Life is eight hardships, how to be happy as a woman?

Those who are content are always happy, and those who can endure are at ease, and there will be a dying day to see the king of Hades empty-handed.

I think reading is a great way to fill people's hearts.

It is true that people have to endure a lot of suffering in the world.

Know how to be willing and grateful.

How can we solve the eight hardships of life? Then you must calm your mind, enrich your optimistic attitude, and face a better life.

Life is all about moving from one kind of pain to another.

No pain, no gain!

"Life is suffering" – Rowling.

One: We're all the same, we're all struggling. What can you do? Even if you are liberated in this life, what about the next life?

Therefore, the only way to get rid of the suffering of samsara is to practice.

Second: What is suffering? What is not bitter? There is no difference. Just because there is no distraction. If there is no discrimination. When you reach a certain level, then why are you suffering and troubled?

The above is a little bit of my experience for your reference.

The eight sufferings of life: the suffering of life, the suffering of old age, the suffering of illness, the suffering of death, the suffering of love and separation, the suffering of resentment and hatred, the suffering of not begging, and the five yin and blazing suffering. Only death can say goodbye to everything, life is too short, destined to be too reluctant, simply forget, it's okay, it's okay!

So we have to face life:

1. In this life, no one can be responsible for us except ourselves, so we must cultivate ourselves to be strong. Have faith in yourself and believe that you can make good decisions. Develop the habit of thinking for yourself, don't go along with others at will, and boldly accept the consequences of failure.

2. Have confidence in yourself, believe that you are the best choreographer in life, and believe that you can arrange your life freely, only in this way can you deduce the most brilliant splendor. In addition, it is necessary to develop the habit of independent thinking, even in the face of frustration and setbacks, do not blindly go along with others, and always maintain mental and spiritual independence. We need to be assertive and convicted, and we need to know what we need at all times.

Persist in abiding by this need, win without arrogance, and defeat without discouragement. Whether you succeed or fail, you must be brave enough to bear it.

3. When frustration and suffering drift away like smoke and dust, you will suddenly find that whether it is a person or a thing, as long as you do it seriously, everything will not be too difficult. Maybe our life is not grand, as small as grass, but as long as we are vigorous, we can one day break through the stubborn stone and grow freely. With a strong heart, even if the life journey is full of joys and sorrows, without the rushing of the rivers, it can be collected bit by bit, and the water drops are worn through.

4. Hard work can turn dissatisfaction into progress, failure into strength, and temporary frustration into motivation to move forward. We don't have to ask ourselves to reach a certain height, nor do we have to ask ourselves to achieve a certain achievement, but we can use our efforts to prove that we are not swallowed up by the stormy waves, but have been fighting and crying out unyieldingly. At this time, we will find that the most beautiful scenery in the whole journey of life is not the flash of light at the moment when we realize our dreams and achieve success, but the elegance left in the process of hard work.

Buddhism says that there are eight sufferings in life, which are the eight kinds of sufferings suffered by sentient beings in the six realms of reincarnation, including the suffering of birth, old age, sickness, death, love and separation, resentment and hatred, inability to ask for suffering, and the five yin and blazing suffering

1. Suffering: In the world of life, when you enter the cycle of reincarnation, all kinds of sufferings come one after another, so life is suffering. (Five kinds):

Conception is the time when the mother's womb is recognized, and it is narrow and impure in the mother's womb.

The seed is called the body of the parents, and the seed of its knowledge goes in and out with the mother's breath, and it is not at ease.

Growth, that is, in the mother's womb, after the tenth day, the internal heat is decoctioned, and the body gradually becomes, living under the raw organs, above the cooked organs, and the interspersed are like prisons.

When the womb is born, there is a cold wind, hot wind blowing on the body and clothes and other things touching the body, and the skin is soft and tender, such as being thorned by things.

Types, it is said that the character is rich and poor, and the appearance is defective and ugly.

2. Old suffering (two kinds): decay of strength, declining spirit, decay of color and body, and no longer in the prime of life, this is old suffering.

Growth is said to be from less to strong, from strong to weak, with little strength and restlessness.

Destruction is said to be prosperous and decaying, the spirit is consumed, and its life is shortened day by day, gradually decaying.

3. Illness and suffering (two kinds): The body is sick and the five senses are afflicted, and the heart is tormented by the mind, which is sickness and suffering.

Physical illness is called the four major imbalances, and the diseases are attacked. If the ground is out of tune, the body is heavy; The wind is out of tune, and the body is stubborn; The water is out of tune, and the body is fat and swollen; The fire is out of tune, and the body is steaming.

