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Anonymous users2024-02-06I also just broke up with my boyfriend. He was very sad, but I respected him very much during the process, so after he calmed down, we were still friends, of course, this was only temporary, and when he and I were able to completely forget about each other, we would be passers-by.
My method is to tell him beforehand, consciously or unconsciously, that you are going to leave him; Then formally find a suitable time and place (it must be only the two of you) and tell him that you are going to leave him, see his reaction, if he is too intense, just point to the end, if he is calm, say it all, calmly tell him that you are leaving him, and the reason for leaving him! Even analyze the benefits of separation for him, and take the initiative to take on some debts that may come with your departure, and other troublesome things.
Then, leave absolutely and don't see each other for a while.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05After the breakup, we still make friends, talk often, reduce his thoughts about you, and at the same time, make sure that you don't love him anymore.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04In fact, no matter what you say, the damage is certain. However, tell him honestly sooner that maybe it will hurt less.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03No matter how you dump someone, it's all an injury, so it's better to be more direct and hurt him with words that sting his heart, that can be thorough.
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Anonymous users2024-02-02Instead of three people suffering, it is better to suffer one!
Come out with him bravely, pain is inevitable. It's good to talk about it early.
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Anonymous users2024-02-01Go to the street with him every day, don't bring a penny, ask him to buy you the most expensive cosmetics, the most fashionable clothes (less than 10,000 yuan is not considered), eat Australian lobster, English steak, Italian caviar, and drink French red wine. Ask him to report to you on time for 10 minutes a day. Say I love you 100 times a day, and swear to love only one of you.
He was asked not to come within 200 meters of other women. Hehe. It's no wonder he didn't take the initiative to break up.
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Anonymous users2024-01-311. Take care of each other's feelings and face
When you speak, you always think of the other person's position. Even if you break up with the other person, the other person will still remember you well. Take the other person's position as the starting point, try not to put the other party in an awkward situation when breaking up, and not break up on special holidays and special circumstances, such as the other party's birthday or public occasions.
If you say that you break up on the other party's birthday, then the other party will leave a psychological shadow, and the other party will remember the experience of being dumped on every birthday in the future, and then he will definitely hate you for the rest of his life. If it is in public, such as in front of the other party's friends and colleagues, it is a very faceless thing for the other party. Maybe it's not the breakup itself that makes people angry, but the way you break up that makes people unable to get off the stage.
2. Do not attack or hurt the other party
Don't say what you know about the other person's privacy, attack or hurt the other party because you have complaints about the other party, because that will only cause a tear and break up happily, even if you break up, don't deliberately retaliate or hurt the other party.
3. Clean cutting
Don't try to find out if he "still loves himself a little"? You will most likely find the vestiges of this love, which will make you have a fluke mentality of waiting for favor; And don't try to find out if he is, "Isn't life unhappy without me?" "You must find his unhappiness, just as you can find anyone's unhappiness, which will make you feel that he will eventually turn back.
Luck urges people to get old, and people are even more lucky.
4. Breaking up can only be proposed in person
Face-to-face communication can provide a reassuring function. There are a lot of non-verbal cues that we can experience from this to let us know that we are actually still worthy of love, such as patting the other person's arm and saying that you are still a good person. Any way to break up other than face-to-face means:
But this pattern of sending remotely can actually leave a psychological wound on the other person — when you don't get any explanation, you spend a lot of time thinking about what you're doing wrong, and these hard thoughts can lead to depression. John Cassiop, a neuroscientist at the University of Chicago in the United States, said that a lack of direct contact can be particularly painful when falling out of love. This can also create obstacles for the other person's future relationship, so that they cannot invest in new relationships.
5. Refuse cold violence when breaking up
Many people think that as long as they leave each other dry for a period of time, and then wait for the relationship between the two to be irretrievable, and then they or the other party propose to break up, everything will be fine. But cold violence is also violence, it is a kind of mental abuse of people. And cold violence will only make the breakup draggy, waste each other's time and energy, and leave an unhappy impression on the other party.
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Anonymous users2024-01-30Hello, dear, <>
I'm asking a co-teacher Mango, and I'm glad to serve you. Now it's up to me to provide you with the relevant answers: Hello, dear, first, slowly reduce the contact with your boyfriend before breaking up, so that he can adapt to life without you You want to break up with your boyfriend, although I don't know why you want to end the relationship, but you definitely have your own reasons.
In order not to hurt you, and not to hurt the other party. You have to pay attention to the ways and means. In this case, I can't say that I can't hurt the other party, I can only reduce some of the damage, I hope mine can help you, this is the relevant answer I hope it can help you, I wish you a happy life and a smooth work!!
Since you have seen that he is not a responsible person, and you have been disappointed, and you have discovered many of his faults through your interactions, if you feel that you can go further, then be tolerant, understand and cover everything, communicate with each other when appropriate, and give each other their opinions. If you also have the heart to let go, there is nothing to be reluctant to, willing to be willing, willing to be willing to gain, and then entangled for a long time, you may suffer the grievances will increase, and your feelings are constantly degenerating, he is kind, good people have their own place, rather than so tired to maintain this relationship is better to be a little simpler, just like in the end there will be no beautiful results, why bother to keep chasing it......You are also very kind, otherwise you wouldn't care about the emotional foundation that went through ups and downs in half a year, people always have spirituality, and it is inevitable to have emotional interactions, if you have another him, everything will fade away.
Recovery depends on a variety of factors, such as how long you've been together, what broke up for, and so on. In fact, as a girl, it is difficult to get a boyfriend, and it is easy to say. The difficulty is because boys are more rational, decisive, and not easy to recover; It's easy because he can't bear it. >>>More
Tell him that you are willing to wait for him, no matter how long, tell him how much you like him, maybe what he needs now is your retention, don't always take the initiative or something, sometimes you also need the initiative of a girl.
Every time I pick a gift, I tell him directly, and it will be after a long time. If you don't know it after half a year, replace it, it's not no, it's true, it's true, I didn't take you seriously, wake up.
If you want to break up with your boyfriend, find a suitable time, speak tactfully, don't hurt the other person's self-esteem, and at this time it is best to tell the other person what the reason for the breakup is.