For a woman who has been cold to you for a long time, how to deal with it is the best?

Let go, because her coldness means that she is not interested in you, no matter how hard you try, she can't see your goodness, and letting go is a good thing for you and her.

Take the initiative to communicate with the other party and resolve the cold state. Understand her inner thoughts and opinions about herself, and change herself.

It is best to take the initiative to reconcile, because it is only through active reconciliation that you can make a difference in your relationship.

The best thing to do is to make yourself attractive and attractive enough, so that you can better distance yourself from each other and make women enthusiastic about you.

1. Try to please her first

Both men and women in love are more sensitive, and if a girl suddenly becomes cold to herself, then the boy will feel it at the first time. If you feel your girlfriend's coldness, don't ask her what's wrong at the beginning, you have to know that there are some things in the girl's psychology that you want to tell you, but you don't want to talk about it when you ask her, so don't be in a hurry to ask, don't make any big moves, behave a little more attentively than usual, and treat her better.

There are also some small details in daily contact that you have to be a little more careful, you must know that sometimes her coldness is just trying to get your attention.

2. See if she's in any trouble

In reality, there are many girls who will completely rely on their boyfriends when they fall in love, whether it is the troubles at home or some trivial matters at work, they will tell their boyfriends one by one.

But there are also some people who have strong personalities, and also belong to more assertive and empathetic girls, they will choose to carry everything down by themselves, and will not let their boyfriends know, after all, a girl's ability is also limited, when they encounter some unsolvable troubles, they will choose to be indifferent to everything, so when you find that she is suddenly cold to you, you have to observe from her side, to see if she has encountered trouble recently.

3. Reflect on whether there is anything wrong with you

As long as your girlfriend is not half-hearted with you or encounters something else, her coldness may be due to your relationship, for example, you find that you have been hiding some things, and you know that you have made mistakes but you don't care about these at all, so these behaviors are likely to directly cause her attitude towards you, especially the things you have been hiding, once she finds out, she will naturally start to be cold to you.

Therefore, you have to think about it quickly, whether there is something hidden that she doesn't know, and her coldness is also giving you a chance.

If your relationship is not bad, or even a little ambiguous, you should consolidate the relationship, and the occasional anger of a woman with you will not cause your relationship to break down. So you don't just disappear for a month or two, so that the woman will be insecure about you. If you disappear like this, what you will lose is your friendship.

Women are sensual and fickle, and if you don't consolidate and upgrade your relationship, your favorability will be lost. Moreover, the woman you have a crush on, you may also have other men in your eye, when you have a good relationship, she will automatically block the pursuit of other men, but during the time you disappear, it is easy for other men to take advantage of it.

She is cold to you, analyze what the cause is, only find the problem, in order to come up with a way to deal with it, there may be contradictions between you, this requires you to take the initiative to communicate with each other, eliminate misunderstandings.

In this case, eighty percent of them mean that you have made a serious mistake. There is also a 20% possibility that the girl suddenly met a better man than you or something big happened, such as the death of a loved one or going to another place for development, etc. But if it's the former, then you must understand the mechanism of why this situation arises.

If the mechanism is understood, then there is still the possibility of remedy, at least death must be understood.

Women are cold to you, if you like her and love her, you should love her with your heart, care about her, let women feel your love, your care, and will not be cold to you.

You don't mess with flowers, you should do what men do, often collude with women, accompany and be considerate of women.

Let's look for the reason within ourselves.