About a psychological problem of jealousy, what kind of mental illness jealousy is

Maybe she wants to know more about you. I really think your vision is very good. She likes it too. I accidentally imitated it like this. Sometimes. The two of them have been together for a long time. Taste will get closer and closer.

And it doesn't seem like you're treating her as a girlfriend. Really treat her as a good friend. You shouldn't care if you become sisters.

Friendship is precious, but don't force yourself, you need to distance yourself from her to calm yourself, maybe you need to change the way you interact with someone like her. In fact, there is nothing to imitate or not imitate, look away.

Jealousy is the original sin of human beings, and you can look at everything, and there is no special effect on this, and it's up to you how you deal with it.

Either she may hate you or she has a crush on you.

Maybe it's because she always learns from you, tell her clearly, why bother making yourself uncomfortable, it's better to break off friendship.

Open your heart, she imitates you to show that she is sad.

Explanation: Jealousy is a common social psychological phenomenon, and one of its major characteristics is "directivity", that is, jealousy is conditional, it will only arise within a certain range, and it is directed to a certain object. In other words, not everyone who surpasses himself in some way will be jealous, an athlete who wins a world championship, a scientist who wins a Nobel Prize, we will only envy and not be jealous.

Jealousy is a feeling that tends to arise between friends, classmates, and other people who are close or familiar with each other.

**: Take the initiative to communicate and win understanding, that is, it is not easy for me;

Encourage at the right time, don't hesitate to help, even if you can too, I will help you;

Emotional people, love to dissolve jealousy;

show weakness moderately, so as to give way to disputes;

Strong quality, to convince people with talent.

Jealousy is that people live the way you want them to be.

Jealousy is that you can't ask for it and can't let it go.

Jealousy is that you are not good enough, and you can't see that the people around you are better than you.

Envy is when you can't get what you want, but others can get it.

Jealousy is wishing you well, but I want you to be worse than me.

Jealousy is when you lose, but no one thinks about why you lose and always questions why others won.

Jealousy is that you can't get used to seeing people you know better than you.

Jealousy is to surpass him, to surpass all those who are not used to him.

Jealousy is not as good as other people's inferiority complex and the sense of crisis that something is going to be snatched away.

Jealousy is anger at one's own incompetence.

3. Admit jealousy.

The feeling of jealousy revealed to myself a fact that I was most unwilling to admit, and I felt inferior.

People who don't like to be in the limelight are afraid that they will steal the limelight of their own.

We often say, don't compare yourself with others, this is easier said than done.

When you feel that someone else is not getting what he deserves, that feeling is called jealousy.

In fact, jealousy is not terrible, what is terrible is to indulge one's jealousy and refuse to admit one's jealousy.

When we start to be jealous of someone, then we need to be ready to start acting and be ready to surpass them.

Jealousy is a negative emotional experience that causes resistance due to the superiority of others over one's own possessions. When you see that others are better than you, your heart is sour, and you will have a complex emotion that contains hatred and envy, anger and resentment, suspicion and disappointment, humiliation and vanity, and sadness and grief, and this emotion is jealousy. The envious person cannot tolerate others surpassing him, and is afraid that others will get the fame and status that he cannot obtain, and in his opinion, others should not do what he cannot do, and what he cannot get, others should not get.

The degree of jealousy varies from shallow to deep, and the shallower degree of jealousy is often hidden deep in people's subconscious and is not easy to detect. For example, if you are good friends with a classmate, his academic performance and ability are strong, and he does not want to attack his good friend, but he always feels a little sour in his heart. And a deeper degree of jealousy will be consciously or unconsciously manifested, such as picking on classmates who are more capable than themselves, spreading rumors, and framing them.

Jealousy not only affects physical and mental health, but also affects study and work. Strong jealousy directly affects people's emotions, and bad emotions can greatly reduce the efficiency of study or work. In addition, jealousy can prevent us from making close friends.

Jealous people tend to be competitive in everything, often trying to stop the development of others, and always want to overpower others. This may make classmates and friends want to avoid you and not associate with you. As a result, you will create a bad interpersonal atmosphere for yourself, and you will feel lonely and lonely.

How to overcome? 1.Cultivate an open-minded attitude towards life, be open-minded, and understand that "there is a sky outside the world, and there are people outside the world", and "the strong have their own strong hands", which is an objective law.

2.Divert your attention and give yourself a reason not to be jealous.

When we have so much to do, we don't have time to be jealous of others. Therefore, actively participate in all kinds of beneficial activities, study hard, work diligently, and make yourself truly fulfilled, then the poison of jealousy will not breed and spread. In order to alleviate the psychological imbalance caused by your failure, you can find some reasons to stop being jealous of others.

3.See your strengths and turn jealousy into motivation.

When a person is jealous of others, he always pays attention to the good in others, but he cannot pay attention to what he is better than others. In fact, everyone is inferior to others, and when others surpass us in some aspects, we can consciously think about what we are better than the other party, so that our unbalanced psychological balance will be restored to a balanced state.

In short, it's not terrible to be jealous of others, the key is to see if you can face up to jealousy. You might as well use the strong superconsciousness of jealousy to work hard, sublimate this jealousy, turn jealousy into the motivation for success, turn negativity into positive, and surpass others!