What should I do if my parents don t agree to work in other places?

I'm desperate for convincing them. I just want to save some money right now and just leave. As for them saying that they have no filial piety or something, just go out to work and send some money back every month.

There are also sometimes buy some clothes or nutritional products and send them to relatives with better relationships, and then let relatives pass them on, so that when they say that you are not filial, relatives will say: "** No filial piety, I also bought you clothes, nutrition or something, people care about you even if you are outside."

I think we can communicate this problem with our families, they are parents, from their point of view, maybe it is for our good, because working in their hometown, as parents, they can take care of themselves, because every child is old, in the hearts of parents will always be children, and it is reasonable for them to want to be able to take care of you nearby.

Let me tell you a way to try, first tell your parents: you want to stay in this city for your development and the development of the city, tell your parents that most of your classmates have stayed, even if it is a white lie, tell them what will be beneficial to you in the future.

I feel that in this case, the only way to communicate well with my parents, inform my parents of my thoughts, and have a reason to convince my parents, but I must not be swayed by my parents' ideas.

Bring your ID card and money and go to the field by yourself. Then send some money home every month. Proven for yourself, this strategy works. Of course, the premise is that you can be independent.

To be honest, you can't have the best of both worlds in life, or you just work hard in other places and forget about your parents. Or be a filial child and cut off the idea of going outside. Don't be million, go out, what diseases do you have as the old man gets older. I can't regret it, I already knew that An An was divided at that time.

I used to work for a local public institution. Take a salary that doesn't starve to death, but don't think about being rich and expensive. One day, I told my parents that I wanted to quit my job.

The parents strongly opposed it, and kept persuading and blocking it. The truth is said every day. I said to my parents, I figured out what to do, I was leaving the city, and I would be happier than I am now, though it would probably be a hundred times harder and poorer than I am now.

Then I made it clear to my parents about my future plans, and I am still moving forward step by step. Eventually, my parents let me leave the city where I grew up.

I am now working as a bank teller in a small city in my hometown, and I resigned after two years and wanted to go to Shanghai and Shenzhen to find a job and live on my own, but I was blocked by my parents, saying that it was 25 years old and then going out to get married would delay Barabala, I was really helpless, I hated this kind of behavior of imposing my thoughts on my children, and regarded my children as a continuation of my own life and as my own appendages. Recently, I have been in conflict with my family because of this matter, and I resigned and stayed at home for two months, preparing to go to my classmates in other places, which also made my parents relax a little.

19 this year, dropped out of junior high school, worked in the local workshop, and then has been doing sales in his hometown, but he doesn't want to be so ordinary in his hometown, and wants to go out before he gets married, his parents don't let him, he is too young, and the family conditions are not the kind of conditions that have to go out to work, they arranged for me to get married around the age of 22, have children, inherit my father's small business, they show me children, the standard rural older generation of thinking. I'm really speechless, I plan to secretly find a good job first, rent a good house, and then tell them, otherwise I can't go, and I will lose the meaning of existence if I live too comfortably.

Now I am facing the same problem, I graduated one year older than my boyfriend. Because of the coercion and temptation of my parents, I didn't go to school in the big city, and now I work in my hometown, with a salary of more than 2,000 a month, and bear all kinds of inequality in state-owned enterprises, I still want to work in a big city, this is my dream since I was a child, I want to go to my boyfriend's city, my boyfriend immediately graduated and bought a house and settled down, but I am still very cowardly, so cowardly that I dare not speak.

First of all, you must find a way to convince your parents, after all, work is what you love, parents are your favorite, between love and love, you must try to find a balance, let your parents see your hard work, let your parents know that they like this job very much.

2 Ask relatives and friends around you to help persuade your parents, sometimes there is still a sense of distance between children and parents, or some words are not spoken at all, at this time, you can ask relatives and friends around you to help, of course, relatives and friends trusted by parents, are people they recognize.

3 Take good care of yourself when you are outside, so that you can be in a better state. Sometimes when you go out to work, your parents are worried about yourself, and you are afraid that it is not easy to be alone outside, or you will be hurt, so you must learn to take care of yourself and let your parents rest assured.

