How do I deal with this feeling?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-19
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Judging from what you said, you may be very infatuated, maybe she has always regarded you as a best friend, a friend who has nothing to say, and you have spent a very happy time together, but that is not necessarily love, friendship is actually longer than love. She didn't tell you earlier, because she was afraid that you would be sad, and she was also afraid that after the matter was clarified, you wouldn't even have to be friends. It can be seen that she also cherishes this friendship very much.

    She also thinks it's very happy to get along with you, but you're not the object of her relationship, she just relies on you like a big brother. You didn't ride a tiger, don't be sad about it, you may feel that she rejected you and made you sad, and you can't get over it in terms of face, and you don't know how to face her in the future. But feelings can not be forced, you can change your mind, you can think that you have never had only a valuable friendship, not love, you can make it clear to her, and you will always be good friends in the future.

    Although it is difficult and difficult to do this, you will be very sad and reluctant, but friendship is also so happy and will last a long time. Maybe there are people behind you who like you very much, love you very much, and are willing to give everything for you, but you don't realize it. I wish you that you can find someone who loves you very much, and you can be together happily for the rest of your life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Ninety-nine out of a hundred such feelings end without a problem. It can only be left to be remembered.

    Decisively get out of the knot in your heart, re-enter the love field, and wish you a successful start.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There's nothing wrong with liking someone, work hard so you won't regret it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Yes. Time will dilute everything.

    You don't have to worry too much about that. Observe the other girls.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't know how to comfort you. But I also have someone I really like. I've always been unrequited love too. Not very happy, though.

    But if we are with a loved one. Isn't it our happiness that we want? So shouldn't we choose to let them pursue their own happiness?

    If you really love, you just let it go. Better a finger off than always aching. If you keep pestering, the pain is that the two of you are together with someone you don't love.

    You can't control the heart of the person who can control him. Sometimes if you pay attention, you will actually find that there is a lot of happiness around you. Not for a flower.

    Happiness was sacrificed! Do it yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's better to let the relationship go with the flow, if the two really love each other, there is nothing that can't be solved.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Time will dilute everything, forget about it.

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