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Solving the root cause of the matter is on you. You need to find a job. Now parents are noisy because of your problems.
work, don't force too good. Start small. Depending on your situation, you can find a unit that works from home.
My husband is a network engineer and works at home on the computer every day. When your parents see you working, they may feel more relaxed. You have to learn to adjust the atmosphere.
And don't think that others will help you, society is like this, you need to rely on your own efforts.
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Sympathize with what happened to you! Born with a disability, it is not something that ordinary people can endure! You did, at least not heard.
You blame you for your disability for everything, say you're a waste or something! Very good!
If you want to change this situation, a single requirement will not work on the one hand! Your dad is stressed! You have to understand!
The only thing that can be done!
Step up your game! Try hard!!
Keep working hard !!
When you succeed in your studies, what happens to your disability?
What happens to disability when you're better than anyone else?
Make a difference! Reduce the stress at home! Your dad wouldn't be like that!
I can't find a job now because you are not enough, you are not doing enough! Not enough effort! Do you understand?
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My dad is similar, always self-righteous, dead to save face, but I don't know how incompetent he is, his family is not very good, he also smokes, drinks and gambles, I really don't want to recognize him, since I was a child, I have often experienced parents quarreling and fighting, it is already commonplace, which also makes me much stronger, but it will be very heartbreaking when I mention it.
In fact, temper is also difficult to change, and my dad has a bad temper, so he can't be talked about him.
I think only you can change the situation in your home and find a job as soon as possible, you can change the atmosphere in your home, good luck!
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Support the first floor! One person takes on the responsibility of raising a family. The pressure can be imagined. Learn to understand. Learn to communicate. This is the best way to do it.
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When I was a child, when my parents quarreled, I said, "If you are arguing, I won't study." It's useful, now they haven't quarreled for many years.
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If you are coding, you don't have to go out to work to make money.
At the end of the day, it's all your father's problem.
From your point of view, your mother is the victim.
But from your father's point of view. You can't find a job. There is no income. You have to take on the responsibility of raising a family by yourself. The pressure can be imagined. Learn to understand. Learn to communicate. This is the best way to do it.
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When adults quarrel, they hide by themselves, and out of sight is pure.
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Generally speaking, it is not right for children to quarrel between parents, and we must reflect on it. Parents should be careful not to leave a shadow on their children's childhood, so that the children will be particularly scary. Some children grow up to recall the scene of their parents' quarrel and become very short-tempered.
Mom and Dad quarrel with themselves, if you can't persuade yourself, you must choose to stay away.
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I feel like you can solve the problem between them, and if the problem is solved, they won't quarrel.
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You can be a peacemaker, if the fruit can't persuade them, then you can simply persuade them to divorce, if it doesn't work, then you can only choose to ignore it.
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Parents should be discouraged first, then understand the reasons for the quarrel, and then prescribe the right medicine to solve the problem, so as to avoid the parental quarrel.
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Summary. Hello kiss good evening! Glad to answer your questions, every time my parents quarrel because of me what should I do?
Dear, if your parents are always arguing because of you, don't blame yourself too much, because it's definitely not your fault alone. You must have accounted for part of the reason why they quarreled. But you can't blame yourself for everything.
If they're fighting over your grades, you can try to improve your grades. If it's because of something else about you, you can try to change it.
Hello kiss good evening! Glad to answer your questions, every time my parents quarrel because of me what should I do? Dear, if your parents are always arguing because of you, don't blame yourself too much, because this is not just your fault.
You must have accounted for part of the reason why they quarreled. But you can't blame yourself for everything. If they're fighting over your grades, you can try to improve your grades.
If it's because of something else about you, you can try to change it.
You can also communicate well with your parents and tell them not to quarrel over your affairs and that you will change.
Dear, parents have their own reasons for insisting because you must be disturbed by quarrels, and it is difficult for them to decide the outcome of their quarrels, so you stand up and make a choice. If your parents quarrel because you made a mistake, then you must admit your mistake first, and then persuade your parents separately, and you must make corrections if you are hungry. As the saying goes, the bell must be tied to the bell, although we are still small, but a sentence may be able to calm the quarrel between parents.