4. Make an agreement with your parents that you will be allowed to go out to work if you take care of yourself and make achievements. In fact, many times, if you want to reach a consensus with your parents, you can still make some agreements, pity the hearts of parents all over the world, and understand that the intention of parents is not to stop themselves, but to worry about themselves.

5 Find a boyfriend in a foreign place and be a reliable person to reassure your parents. A reliable boyfriend will give parents a lot of security.

will also allow yourself to be well taken care of, at this time I am working in the field or working locally, at least my parents are at ease.

6 Follow your parents' advice and find a job in the local area instead of working in the field. Let your parents rest assured that you have to play more love, why not? In fact, sometimes the job is not necessarily good in the field, and you can also find a suitable job in the local area.

7 No matter what, don't let your parents worry and be sad, work is important, but filial piety to your parents.

It is also important to be filial to your parents and not to worry about them, whether you choose to work locally or in the field.

Your parents don't let you go that far to work, but in the final analysis, it's good for you. They are afraid that you will be fooled out there, so you tell them that you have grown up. So that the parents will not have so much resentment.

If you have relatives and friends, your parents are more at ease, and if you go out alone, whether it's safe or useless, or you can do laundry and cooking alone, so it's more mature.

Summary. Hello dear, in this case, there are several ways to do so. First, dear, communicate with your parents well, so that your parents can rest assured of their own practices. Second, dear, you may tell your parents that you are going to work in other places and have a companion with you, please rest assured.

What should I do if I want to work in a field and my parents don't agree.

Hello dear, in this case, there are several ways to do so. First, dear, I will communicate with my father and mother, so that my parents can rest assured of their own practices. Second, dear, you may tell your parents that you go to work in other places, and you have a companion who rolls up, please rest assured.

But I really don't want to earn 2,000 yuan, and every year I have to be shut down stupidly by relatives.

Hello dear, in this case, there are several ways to do so. First, dear, communicate with your parents and let your parents rest assured that they are the only way to do it. Second, dear, you may tell your parents that you are going to work in other places and have a companion to go with you, so please rest assured that your parents are okay.

Third, dear, you may let your family tell your parents that you are already an adult, and you will think about some things clearly.

Fourth, pro, in this case, you can explain your thoughts and plans to your relatives, and let your relatives explain it to your parents.

My aunt is in charge of us.

My brother is also working at my aunt's house when he is so old, and my brother will not sell the house in the future to get his wife. Do you also earn 2,000 yuan a month here?

Dear, it's right to have your own ideas. But I also have to have Yuanhuai's own skills, so that I can confidently negotiate conditions with them. Relatives are stupid, you know, the ideal is very plump, but the reality is very skinny, you have to be mentally prepared, in order to achieve something, it may be that your parents are worried that you have no technology since the hail hall.

I don't, I've been working in my aunt's factory since I graduated.

Dear, it seems that I am going to go out, learn my own skills, and let myself have a foothold. Dear, the best work in life is yourself, Youmin's greatest happiness in life is a good branch, not to live like others, but to live more like yourself after working hard. Even if no one appreciates it, it will bloom alone.

Dear, youth is beautiful, you must cherish it, do what you want to do, what you can do, you know, there are experts in simple things.

But if you don't let me go out, my ID card will not be accepted, what should I do?

Dear, tell my parents as soon as possible, I am already an adult, give me a year, if I don't have a better job for myself, I will go to work with my relatives in vain, and I won't feel wronged in my heart.

I tried. No way. They told me to do it all my life.

Dear, do you have a goal now, if there is someone in your local area who earns money outside, maybe your parents will rest assured that you will go out.

Summary. 1. You are alone mainly because the subject is a girl or a boy, which is especially important, you must understand that not everyone can casually promise their daughter and son to run outside to develop. The solution to this is to make it clear to your parents who can take care of you, or who is near you, or prove that you are able to live independently!

2. Being too far away from home is mainly because your parents don't want you to abandon them and go away, which leads to a feeling of loneliness, and they will also worry that you are wronged outside, or you can't stand it, or you hold it yourself, no matter what, they are distressed. 3. The immediate benefits are almost the same, because your parents may feel that the salary here is so much, and it is just a little more when you go there, and the expenses are much larger. At this time, you have to let them understand what potential stocks are and what appreciation space is.

