If you really let it go, will you deliberately not contact it?

Yes, because such a person loves face too much, it may be machismo, and his self-esteem is too strong, or it may be because of low self-esteem, although he really can't let go of his heart, but he will still deliberately not contact you.

If you really let go, you must know how to give yourself time, let yourself accept reality, know how to divert your attention, and shift your attention from the body that you can't let go of, to other things, so that you will deliberately not contact!

I don't think so, if you really let go, it means that you don't care in your heart, and you can get along like ordinary friends, but if you deliberately keep your distance, it means that you haven't completely let go.

The real letting go is not deliberately not contacting the other party, but after letting go of the other party, you can still chat with the other party calmly. When you deliberately don't contact the other person, it means that you haven't really let go of him.

If it's deliberately not in touch, then you still haven't let go, if it's really let go, then his affairs have nothing to do with you at all, and the two of you are just like strangers.

No. Because if you really let go of a person, you won't care about the person's feelings in your heart, and you won't think about the feelings that the person brings to you.

How long does it take to go from nothing to nothing to nothing to say? Three years, two years, a year or a few months? We will meet many people in this life, some become confidants, some become lovers, and some become the most familiar strangers.

For some encounters, some people, it's not that you can get the results you want with sincerity and hard work.

I remember when I first fell in love with Yu, even if he only had 10 minutes after work, he would talk to me for a few words; In less than two years, if you ask him if he can talk for 10 minutes, he will also say indifferently: "I don't have time, I don't want to, what is there to talk about."

It is true that in this world, everyone is very busy, but love has time, a person always says that he is very busy, and he doesn't care about you very much.

In a relationship, when the other party loses the initiative, it proves that he doesn't want to continue with you, and the ending has been set in the other party's heart.

When the attitude becomes indifferent, the communication becomes less, and you question whether the other person loves you or not, it is not so much love or not love, love is not illusory, love can be seen and touched.

You have to believe that with the change of time, people's hearts are fickle, and people have changed, how can love still be the same? The person who truly loves you will respect your feelings, give an explanation, let each other trust each other, and will not make you insecure in this relationship.

As you get older, for some people, feelings are weighing the pros and cons, maybe when you have put your heart and soul into it, the other party has already planned the ending halfway, and the initial liking is discounted. At this time, the other party's departure is not something you can keep, and you can never wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep.

In the face of someone who no longer loves you, what you have to do is not humble and retained, not doubting yourself; Hurting you will only hurt you repeatedly, the other party will not care if you hurt or not, and you will be disgusted if you cry. What we have to do is to adjust our mentality and replan our lives, although it will be difficult at first, but time will take away all your things.

Ruyi Biography said: "It turns out that you are young and affectionate, and you can also go to the two to hate each other", leaving people who don't love you is not a regret Zen tour to be lucky, it is better than being disgusted with each other in the future.

If the other party no longer takes the initiative to contact you, then let go of each other is also to let go of yourself, and the exchange of a lot of effort is often taken for granted and deserved, and it cannot be exchanged for feelings.

Let go of an inactive relationship and look up at the more beautiful scenery in the distance!

I agree with this point of view, only by not connecting can two people really let go of each other.

When a relationship is about to end with a breakup, no matter how much two people once loved each other, it has now become a memory. I think the best way to really let go of each other and never connect with each other from the moment you turn around.

After a breakup, the lotus root is never let go. Two years ago, friends and lovers broke up, and both of them were already in different cities, but they did not cut off contact with each other. They often share each other's lives on the Internet, and sometimes they will make a ** after drinking, and the other party never refuses.

This state has been maintained until now, and no one has taken the initiative to say that they are getting back together, and the two have never been in love again. I don't know if this kind of breakup can be considered a breakup, it looks more like it has become a long-distance relationship, but there is no definite relationship.

Ask yourself, after you break up with someone you once loved, do you keep in touch with each other because you still have a glimmer of luxury in your heart, hoping that the two of you can get back together?

The real letting go is to no longer connect in this life, and let everything completely become a memory. From this point of view, my first love and I should be regarded as truly letting go of each other. It has been more than ten years since the two people decided to break up, and we have never been in touch, and we have never known what each other's lives have become.

I have already started my own family, and my life should be considered happy. He has long since become a memory in my mind, and I am no longer afraid of someone to talk about it.

I think that's the real letting go, whether we have regrets or not, everything is dissipated in time. Maybe this way of breaking up will make people sad for a long time, but this is what really gives each other a bright future.

In fact, love has never been able to afford to let go, but when love comes to an end, we have to let go. The life that can't be let go is full of sorrow, and the life that can be let go is more worth looking forward to.

Don't contact again after a breakup, this is the best explanation for this relationship between two people.

To really let go of a relationship is to never contact each other again in this life, because two people do not meet, and after a long time, they can forget each other and think about each other thoroughly in their hearts.

It's not that they will no longer be in touch in this life, but that two people can interact normally, but they won't be emotional to each other anymore.

It doesn't matter if you really let go of contact or not, let it be, and have already looked down on the emotional experience between you at that time.

It is only in this life that there is no longer contact, so that the two can completely forget each other and be able to start a new life.

The real letting go is no longer in contact with each other in this life, don't see that person, only if you don't see him, then you can let go, and slowly forget each other and don't think about each other.

