therefore, older leftover women are easy to be disliked by men, most likely because the emotional intelligence of older leftover women is too low and they are unable to communicate their feelings at all.

Therefore, if a woman wants to avoid becoming an older leftover woman, she must get rid of her own bad habits.

Because older leftover women will make people feel very oppressed, they will feel as if they have experienced a lot, too mature, and I am very uncomfortable.

Because older leftover women tend to be very high-minded, very picky, and too mature, not the type I like.

According to the teachings of the elders in the family, they feel that older girls may have more difficulties in giving birth in the future. There are also older girls, who may be more emotionally rich and more deeply involved in the world.

I reject older leftover women because age affects fertility, and women who are too old to have children are not good for women and children.

I refused to choose older leftover women because they couldn't find the partner they wanted, so they just came to us, and they had a high-minded mentality, which made me very uncomfortable.

Because I think older leftover women have more or less psychological problems, so they will be left.

I think the reason why there are more and more older leftover women in this society is mainly because they have experienced the stage of too high vision, and they find that they are more suitable for a person's life, and gradually have the idea of not marrying. The fundamental thing is that it is mainly because of his vision is too high, and he can't find a suitable other half in real life, or he can't have the idea of getting married and having children at all, of course, this is not only entirely due to his vision, but for most older leftover women, it is indeed because they have not found their favorite person.

When it comes to the topic of older leftover women, I believe women have a lot to say. There is indeed such a group of people in real life, who have reached the age of marriage and children, but they have not taken action for a long time, although the family has urged marriage many times, and even arranged many blind dates, but they are not very satisfied. We call this kind of people older leftover women, so as an older leftover girl, is it because she is affected by unmarriage, or is it because she has too high a vision?

Below I will give a brief analysis of my views.

At the root of it, the development trend and trend of older leftover women are removed, and the reason why older leftover women exist is simply because they have not found something that satisfies them in real life. Whether it is height and appearance, or family background, or character and personality, older leftover women, when choosing their favorite other half, there will always be a lot of factors to consider, if once you find that the other party can not satisfy yourself, then the older leftover women will decisively reject them and continue to walk their own leftover women's road. High vision makes older leftover women exist, but there are also some people who don't know how to get along with the opposite sex at all, and even start to like a person's life, so at this time they will gradually develop towards the trend of older leftover women.

From this point of view, the reason why a small number of people become older leftover women is actually related to the non-marriage caused by their habits.

all have an impact. With the emergence of more and more unmarried women, many young women have been given the courage not to marry and live their own lives. In addition, women are getting better and better, and the vision of picking people will inevitably become higher.

Neither, it's a matter of personal choice. Marriage that does not want to get married or does not want to cover one's head is responsible for marriage, oneself, and one's other half.

I think it must be that I have more and more vision, or it may be influenced by unmarriageism, but if you fall in love, falling in love can also bring you certain benefits, so don't be too blind.

I think there are more and more older leftover women, mainly because my vision is too high. His vision is high, and on another level, the conditions of boys are too poor.

Many girls have been pursuing academic or career achievements when they are young, and they have not considered the issue of marriage, and as they become more and more successful, their requirements for the other half are getting higher and higher, and they don't want to wronged themselves, and they have become older leftover girls in the process of picking and choosing.

There are more and more older leftover women, most of them are because their vision is too high, they just don't see the right eye, and they would rather lack than abuse, so they have been single.