My boyfriend is still in contact with my ex girlfriend, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-04
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Men can be lonely sometimes, and at the same time, men's self-esteem makes it difficult for them to find someone who can talk a lot. Keeping the love letter of the past, keeping the book full of her name, this is just retaining a once innocent feeling. Paying too much attention can only lead to estrangement, and then disagreement.

    Talk to him well and spend time with him. Especially a man who has his own career, there is a lot of pressure in his heart, you should understand, don't let him when he needs you the most, and you are not there. Think about it yourself, relax your mind, and try to be friends with her, and be generous where you should be.

    Sometimes, feelings are not wars, especially those of the past, which are bitter nostalgia.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    For a man, the place of first love in his heart may not be replaced by others in his life, even including his wife, so it is normal for some things to come out, such as treasured love letters, which is nothing strange ......Man, first of all, he is also a person, a person of flesh and blood and feelings, do you want to see your man's first love for him, showing a ruthless and righteous side? If he is a person who is responsible for the family, he will handle the proportions, but the premise is that you really know your man, and the words of the family are for reference only.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's up to you to see if you know your boyfriend, if he really loves you, and if the answer is yes, there's no need to worry about that. There's also no need to pressure him not to contact his ex-girlfriend. You can also become friends with his ex-girlfriend and thus test his purpose, whether it is pure friendship or something else.

    You have to show generosity, maturity will not bother ... Hope you are happy!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Maybe your boyfriend feels a little indebted, it's nothing, and it's impossible to have anything more when the girls are married! You can calmly talk to your boyfriend about it and ask him what he thinks, but I don't think there's any need to be angry about this kind of thing.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First of all, you can talk to your boyfriend calmly, tell you that you care about him, and at the same time make your position clear, and the best way to solve the problem when the two of you communicate.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Tell your boyfriend directly, ask him to give you a clear answer, don't do radical things behind your back, it's easy to make people angry.

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