My boyfriend has had a baby with my ex girlfriend, what should I do?

If you can't accept your boyfriend's child, then you can only choose to break up, because even if you accept it now, when you are living in the future, you have to think about everything about this child, because your boyfriend's child has not yet been legally formalized, and will there be any entanglement about the child when his ex-girlfriend comes back in the future....Although it hurts....But....For a person who has something to hide....There are a lot of accidents...It's hard to say about feelings....Thinking about the long-term future, I think it's best to give up!

If you love him deeply and can't do without him, then you should also accept his child and love him as much as you want to love your own child, and the child will not be an obstacle for you. If you only think about yourself and can't accept the child from your heart, then break up and find your love again, you like a type of person instead of a certain one, you will also have sweet love, and there are many good men.

If I were you, I would calmly think about it, do I still love him? What do I love about him? Or why love him, it's best if you can come up, life events, can't be child's play.

It's best not to regret the choices you make, because once you regret them, you will definitely remember them for life! I'm not you and can't know what you think. But I can remind you that your happiness is the most important thing, and no matter what the reason, it can't stop you from pursuing happiness with all your might!

You say yes!

If you two truly love each other, I believe your mother understands that you will accept him, and I bless you!

There is no need to accept a reality that you are not willing to accept for the sake of so-called love.

I'm the same, it's complicated, I don't know what to do, but I've had two tires for him

I think it must be minded, no man will not mind this matter, but some men will still choose to marry this woman although they say they mind, but some men will not be small in their hearts.

I think men are particularly mindful; Because some men have a spiritual cleanliness fetish, they will think that their girlfriends are impure and cannot accept the fact that they have children.

I think I will definitely mind, this is also a more humiliating thing for men; And in the face of such a situation, they don't know what to do, well, they should be very entangled, because after all, they also like their girlfriends very much.

I can only say that if you can accept it, you will be together, and if you can't accept it, you will give up.

He didn't lie to you, but he also hid it for a while, and I also believe that he hid the truth because he loved you, so he was afraid to say it.

A person's life is long and short, but there is no one who does not make mistakes, although he is wrong, but the responsibility is not entirely his.

In this case, he said, the child should be with him, so you have to think clearly, you have to be together, and you may be a mother when you enter the door. So you have to be cautious.

When you meet the right person, sometimes it's really hard to choose.

I can't help you with that decision.

Yes, as long as he takes the initiative to say it, I don't mind, who doesn't have a past, then the divorced and children, won't they be able to marry a wife, they can't marry, it's not a matter of children, it's a matter of whether they are honest enough.

If your boyfriend is lazy, does not do a good job, has no specialties, and has poor family conditions, then you will mind that your boyfriend and ex-girlfriend have children, if your boyfriend opens a company, the family conditions are superior, so that your future life is guaranteed, and you will not mind that your boyfriend and ex-girlfriend have children, because the family background is good, and there are two more children, but you can't have anything to do with your ex-girlfriend in the future, and you can take care of your ex-girlfriend and your own children!

To accept a person is to accept all of him, the child can accept it, it is not acceptable for him to break the connection with his ex-girlfriend, try to communicate with him, if he does not change anything, you might as well end the relationship!

Whether to accept everyone's different views, the standard of measurement is basically the depth of love, love can be accepted deeply, and it is difficult to accept if you don't feel emotional.

If we love each other with sincerity, then I should accept her child. Otherwise, then there will be no happiness. You're going to be right. The child is better. Only then can the family be happy and harmonious.

It varies from person to person, whether you can accept your own decision, accept that there are many things behind, you have to be mentally prepared, you can't accept it, make a decision immediately, it's good for you and for others.

Of course it's acceptable, it's acceptable that your boyfriend and ex-girlfriend have children, but it's not acceptable for her to hide it, if once people you are cheating on you, cheating on you is a scam.

If you can't accept your boyfriend's child, then you can only choose to break up, because even if you accept it now, when you are living in the future, you have to think about everything about this child, you have to determine whether you really like this man, want to marry him, and at the same time make sure that his love for you is real, single-minded, and make sure that he is sincere in confessing now and does not want you to regret it.

Of course, you can't accept it, while he is your boyfriend, he also has to fulfill the obligations of someone else's father, which will obviously affect the love life between the two of you.

