How do you have endless topics to talk about when chatting with girls?

Talking to a girl can discuss how you see people in the current environment or how they look and how they dress. For example, if a girl wears this big necklace, "Have you ever noticed that thing people wear around their necks is getting bigger?" "As long as you talk about some basic trends, necklaces are always a good topic.

If you talk about fashion design, girls might wonder if you're gay). I usually like to talk about my 4 year old jeans and how natural and "unrepeatable" the hole in it is.

It depends on the girl's first impression of you, and if the first impression is not very good, then you have to start with something else. Find a topic that a girl is interested in to start with and prescribe the right medicine. But you can't just copy things that you don't know anything about what she's interested in.

If you want to have endless topics to talk about with a girl, it proves that you still have a certain interest in that girl, otherwise you won't want to have endless topics. These things are analyzed on a case-by-case basis. There is no certain standard.

Usually, we can find these topical things on Weibo hot searches, news and other platforms, and then talk to girls about their opinions. The most important thing is that we don't form an opposition to girls in terms of opinions, and be more tolerant, when girls feel that you have similar views, they will like to chat with you more and more. At that time, girls may find topics on their own, without you having to worry about it all the time.

When I chat with a girl, I look at her circle of friends, and most young women like to share their lives in the circle of friends, which can be said to contain their joys, sorrows, and sorrows. Thus, we can find out from her circle of friends what she likes or hates. Chat according to the preferences of her circle of friends, and unconsciously lead to a certain topic she likes, which will make you have endless topics to talk about.

I'll teach you a trick to let you and girls have endless topics to talk about, this skill is called key word chat, this skill can make your topics endless, if used properly, then you and girls chat, basically there will be no cold time. The key point of the keyword chat method is to grasp the keywords, because every sentence has a subject-verb-object, and there are keywords, so for each keyword, we can correspondingly expand the entire topic.

We can also talk to girls about current affairs, because current affairs are also endless. When talking about current affairs, it is an opportunity for us to show our three views, and it is best for us to be objective and mature in commenting on current affairs, rather than having extreme views. There is also a steady stream of such topics.

I think it's also great to talk about travel threads, which allow you to tell stories about amazing things you've been through. It has to be an international trip - even if you get to another city, you can still tell her about the interesting things you observed. The basic formula for starting a travel conversation clue is:

I've been somewhere lately. Then tell me a short anecdote.

Dig as deep as you can into the topic, such as eating? What did you eat? I like it too, I know a good restaurant, take you next time.

Don't ask a lot of general questions, if you don't know anything, you won't have anything to talk about.

In my opinion, the topic is the simplest thing, why do I think it's very simple to chat with girls, in fact, in my opinion, if you want to use five words to summarize the topic of chatting with girls, I think these five words are clothing, food, housing, transportation, love, I feel that these words have seen through the essence of all topics.

How to talk to girls, master the "big tree chat method", and have endless topics to talk about.

Topics related to the current popular TV series, the other party's preferences, their own lives, and work-related topics can be talked about.

You can talk about some topics that the other party is interested in, you can talk about some celebrities, good-looking bags, clothes, and some good-looking shoes, such as what are the good-looking TV series recently.

You should take the initiative to find a topic to talk about, you can talk about some topics about eating, you can also talk about some topics about drinking, you can talk about some topics of interest.

I think that at this time, the boy should be chatting about the girl's hobbies and preferences, and can also compete for some of the girl's behavior habits, put forward certain topics, and increase the interaction between the two people; I think that the topic of the entertainment industry and the topic of TV series are very easy to arouse the citizens, or you can tell a girl about a pet, which can play the interest of girls.

If you know someone from both sides, you can talk to the girl about this person. If two people have the same hobby, you can talk about the hobby and listen to the girl's point of view. You can also talk to girls about food, ask what you like to eat, and tell you what delicious food you have eaten.

If you happen to want to go on a date with a girl, you can also invite you to try it together.

Don't say this is not right or that is not good, so that the two of them can continue to talk.

Talking about the characteristics of the clothes you wear, there is naturally a topic, some girls are foodies, you can talk about some food, so there is a common topic, to a girl to say why to get up so late today, so there is a topic, talk about wanting to travel slowly involve their own emotions.

Talk about topics that girls like, such as favorite idols, pets, colors, cities, and favorite tourist places; Find topics from what girls like, so that you can talk endlessly and keep talking.

She has to be interested in you, or she has to be interested in the topic you're talking about.

In the topic, talk more about your feelings than just state the facts. For example: Have you eaten? Eaten. In this way, the conversation is dead, and the question-and-answer style is the most boring.