Heart disease means to be distressed, sad and sad.

4. Death and suffering (two kinds): If the limit of human beings is approaching, if the candle will be extinguished, or the end of life, or the death of natural disasters and man-made disasters, this is death suffering.

1) Death from illness refers to death due to the end of life due to illness.

2) The outer edge is said to be killed by bad karma or by fire and water. Fifth, love and parting from suffering: It is said that the people who are often loved cannot coexist if they are separated from each other. Life and death are impermanent, gathering and scattering are uncertain, and loved ones cannot coexist, which is love and parting from suffering.

6. Resentment and bitterness: It is said that people who often resent and hated people seek to stay away, but instead gather. Hatred and hatred, lingering, but gathering, this is said to be bitter.

7. Asking for no suffering: It means that all things in the world, those who love and enjoy in their hearts, ask for them but cannot get them. All things in the world have love and happiness in their hearts but cannot be obtained, and this name cannot be striking.

8. The five yin are blazing and suffering: the five yin are the five aggregates, and the five yin gather into a body, like a blazing fire, and the first seven sufferings are born from this. The color is blazing, the four major imbalances, and there is the suffering of disease.

Accept the yin and the flames, accept the separation, and make all the sufferings turn to the extreme: I want to be yin and prosperous, I want to pursue each other, and there is love and parting, resentment and hatred, and I can't ask for all suffering. The line is blazing, and all the karma is the cause of the later retribution, and because of the line, the flow is non-stop, and there is the pain of old age.

Knowing the yin is blazing, confusion is created, three generations are circulating, and there is the pain of life and death.

The color wants to be known by the line of knowledge as the five yin, the collection of all suffering in one, into the color of the body suffering can not be taken off, this is the five yin suffering.

There are eight sufferings in people, which refer to birth, old age, sickness, death, resentment, love, separation, unwantedness, and five yin blazing. For example, everyone will experience hardship, not only themselves, but others will also experience it. Old suffering is also an inevitable thing for everyone, with the passage of time, our body will slowly age, and the mind will become more and more sluggish.

Sickness, everyone will have some illness to a greater or lesser extent, in addition to physical diseases, there are also some psychological diseases. The first four sufferings are physical, while the latter suffering is spiritual. Many of the eight sufferings in this life are unavoidable, and if you understand the eight sufferings in this life, you will also roughly understand the ** of suffering.

From birth to the end of our lives, we have to go through many difficulties and pains, but we understand the eight hardships of life, look down on human affairs, and be chic in the world.

1. The pain of life.

Birth is painful, and everyone has to go through it, but we are too young to remember.

Confined in a dark and enclosed space for ten months, and then had to go through a narrow birth door, the tender ** was pulled hard by the midwife, and the pain could only be vented by crying.

Second, the pain of old age.

In this life, we will always grow old one day, gradually from childhood to youth, youth into the prime of life, and the prime of life into old age.

A little change in the body, in the end, it will gradually wrinkle, the pain in the body will also increase, the physiological function will decline, and the body and mind will be in panic and pain.

3. Suffering from illness.

From the day of birth, people will suffer from sudden onset of illness.

Every period may encounter a serious illness, and the body has to undergo a painful torture.

For the sick person, whether it is psychological or physical, it is a damage, and even makes the family feel sad and painful.

Fourth, the pain of death.

If you live a day, you will die a day.

Every human being has a countdown to life since the day they are born, and you never know what will happen in the next moment if you are still smiling one moment.

Fifth, the pain of parting.

In this life, we will experience the separation of life and death, leaving our hometown and leaving our parents, our wives and children for the sake of life

Leaving his hometown, he suffered from loneliness in his heart;

Life came to an end, and in the end, it was difficult to hold on, leaving behind a grieving family and suffering a lot.

6. The bitterness of resentment.

In this life, we may encounter the betrayal of our lover, the betrayal of our friends, the abandonment of our family, and the difficult treatment of strangers, all of which will plague our hearts, and we will hate and suffer from depression.

Seventh, the suffering of not being able to ask for it.

Not everything is going well in our lives.

When things backfire, we always feel helpless in our hearts, some people, things, and things always have nothing to do with you, and we want to ask but can't, and this feeling will always be difficult to calm down.

Eighth, the five yin blazing bitterness.

The previous seven sufferings are all born from the five yin, and it is because of the five yin that all the suffering becomes deeper than itself.

In the middle of the five yin, karma will also increase, and if karma increases, suffering will become heavier.