The real letting go is not that you will no longer be in touch in this life, but that when you mention this person, your heart will not hurt and you will smile slightly, and this feeling is the real letting go of a relationship.

If it is a lover, you can really let go, but if it is a husband and wife, especially a couple with children, even if they are really separated, how many people can do not get along with each other, and they will still be contacted because of their children.

It's not that you don't have to contact each other anymore, but it shows that you haven't really let go, and the real letting go is being able to face each other calmly.

Indeed, the real letting go is that there is no interaction with each other, and completely forgetting each other.

The real letting go is not that there is no longer contact in this life, but even if it is contacted, the feeling in my heart is no longer there, that is, goodbye is a stranger.

To really let go is to never be tempted by this person again.

It should be that I can't think of contact in this life, or it doesn't matter if I don't contact or not.

There is no contact in this life, and I don't want to have anything to do with him in eternity. Break up depends on character. Truly!

will dig up all the memories of the previous together. Because in the end it turned out that it wasn't worth it. Everything is shady, routine, calculating.

Simply, it came out. Eternal life and eternity will never forgive and forgive him!

People who really enter the heart will be difficult to let go of for the rest of their lives.

Because when you can no longer contact each other, it will slowly begin to let go, if you can't let go, you will contact each other, will go to find each other, let go is not a momentary thing, many times before letting go, we need to constantly persuade ourselves not to contact again, not to meet again, after a long time, I suddenly feel that there is nothing to let go.

I used to like a person very much, we get along as friends, I like him very much, at that time he and I were both single, I didn't dare to confess, because I couldn't feel his love for me from him, probably he really regarded me as a friend, so he never dared to confess.

At that time, I always thought, we have no object, frequent contact is actually nothing, we often make appointments to play together, eat and drink together, but then he fell in love, he was very excited to tell me general, I like a girl, I confessed to her successfully, at that moment I said congratulations, I should really let you invite me to dinner, but I don't have time to go to you for dinner now, you owe me this meal, the next time we meet, I must eat you, I joke with him, but only I know, My heart is dripping with blood.

And in the end, I didn't go to him for that meal, because after he told me that he had a girlfriend, I never went to him again, he wanted to bring his girlfriend to me, and I always shirked, and finally we contacted less until we no longer contacted, and sent a message every year on each other's birthdays to bless each other.

At first, it was really difficult, because at that time my life was him except for work, I endured not to contact him, I found something to do for myself, signed up for online classes, picked up my interests and re-learned, met new friends, I arranged my life to the full, so that I didn't have time to think about him, no time to think about whether he was good or not, and no time to contact him.

After two months of slowly persevering, I suddenly felt that I should let go, in fact, if we continue to keep in touch, we can only be friends, and I want more than just friends, so let's end it.

When you don't contact each other, it actually means that you have let go, because you can bear not to contact the other person, and you understand that you have to move on, so you will let go.

Because not contacting means not disturbing the other person's life, so that the other party may live a happier life, which is the real letting go.

To truly let go is to completely cut off the relationship with the other person, never contact each other again, and never bother the other person.

That's because the real letting go is that although he is lying in your friend list, you never take the initiative to contact him, and you already feel that you don't care about him.

To really let go is to let the past go with the wind, that is, to want each other to have a happy life, so it will not bother.

If you still often contact each other, it means that you have not let go, only by saying goodbye to the past and having no contact with each other is the real letting go, and only by learning to let go can you live more freely in life.

As long as you don't get in touch, then you can let time fade this matter, then I believe this is also a kind of letting go, some things are said to be let go of the fact that they haven't been put down, which can only be forgotten by time.

Because the real letting go is to make each other better, and it is very important not to connect with each other.

Because we didn't really forget a person, but chose not to contact each other, that is, not to disturb each other, in fact, most of what we call letting go of a person is to endure not seeing each other.

The real letting go is mutual deletion, you can't find me, I can't find you, until the daughter, the son calls you dad.

The real letting go is to hear the other person's things and see the other person's heart without waves.

If it's true love, whether it's in contact or not, you can't let it go!

Letting go means that the person is gone from your life and never has anything to do with it again.

Letting go is to endure not contacting, how can we do not contact? It will be much happier to work your own life, have your own social circle, hang out with friends more, participate in outdoor activities, and be cheerful and independent.

Letting go is to endure not contacting, to arrange your life colorfully, every day is very fulfilling, you can do not contact.

There are many ways to avoid contact, such as finding someone to talk to or playing games and traveling.

I don't think so, it's also possible that two people want to think calmly, give each other enough time to think, and both people should think well when they calm down, rather than being confused.

No, not contacting does not mean letting go, the real letting go is that you are standing in front of me, and there are no ripples in my heart. Not being in touch only means that you are separated from each other.

Not being in touch is not necessarily really letting go, this is because for some reason two people have to be separated, and not being in touch at all represents a dead heart for the other person.

If you don't get in touch, you don't have to really let go, although some people don't contact each other, but they will still worry about each other in their hearts, only if you really forget a person, you won't feel bad when you think of him, this is really forgetting and letting go.

When you don't connect, you don't really let go. Because I didn't let go, I wouldn't have contact. If you have been contacted, it means that you have calmed down. in order to really let go.