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Summary. Directly, children should not be persuaded to fight. Unless they treat you as a treasure, or have been pampering you, or if you can fight two at a time, you have the ability to fight.
Otherwise, you're not fit to fight. Instead, you can talk to them when they are arguing. I'll go out for a while, and after you guys are done, call me home after the fight!
In some cases, this kind of behavior is also a way to make them wake up or calm down.
Because his parents quarreled.
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Directly, children should not be persuaded to fight. Unless they treat you as a treasure, or have been pampering you, or if you can fight two at a time, you have the ability to fight. Otherwise, you're not fit to fight.
Instead, you can talk to them when they are arguing. I'll go out for a while, and after you guys are done, call me home after the fight! In some cases, this kind of behavior is also a way to make them wake up or calm down.
It's tonight I want to move the desk, and then my mother thinks I have a lot of things, move the books down, move panic, the room is still quite cold, don't agree, dad on the side of nothing, wait for me to move half of the dad came to help me do it over there, and said arrogantly let me move over there, don't come back, he is not suitable to be a father, after a while my mother is worried that I am cold to get me a quilt Dad told my mother that I know the heat and cold don't care, and then began to quarrel. I didn't say anything, I felt guilty, my father scolded directly, smoked a cigarette, my mother went back to the house, and I was also in the house.
I think he is really not suitable to be a father, he knows that he scolds his children and quarrels with his wife, and he knows money very little since I was a child, and when I am older, I don't know anything, I don't know anything, I really want to say, you are not worthy of being a father, you have no responsibility at all, just let me be alone, let alone accompany me.
I don't know anything and pretend to know. I'm a junior high school child.,Next year's high school entrance examination.,Usually do your homework, he's next to him and let me take a break.,I'm too tired.,The tone is very annoying.,Please help me.,Please.。
Actually, I understand your feelings, you can try to talk to your dad first, you are not too young, just talk to your dad according to your logic, talk about it in an adult way. Don't dwell on yourself and blame yourself for the reason.
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Summary. Hello parents are always arguing, this is a mode of getting along with them. Let's put it this way, whether it is parents or grandparents, their patterns of getting along with each other are formed over the years, and it is difficult to change.
It can even be said that they will be overwhelmed if they are suddenly asked to change their three views and change their habits.
Instead of spending time and energy trying to change them, you should change yourself. Let yourself have a better mentality, become a sunny person, and use your sunshine to influence your family, although the influence is not very large, but it is still somewhat useful.
First of all, when encountering this kind of thing, children generally choose to escape. I think this is instinctive, but you must understand the contradictions, analyze the reasons for the contradictions, and then decide whether to persuade peace, how to persuade peace, I am an only child, there is no way to avoid it, I must stand up and persuade peace, take myself as an example.
My parents always quarrel with me what to do.
We understand your feelings very well.
Consulted. Hello parents are always arguing, this is a mode of getting along with them. Let's put it this way, whether it is parents or grandparents, their patterns of getting along with each other are formed over the years, and it is difficult to change.
It can even be said that they will be overwhelmed if they are suddenly asked to change their three views and change their habits. Instead of spending time and energy trying to change them, you should change yourself. Let yourself have a better mentality, become a sunny person, and use your sunshine to influence your family, although the influence is not very large, but it is still somewhat useful.
First of all, when encountering this kind of thing, children generally choose to escape. I think this is instinctive, but you must understand the contradictions, analyze the reasons for the contradictions, and then decide whether to persuade peace, how to persuade peace, I am an only child, there is no way to avoid it, I must stand up and persuade peace, take myself as an example.
Hello and then a balanced support for relatives on both sides of the parents, usually travel more, learn to maintain health (so that my mom will not feel that her hard-earned money is chic). In the end, my parents didn't quarrel for nearly three years, and at the same time, my parents got a lot better, and they found a relatively easy way to make money, and I studied abroad. Finding a way to get their quarrels to stop will solve the problem.
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