These are the eight sufferings that everyone cannot escape, and everything in the world is suffering, and only by persisting in cultivation can we be liberated from suffering.

It is impossible for people to live in the world to be as good as they want, and when they encounter difficulties and troubles, it is also beneficial to listen to the advice of others, as the saying goes, listen to people's advice, eat enough; The parties are confused, and the bystanders are clear. Happiness is very simple, cherish the bits and pieces of life, when you have money, do a good job, don't look down on people who are temporarily worse than you, and only those who accumulate virtue will be blessed. When there is no money, be down-to-earth, do things well, there is no shortcut on the road of life, the attitude of life lies in enterprising, work harder and complain less, and solve the problems in life with a positive and optimistic attitude.

In the final analysis, there are only two things in life that can be relied on, character and hard work are indispensable. If you don't open your mouth, no one will know what you want; If you don't do it, any idea only swims in your head; If you don't take a step, you'll never find where you're going. Actually, you're strong, it's just laziness that helps you.

Some truths in life sound simple, but it is not easy to do, so we need to feel and understand with our hearts. We all know that being happy is a day and being unhappy is a day, but we would rather be unhappy, as if we could live longer if we were unhappy.

Birth, old age, sickness, death, unwanted, resentment, love and separation, five yin blazing and other suffering. In fact, there is still a lot of suffering in this world.

My mother said that people cry as soon as they are born, because they know that it is not easy to come to this world, so they must find happiness, don't be careful, look at everything, smile for ten years, although people have pain and joy in this life, living a wonderful life is the most important, what are those monks and Taoist priests doing in this world? Of course, being famous is not to be an Internet celebrity, you make achievements and contributions, so you have the opportunity to leave a name in history, of course, you can't force it, when you are 7-80 years old, recalling the past, you didn't come to this world in vain to be satisfied.

The eight sufferings of life, one of these eight sufferings is birth, old age, sickness and death, and the other is sorrow, resentment, affection, parting and not being able to do what you want. The eight sufferings of life are the suffering of birth, the suffering of old age, the suffering of illness, the suffering of death, the suffering of love and separation, the bitterness of resentment, the suffering of not begging, and the suffering of the five yin.

Life is bitter, lonely and unheard, and I have never heard of it. But it is indeed true that there are many hardships in life. How to face it, that's it.

Gains and losses are ordinary things, right and wrong are left to their own devices, grievances and grievances are not ashamed, I know that I am warm and cold, the bumpy road of life, the twists and turns of the career ladder, you don't have to care too much about everything, to ensure that you have a good mood in your life!

The eight sufferings of life - birth, old age, sickness, death, love and separation, unwanted, hateful, jealousy That suffering is not the most bitter It is all very bitter...

Everything is caused by the upside-down dreams of all beings, and they are all the roots of reincarnation. So stay away from upside-down dreams...

The Buddha said that there are eight sufferings in life: birth, old age, sickness, death, love and separation, long-term resentment, and can't ask for it. This suffering varies from person to person and from time to time. For myself, the suffering at the moment is "uncontrollable".

The son is not filial, and the old man has nothing to rely on. Lonely.

What is the suffering of facing your own family?

1, from the Great Nirvana Sutra - The Twelfth. The eight sufferings are the eight kinds of suffering fruits suffered by sentient beings in the six realms of reincarnation, and are the main content of the four noble truths.

2. Life is always bittersweet, know its joy, forget its suffering. Know its heart, bitter its will. Chase its shape and forget its meaning.

What is said, what is thought, what is done, what is done, what is used, what is abandoned, what is liked, what is complained, what is worried, what is worried. All of them are the five elements of man and the will of the heart. So how much of life is bitter?

Birth, old age, sickness and death, love and hatred, joys and sorrows, ups and downs, ups and downs, pain and loss, betrayal and displacement, all these are the manifestations of suffering.

Birth, old age, sickness, and death are natural physiological sufferings; Resentment, love and parting, five yin blazing and unbelievable, are mental pain. Resentment will be with people or things that are resentful and hated, and it is impossible to get rid of it, which is a kind of pain; It is a pain to love to part, to be separated from one's dear ones; The five yin are blazing, and the five yin are the five kinds of color, acceptance, thinking, action, and knowledge. 'Fiery', fiery also.

Sheng, many also. Shade, obscuration, too.

It means that these five dharmas can obscure our people's original enlightenment and sincerity, so that they cannot be revealed. I can't ask for it, but I can't get what I want, and it's a pain.