College students love problems, please help?

College students can fall in love, be cautious when falling in love, it is better to know each other to fall in love, and not to fall in love blindly.

You still have a choice! First of all, you have to make sure that you don't love her or not, if you don't love her enough, and you don't even feel that you are not suitable, you must think about it clearly. Otherwise, you will harm yourself and others, and bring serious harm to you!

Her meaning is very clear, but she didn't explain it in her face, he treated you as a blue face, find a chance to make an appointment, and talk about it in the future, I wish you happiness, the landlord is a good person,

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For college love, don't give yourself completely at first, still have to keep some sanity, don't see that everyone around you is in love, you also have to imitate, others are others, maybe others are lucky, your words are too anxious will look at the wrong person, the university is mixed, all kinds of people have, in the case of not knowing others, it is best not to decide the pursuit of others too quickly, it still takes time to see a person.

If you really meet the one you have in mind,And you also understand his personality and see what kind of heart he is. Then you can choose to be with him, college love is still very beautiful, since you have chosen to be with him, then don't go back and forth, get involved in flowers, you should take this relationship seriously, love is the emotional exchange of two people, you must treat each other, do not deceive or hide, and talk vigorously so that you will not waste time.

If you can make it all the way to college graduation. Then you can plan your future life. It's not easy to stick to it in college, so you have to be careful, don't listen to other people's gossip, and know the facts through your own eyes, as long as you can do this.

You'll come across it.

Some people say that falling in love in college is a compulsory course. Others say that this is a waste of youth. It's up to you to decide whether you should talk about it or not...

I'm also a college student, and I'm in a relationship, but I don't think it's good to be in love, sometimes it can play a complementary role... If you can fall in love correctly, this is also an unforgettable color to your life... I suggest it, talk about it, it's not bad, because they've all grown up.

When everyone was in high school, they wanted to wait for college to have a vigorous relationship, thinking that they could relax without scruples when they went to college, but this is not the case. No matter at all times, we must be strict with ourselves, we must have a correct view of love, we must have our own bottom line, and self-esteem and self-love are the best to make progress together.

I think college students are more free to fall in love than high school and junior high school students.

I believe that many college students hope that they can gain a sweet love in college, and then make up for the feeling that high school and junior high school teachers do not allow them to fall in love. Therefore, college students still recognize the matter of love, and there are no bad ideas, so they should be looking forward to it.

College love is much freer than high school, but you have to restrain your behavior in your own heart, college is not as simple as high school, some people like you and want to chase you, maybe it is with a bad heart, you must pay attention.

When looking for a boyfriend, you should also keep your eyes open and don't be deceived by others.

College students are free to fall in love, but they are not completely free, if college students do not have the ability to be responsible for themselves independently, if they are not financially independent, they are not able to afford the results of love. In the absence of independent financial ability, falling in love during college is just to enjoy the process, and there are still a few people who want to get married, and the counselor is the teacher in charge, and their reminder is right. It's better to focus on learning during college.

The current university years can be said to be the most free and comfortable era. It is very relaxing and happy to be away from home without the constraints of parents and without the supervision of counselors at school. Especially in college, it is estimated that everyone wants to try, but the freedom of college love does not mean that there can be no bottom line constraints, you must be self-restrained, responsible for yourself and responsible for others.

There are pros and cons to falling in love in college, and the advantage is that you can explore the experience of falling in love, which is beneficial for your future marriage and life. The disadvantage is that it is difficult to be in a city with a lover after graduating from college, and the success rate of long-distance relationships is very low. In addition, if you are in love, it is inevitable that you will have to occupy the time and energy of studying, which will affect your academic performance, so you must deal with the time for love and study.

I also had an unforgettable love experience in college, but in the end, it didn't work, but it made me know how to deal with the problem of his love, which is also the reward, so I don't feel sorry, I just live happily. In college life, love is always an unavoidable topic, beautiful and pure love is everyone's yearning, but there are always some practical factors that cause love to not be as perfect as imagined.

Then it is very important to establish a correct and positive view of love, first of all, economic issues. As college students, most people do not have a stable financial **, and the cost of love basically comes from the living expenses given by their parents. Therefore, love consumption must be moderately rational, true love does not necessarily need expensive gifts, high-end dating, even if it is a simple DIY hand-in-hand rolling road, as long as there is a true heart between each other, there will naturally be real warmth.

The second is the problem of learning. For the future of this relationship, work together to forge ahead. Although university life is free and happy, studying on campus is also essential.

Examples of couples who both went ashore with a degree certificate in one hand and a marriage certificate in the other. Indeed, envy others, don't waste your studies for love, but let love become the driving force for learning. Taking classes together and studying in the library together is also an enviable way to fall in love, and finally finding the right way to get along can keep love fresh for a long time.

Long-term love requires delicate management on both sides, from the initial vigorous transformation to the final trickle, to find the most suitable way for you to get along, tolerance and respect for each other is the most basic requirement.

In your daily life, you may meet other people who amaze you, but please be responsible for your current partner and don't hurt the other person's feelings. Because there are many people in the world who are better than their own objects, there is no way to compare, so the one who is loyal to himself should not be disappointed. Finally, I hope that college students can get the love they want for a long time.

As for how to look at the question of love, my personal opinion is that you should not find someone to fall in love with just because you see that other people or roommates are in love, this kind of love is not real. Although it was said above that falling in love in college is your own private matter, and the teacher will not care, you still have to keep your sanity, don't let everyone around you fall in love, and imitate it yourself. University is a small society, and it is not too late to look at people after they look inside, not on their appearance, and when they pursue others, they also have to spend time to understand them before being together.

On the other hand, many college couples will break up when they reach graduation season, due to various reasons. Therefore, the understanding of breaking up after graduation depends on whether you can accept it, my personal understanding is that the cost of falling in love in college is very low, and it can also be regarded as accumulating experience emotionally, and even if you want to break up after graduation, you will not leave regrets.

In general, I think that as long as you love someone in your own way and don't force it too much, it is a good view of love.

I think the counselor may be worried about you, the students who have just entered the university, the concept of love is not very perfect, and the teacher hopes that you can go through careful consideration before falling in love. College students should not fall in love because everyone around them has someone to accompany them, so they also want to have someone to accompany them, such an idea is not recommended, the reason why two people start is not good enough, and the ending may not be very good.

The love in college is still relatively simple and innocent compared to the society. There are still a lot of people who are really in love. But love in college is usually not easy to last long, because everyone's mind is not very mature, and it is easy to be impulsive when encountering things, and they will not take the initiative to apologize afterwards, because they can't pull down and other reasons.

It is also easy to inadvertently hurt others. Therefore, it is better to be cautious when it comes to falling in love during college.

Look at it for yourself, this, I think this question should start from your point of view, you can see more about how others fall in love, combine the skills, and then apply them to yourself, don't care about anything else, your own happiness is the most important, isn't it? So don't be afraid of this, fear that. Just get started and don't be hindered by anyone.

Love is a gift from heaven to us, and it needs to be treated well.

College love is free, and the pressure of studying is not as great as in high school. The two of them can fall in love normally, and it's a pity not to fall in love in college, our teacher also told us that college love should establish a correct view of love, not because a person is too selfless, self-esteem and self-respect, love is not a unilateral effort, together we must cherish it, work hard for our own studies.