What others think of you has nothing to do with you at all

Yes, everybody is an individual, and it's okay with other people.

In life, we often hurt ourselves because of a word, an action, or a look from others. We will also be silly because of a compliment, a smile, an affirmation from others. But we don't know that other people's words may be unintentional, and praise may not be sincere, but we can affect our own mood because of others.

Letting your mood be swayed by others is the least worth it.

First of all, people don't necessarily really understand you. Take 10,000 steps back, even if he knows you very well, then only you can make decisions in your life, how you live, that's your business, others are not qualified to comment, and they are not qualified to make decisions. Many times, even we don't necessarily know ourselves, let alone other people.

Therefore, don't affect yourself because of others, the road you want to take, the place you want to go, and don't let others disrupt your plan with just a few words. Some people's comments are unintentional, and some people's comments are intentionally hurting you, and if you are sad about it, it will only make the bad guys achieve their goals. People live for a lifetime, there is no person who doesn't talk about people, and there is no person who doesn't talk about people, so we shouldn't care too much about other people's opinions, and don't care about other people's comments, just be yourself.

Secondly, caring too much about other people's eyes will only make us lose ourselves. Life is our own, we live for ourselves, not for others, and others don't care how we live. Everyone in this world is busy living their own lives, no one has too much time to pay attention to you, even if you are a big star or a big celebrity, you have done earth-shattering big things and gained people's attention for a while, but the world is changing rapidly, or it won't be long before the old things will be covered by new things, and you don't even have enough time to talk about it as someone else's after-dinner conversation, so do what you have to do and don't get lost in the eyes of others.

In the end, you should be clear about what kind of person you are and what kind of person you want to become. When we are disturbed by the outside world, we often question ourselves, for example, if you want to travel the world, others will laugh at you for being unrealistic, so you start to wonder if you are naïve. For example, you treat your friend with sincerity and sincerity, and you never think about competing with her for anything?

But in front of certain interests, she slanders you and gives you small shoes everywhere. At this time, we can completely ignore them and want to travel the world, then we can go and ignore what others say. was misunderstood by a friend, once it can be explained, twice it can be explained, and the third time, if you don't believe it, forget it, anyway, you are worthy of your conscience, and you know that you are not the kind of person she said, since you can't convince others, then don't force it, it doesn't matter what others think, the key is how we see ourselves.

I think it's still people's hearts are too liquid and fragile, so they care too much about other people's perceptions of themselves, I think it's really tiring to live like this, and it's not so easy to think about it when some people make trouble.

Humans are social animals. People generally care about the eyes of others, which is related to the character of each messy person, because people want to live in the society of poor companions.

I don't know my own strengths and weaknesses when I have a good match, and I feel that I can hear what kind of old person I am when I reach the bottom of my filial piety, so I care about other people's opinions.

Life is not easy, you have to know that you just need to do your own thing, and other people's business has nothing to do with you! Don't worry so much!

Money isn't everything, but believe me, many times, or most of the time, money can be exchanged for self-esteem, freedom, and, priority.

Other people's business has nothing to do with you (truth be told).

How others treat you is someone else's business, it has nothing to do with you, and it can't shake your heart in the slightest. You have to treat yourself well, because no one can really treat yourself well except you and take care of yourself, all external causes have to work through internal causes to work and change, internal causes are the key to the key, you are the only one who can achieve yourself, don't beat yourself down, you also have Buddha nature, nothing is bad.

There are only three things in life, one's own business, other people's business, and God's business. In our country where the sense of boundaries is very poor, many people often entrust their own affairs to others, invite others to step into their own space, and often impose their own will on others, forcibly enter other people's space, all the suffering in interpersonal relationships is caused by "we have no boundaries", in fact, you suffer a lot, just to let you know that you encounter them is completely unnecessary. Just be a boundary-conscious person, take responsibility for your own actions, and pay for your choices, you can't control God's business, and other people's affairs have nothing to do with you.

Doing your own thing, ignoring other people's business, keeping your own boundaries, and not violating the boundaries of others is the magic weapon to make yourself happy and maintain good relationships. Seeking common ground is because human beings are inherently a deeply cooperative species, and everyone is infinitely dependent on their own kind, and it is impossible for us not to be completely unintertwined. To be different is to respect individual boundaries and accept all differences, rather than being entangled in grievances.