Did I really let go? Should I put it down?

As for whether it is true or false, this can only be analyzed by philosophy, and the so-called real letting go can only be regarded as relative.

Your feelings for him have gradually faded, the feelings between men and women have tended to fade, your mind and attention have been on your current friend, the original him is that faint feeling, it is not easy to love someone, it is not easy to hate a person, but it is difficult to forget a deep memory, even if you no longer contact him for several years, but the memory that exists in your heart can only fade but will never forget. It is often said that it is difficult to forget a person, it is an experience, and it is also a summary of experience.

Women's emotional investment is more pronounced than men's. I'm a man, and I still have a deep impression in my mind after talking to my friends for 3 days, and I haven't forgotten my girlfriend who broke up after a month of contact. But usually they will never appear in my mind, touching the scene or encountering something, I will think of them, such as remembering the past now, I am letting go but not forgetting.

His presence has little impact on you now, but occasionally it can touch your heartstrings and play some beautiful notes, and you are glad that you have not been in a relationship with him all the time, indicating that you have generally let go of him, and recently you have contacted him again, and have been chatting for a long time, indicating that you are at least communicating with him in the way of a good friend, but as time goes by, the interaction decreases, and you will gradually let go, and you will not really let go.

You'd better not think about it now, too much tangled will make it difficult for you to discern reality. And your reality is that your current boyfriend loves you a lot, understand? Don't ruin the future for the sake of the past.

I don't think you should contact him anymore, it's unfair to your husband, if you hurt you like this, it will hurt you more and more deeply, and it will take longer... Why don't we put what should be in our hearts and take him out of our hearts? People don't have a long or short life for decades, who doesn't have a little memory... Just treat him as a memory.,Don't even have memories at least not perfect.,If you're not married, he's not married, then what can you fight for?? I just don't know why you broke up ·· Just don't regret it!

No, letting go is just a superficial phenomenon. There is always a space in the heart of a person that holds the person you think ...

Loving someone is sometimes bitter and selfish, because of the lack of understanding and respect between each other, and there are also untieable knots between each other, are you and her true love?

You are too selfish, but love is selfish! It won't be long before you ...

I have a lover, put it down, it's useless to hold on.

I advise you, there is no unventilated wall in the world, the consequences... Since you are already a married woman, the fate that should be broken is still broken. Why are you still so attached to your ex-friend, it's just that you're separated from him, and the beauty of distance can also happen in this case.

People don't mind why happy times disappear so quickly, so why don't they mind that the pain will slowly disappear with the passage of time?

1；I mustered up the greatest courage to confess since my mother's womb, but in the end he didn't remember that you had done this, and you had lost all your shyness about him, but in his eyes, nothing was in his heart. Your enthusiasm has fallen into the ice in deliberate neglect again and again. There has never been a time when you feel like he might care a little bit about you, and that you're just a clown in his mind.

But it's no wonder that no one can force you to like others, people have to like you, and this may be how the sadness comes from.

2；Later, I thought about it, maybe I was too unhappy, I couldn't see hope, things were always different from what I thought! I feel like I'm burying the beauty of the first simple and unwilling step by step.

3；I don't know why some people see the message.,It's a question.,Just don't reply.,Don't you think that if you're the one who is hanging.,It's very sad to be so disappointed.,Just reply to a "oh,Uh,Well,Ha" is okay.,Actually,I also know that automatic neglect is also an attitude, but I just like to hold a small hope.,I think there will be something special.,There is the result you look forward to.,Of course, in the end, it must be the macro type that will be slowly disappointed in waiting.,The last time you become numb.。 I think so, how can there be so many special things in life, often the result has always been **, and what you don't want to believe is just yourself.

4；I used to wonder if I would have given it down if I had fought for it, and the answer was yes. Always longing to be noticed, always disappointed in the end, always longing for special treatment, always returning to time. Mine is always visible only to you, you are always longing, I am particularly concerned, but, after I let go, I began to feel inferior.

In the past, it was just a simple inferiority complex, but now it is engraved into the bone marrow, and of course, this has unconsciously affected me.

When I was a child, what I liked became Bai Yueguang, and I didn't deliberately put it down! If you still want to get in touch, you can contact Roll; If you want to cry, you can find a place where no one is left to cry; If you are jealous of the person who can accompany your friends and be by his side, you will be jealous.

And then at some point, you find yourself feeling as if you're letting go, and you're happy to tell others that you're letting go of the past.

Be willing to reach out to new people and give new people a chance. There was no life for him. It seems that you can live a good and fulfilling life.

After a while, you learn about him from someone else, or you learn about him on a social media platform that you silently follow. Or just listen to a few lines from a song that touch you, and then you sink again.

You find that it has not been put down yet. So you allow yourself to be harder.

When I was a child, I liked Bai Yueguang, but it is also possible that what you liked when you were a child is still the person who is with you now, which is a blessing. If you don't get together until now, what you liked as a child can only mean that you will have a better future, treasure.