Have you eaten? You have to explain what you eat, what it tastes like, what happened during the meal, and expand the topic, and it will be endless, and finally ask her out to eat with you.

Of course, the premise is that this girl doesn't hate you and still has some feelings for you.

If girls are not interesting to you, then it doesn't matter how hard you try.

For example, if the chat starts, and you talk a lot, she simply says "oh", that is, she doesn't want to talk, because if a girl who is a little interested in you, she will naturally share her own feelings in the topic, even if she doesn't like the topic you said, she will not be perfunctory, she may directly express that she is not clear, or start another topic.

In my opinion, your question is the simplest thing, but at some point it is also the most difficult question, let's ****1, chat with the girl, first you have to know the girl's hobbies, and then start from her hobbies, you can move from one topic to another and keep talking, try to find a question that the other party is interested in, you can also find a hot time, or travel and other topics.

2. You have to learn to guide and be good at finding topics. Get the girl's preferences from the conversation, so that you find a point, there will be endless words to communicate, find the topic she is interested in, she will like to approach you, and moreover, a thoughtful girl is easy to be moved. What a girl needs most is that you can feel her emotions and be taken care of by you, so that you can really impress her.

People, with two ears and one mouth, just listen more and talk less. Any time, place, person, and event, as long as you follow this rule, will definitely make the other party open the conversation.

When interacting with girls, it is easy for boys to be in a hurry to show themselves and talk eloquently, focusing on self-presentation, ignoring the girl's thoughts and emotional needs, which leads to a hard "performance" for a long time, and the girl has already been too empty. If boys can guide girls to speak more, it is best to let girls express more, as long as boys listen quietly, respond a few words at the key point, or focus on asking questions, then girls often have a sense of confidant, the conversation box is open, and the emotional door is naturally open.

When people interact with each other, they start with communication, two people talk about life, see each other late, and emotional resonance ......Friendship and love naturally come naturally.

You can get to know the girl and then learn about some of the things she is more interested in, such as some of her hobbies, so that if you talk to her about these topics, she will definitely have endless things to say to you.

You can talk more about your common hobbies, and let the girls talk about what fun things they encountered today. Or go talk about some cosmetics that girls like.

You can talk about your daily life, the interests and hobbies of the two people, you can find some interesting arguments, and at the same time, you can also share each other's work experience, and so on.

I think that understanding the preferences of girls and chatting with them will allow them to have endless topics to talk about with you. But in addition to that, it depends on the appearance, as long as you are good-looking, girls are still willing to take the initiative to chat with you.

At this time, you can ask each other about your interests and hobbies, and you can also talk to each other about some topics that the other party is more interested in, or you can talk about the childhood experiences of two people.

Funny boys are very good at getting the favor of Zheng Zhenchun girls, and boys must know how to make girls happy. But don't make vulgar jokes, telling pornographic jokes will make many girls annoyed, that's not humor. Respect girls like a gentleman.

Being able to keep talking about things while chatting definitely requires skill, shouting for example, creating some topics! In the process of chatting, I think boys should be good at creating topics and letting girls play, that is, let girls perform, boys should be good at listening, and those who have the same views as themselves can be attached in time. And with appropriate compliments, then the girl will definitely be happy, and the atmosphere between you will be much less awkward.

In the process of chasing girls, many boys don't know how to chat with girls, and often desperately look for chat topics, but they still keep talking awkwardly.

This kind of chat is impossible to make two people feel respectful.

If you want to make feelings between two people in the process of chatting, the focus is not on the content of the chat, and girls will not have feelings for you just because you told a funny joke.

Therefore, even if boys are desperately looking for topics, it is difficult to change such a dilemma of chasing girls.

What kind of chat can make two people feel emotional?

Answer: The environment of chatting, or rather, the atmosphere of chatting, can only produce feelings when a good chat environment is created.

Chasing girls is a very important thing about "user experience", so chatting with girls and having a good atmosphere can give girls a good "experience".

Therefore, boys should learn to grasp the atmosphere of chatting, which is the focus of chatting, and stop constantly looking for topics to talk about.

The main core method is to start from the girl's "state of mind", influence the girl's mood, and create a chat atmosphere.

At a deeper level, it is to find resonance with girls by understanding their state of mind.

Here's an example. When chatting, the girl talked about her poor family when she was a child, suffered a lot, and her parents have been very tired, but before they had time to be filial to their parents, they left, and the girl's mood was suddenly very low.

After the boy felt that the girl's mood was very low, he also told his story to the girl, and resonated with the girl.

In this way, both of them are integrated into the chat atmosphere, and there are emotional changes and feelings between each other.

Moreover, when a chat has an atmosphere, the topics will naturally flow endlessly.

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