Actually, I don't really know how to convince my parents a lot. Because my life is relatively hard, I told my parents that my parents let me out... So your usual impression in the eyes of your parents is also very important.

Hello, I have seen your question, and I am sorting out the answer, please wait for a while Dear 1, you are alone mainly because the subject is a girl and a boy, which is especially important, you must understand that not everyone can casually promise their daughter and son to run outside to develop. The solution to this is to make it clear to your parents who can take care of you, or who is near you, or prove that you are able to live independently! 2. Being too far away from home is mainly because your parents don't want you to abandon them and go away, which leads to a feeling of loneliness, and they will also worry that you are wronged outside, or you can't stand it, or you hold it yourself, no matter what, they are distressed.

3. The immediate benefits are almost the same, because your parents may feel that the salary here is so much, and it is just a little more when you go there, and the expenses are much larger. At this time, you have to let them understand what potential stocks are and what appreciation space is. Actually, I don't really know how to convince my parents a lot.

Because my life is relatively hard, I told my parents that my parents let me out... So your usual impression in the eyes of your parents is also very important.

Hello and good evening! Here are some ways to convince your parents to agree to work in other places: 1

Plan well: You can make a detailed plan of what you need to do to work in a foreign country, how long you need to correct it, how much money you expect to earn, and so on. This will allow parents to understand your purpose and plans to work in other places, and increase their trust and support.

2.The importance of proving desire: Explain to your parents that working outside the city will give you the opportunity to get a better job and a better income, which is important for your future.

Communicate with parents and seek their opinions, listen to them and be open about their concerns and concerns. Show gratitude and respect for your family in your communication and make them feel that you are capable of handling your own affairs. 4.

Commitment: Reassure parents that you will be mindful of safety issues, stay in touch, and report on work and life situations in a timely manner. And you'll do your best to put them at ease.

In conclusion, you need to convince your parents that your goals and plans are wise and that you have the ability and responsibility to handle these things well. And, throughout the process, keep your parents in communication and trust, so that they can fully support you.

I have just become an adult and want to go out to work, but my parents don't agree, what should I do? Communication, if you want to go out to work, you have to communicate with your parents. If you communicate with your parents, your parents will naturally not obstruct you.

They will be moved by your reasons and opinions, and will feel that you have really grown up and that it is time for you to go out and make a break on your own. I think every parent wants their child to succeed and their daughter to succeed. They are waiting for time and opportunity, afraid that their son or daughter will turn around.

They are for us, afraid that we will be hurt, I think this is the so-called mother's love! They are for us. So, how can we get them to agree to let us go out to work?

First, let's think about what we are good at. What are your hobbies? What do you want to do?

What can you do? What can be done? What can be done well?

When you think it through, your options will be narrowed. You can find relatives who are suitable for your job, rely on them, and reassure your parents.

You can also choose your own major and assign it from the school, because there are teachers and classmates together, and parents can worry a little less. You can also choose to work close to home, because it is familiar and your parents can agree. Whichever you choose, keep your feet on the ground.

First of all, it is necessary to know the reasons why parents go out to work unexpectedly, and then communicate with parents appropriately, so as to achieve the purpose of parents supporting migrant work.

Generally speaking, there are several reasons why your parents work unexpectedly: your parents want to keep you by your side, take care of each other, and are reluctant to leave you; Parents still treat you as a child, worried that you have never been far away and are not suitable for life and work outside; It is your parents who have a plan for your part-time job and have been or are looking for a job that suits you locally. Second, be honest with your parents about what you really think based on the above reasons.

If you insist on going out to work, you need to have a good reason to convince your parents to accept your idea and approve of your approach. For example, you can tell your parents that there will be a wider range of options for working outside the home, there will be more opportunities for development, and it will be more conducive to exercising and improving yourself. You can also promise your parents that you will take good care of yourself, that you will keep in touch with them, and that you will come home for the holidays.

Trust that your parents will understand and accept your decision. As the saying goes, parents never travel far. However, how can we grow up without experiencing a lonely parting?