Please recommend a book about being a human being

Confucius's Analects is the best.

Learning to be a man starts from self-cultivation, starting from improving self-cultivation, if you really want to learn how to behave, don't just look for skills, that will inevitably seem contrived. If what you want to do from your heart is recognized by others, it proves that you will be a person. Lao Tzu once said:

The mouth is the gateway to the heart. Self-cultivation will improve a person's ideological consciousness, improve the connotation of a person's speech, and thus improve a person's image. If a person's cultivation is not attained, it is impossible to say profound things and do admirable things.

1, "Caigen Tan" - Hong Yingming.

Caigen Tan" is a collection of quotations on cultivation, life, life, and birth, which is a rare sermon in ancient times. For people's righteous self-cultivation and moral cultivation, there is an incredible subtle power.

Its writing is concise and clear, and it is elegant and vulgar. It is like a quotation, but it has an interest that quotations do not have; It is like an essay, but there is a rectification that is not easy to reach in an essay; It is like an admonition, but there is a cordial sobriety that the admonition lacks; And there are mountains after the rain, the night is quiet and the bell is dyed, and what it says is clear and flavorful, and the wind and moon are boundless.

2, "Fireside Night Talk" - Wang Yongbin.

Fireside Night Talk is a popular Confucian book written by Wang Yongbin, a famous literary critic of the Qing Dynasty. Evaluate and discuss the anecdotes, people, events, and articles in the literary world at that time and before. The implication is profound.

3, "The Story of a Small Window" - Chen Jiru.

The whole book begins with waking up and ends with Qian, although it is mixed in the dust, it looks at things from above; In the criticism of the dripping style of the world, it reveals the coldness of the philosopher, and its aphorisms are exquisite, short and exquisite, urging people to be vigilant and provincial, and beneficial to people's minds. Since its inception, it has been attracting the attention of readers again and again.

4, "The World Without Complaining" - Will Bowen.

The magical "no complaining" movement proposed by the author of this book can be seen in this way: there are only three things in the world: my business, his business, and God's business.

People who complain about themselves should learn to accept themselves; Those who complain about others should turn their complaints into requests; Those who complain about God, try prayer to appeal to your desires.

5, "Zeng Guofan's Family Book" - Zeng Guofan.

The Book of Zeng Guofan's Family is a collection of letters written by Zeng Guofan in the mid-19th century. Zeng's family letters are written calmly and calmly, free in form, come to them with any thoughts, and write freely, which contains true knowledge and conscience in ordinary family routines, and has strong persuasive and appealing power.

6, "The Road Less Traveled" - M. Scott Peck.

The Road Less Traveled is a book published by Jilin Literature and History Publishing House in 2007, written by M. Scott Peck. The book describes how the author flexibly uses traditional psychoanalytic methods to solve life's conflicts and problems.

The World Without Complaining This is what I've seen. Very good, very tasting, very feeling, to help you to mature.

Who moved my cheese. Very highly regarded. It has been reprinted several times. But I think the core is easy to summarize, which is to teach a person that they should take action and adapt positively in different situations.

This life is unfinished, and I am very touched to see it. The white cover is very elegant and clean. I like it. Her deeds also make people think about life.

Autobiographies of some great men, Marie Curie, Rockefeller, ......Looking at their mental journey and the hardships they have paid to succeed often make us introspect.

Since you graduated from the college entrance examination, there is also a book on what you should read in college to prepare for your college life. Well, there's a plan

Of course, I can't say it completely, so the recommended book "101 Books to Read in Four Years of College" Wuhan Publishing House has all kinds of good bibliographies in it. I think it's very practical, especially for young people.

Finally, about thick black learning, if you like it, read it, the key is to read your own feelings! There are not so many taboos in reading, just read good books and books that you feel about!

Hee-hee, hope it helps!

366 strategies for dealing with the world.

Xu Rongsheng is the editor-in-chief.

Beijing: Hualing Publishing House.

Dealing with the world de game skills.

Edited by Wang Yu. Harbin: Harbin Publishing House, 2006

231 pages. Caigen Tan: A complete set of people in the world.

Ming) by Hong Yingming; Translated by Tang and Han.

Beijing: China International Translation and Publishing Corporation, 2000

394 pages. Conduct yourself in the world and learn from the dark.

Edited by Zhao Ding. Beijing: ** Publishing House, 2004

248 pages. Quotes on how to do things.

Edited by Conan. Beijing: Huayi Publishing House, 1997

401, 21 pp.

Modern Conduct in the World: [Conduct in the world is the capital of your success in life] edited by Wang Bin.

Beijing: Unity Press, 2003

339 pages. Carnegie's inspirational book of success.

Dale Carnegie

Carnegie; Iron farmer compilation.

Beijing: Contemporary World Press, 2005

544 pages. Carnegie succeeded in convincing the classics.

Feng Zhenyi, Zhang Xiuying, eds.

Beijing: China Times Economic Press, 2002

The strengths of human nature, the weaknesses of human nature.

Dale Carnegie; Compiled by Xie Yan and Zheng Rong.

Beijing: China Federation of Literary and Art Circles Publishing Company.

The virtues of human nature.

Dale Carnegie

Carnegie; Compiled by Liu Qing.

Hailar: Inner Mongolia Culture Publishing House, 2001

Recipe for success. Dale Carnegie (Andrew

Carnegie; Compiled by Liu Qing.

Hailar: Inner Mongolia Culture Publishing House, 2001

370 pages. Carnegie's classic eloquence.

Dale Carnegie (Andrew

Carnegie; Compiled by Liu Qing.

Hailar: Inner Mongolia Culture Publishing House, 2001

356 pages. Towards success.

Dale Carnegie (Andrew

Carnegie; Compiled by Liu Qing.

Hailar: Inner Mongolia Culture Publishing House, 2001

Carnegie's human weaknesses are very good, and you can also read the following Caigen Tan, Xiao Window Youji, Roland Xiaoyu, etc., Yu Dan's Analects and Zhuangzi are also very good, and they are very enlightening for life.

The one I read myself, it is Kai-Fu Lee's, "Be the Best Self", it feels good, you can take a look, it is worth recommending!