This depends on whether you can bear the fact that your ex-boyfriend has had children, most unmarried girls are still more difficult to accept, but if you love him very much, it's another matter, if you can't accept this fact, it's better to let go as soon as possible and find a new relationship.

As long as there is love. You love each other very much, that child. It's not a big reason.

But you have to be mentally prepared. Are you really okay with this child? Otherwise, in the future.

When there is friction in your life, it will cause pain for both parties.

If I do, I won't be able to accept it.

First of all, he has children, and this should not be hidden from me.

It's just an emotional deception to me.

And it's actually very troublesome to have children. It may bring endless troubles in the future in raising or taking care of children.

So if I meet such a person, I will definitely break up with him decisively.

I think for a single and unmarried man, almost no one will consider it, after all, no one will want a "second-hand goods", and the child is someone else's, who would want to be such a wronged leader? I'm not very old, and there are so many little girls who are single for the first time, why should I find a second marriage with children?

Do you feel like your boyfriend is cheating on you? I feel that this boy is quite mature, and I confessed to you before you got married, the boy's love for you is sincere, do you love this boy? If love gives him a chance, accept his past, his future and his future.

Personally, I don't think it's acceptable, it's not a child's problem here, it's obviously a boyfriend's integrity problem to say it after being together for six months, why didn't you say it in the first place? , should you hit this boyfriend more??

If you have a good boyfriend, you can talk about him having a child with his ex-girlfriend? At the same time, it also shows that he has no problem, and it is convenient for you to have children.

Summary. Generally, I will talk to my mother, because with my mother is more conducive to the growth of my child.

Generally, I will talk to my mother, because with my mother is more conducive to the growth of my child.

Of course, it can also be dealt with according to the method of giving to whomever wants. For example, if it's a boy and your boyfriend wants it very much, then you may support him.

This is my understanding. If you think mine is not comprehensive enough, you can talk about the situation in detail, and I can help you better

Mom ran away with someone else and couldn't find it, the child is now on her boyfriend's side, if I can't accept it, what else can I do with this child.

Uh-huh, I saw your reply.

That can be supported by your boyfriend's parents.

That is, the child can not live with you, but he cannot abandon or give it away, because he is the father of the child and has the obligation to support him.

In fact, from this point of view, it may be necessary for you to change your concept and accept the existence of this child.

It can also be seen from this that your boyfriend is also a responsible person and a responsible person.

If it is really unacceptable, then it may have to break up, because the fact that this child exists cannot be changed.

This is my understanding. If you think mine is not comprehensive enough, you can talk about the situation in detail, and I can help you better

It's not that simple, the child has to be registered for study, but I don't accept the hukou on our side, because I don't want to see it, and if the boyfriend's parents die, what will happen to the child, if the paternity test is not his child, can the child not be careless.

Uh-huh, I saw your reply.

If the paternity test is not his, it can be ignored, it can be dealt with by the police, and it can be sent to an orphanage.

If your boyfriend's parents have passed away and it is indeed your boyfriend's child, then your boyfriend will take care of it.

The child and the father are hukou walking.

You can go to the relevant local departments to ask for details, and maybe there are ways I didn't think of them.

This is my understanding, I hope it can help you <>

It should be fulfilled, although your boyfriend has betrayed you, but the child is innocent, so you should also let the child go and give them a healthy and happy family.

It should be fulfilled. Because once the child is born, the boyfriend will be forced to choose to break up because of his responsibility for the child.

It should be fulfilled, for the sake of this lovely child, let them be together, and the child cannot be left without a father.

Summary. Sorry to keep you waiting. The first thing I want to tell you is that this child is related to you.

Sorry to keep you waiting. The first thing I want to tell you is that this child is related to you.

You will be responsible for the maintenance of your child.

But now that you've broken up with her, you can sit down and have a good chat and see what she means.

Since she gave birth to the child alone, she may have two purposes: 1She is still in love and wants to establish a more stable and long-term marriage relationship with you through this child.

2.She really wants a child, but she doesn't mean to renew her relationship with you. In this case, she may not intend for you to pay alimony.

So I suggest you have a good chat with her to see what her ultimate goal is, so that you can solve the problem in a targeted manner.

Summary. When you ask him, it is really important that your boyfriend will take the initiative to tell you that he will take the initiative to confess. will take the initiative to confess that he has let go, and if he is hesitant, it means that his ex-girlfriend has not yet come out of his heart.

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See if you love him, see if he loves you, if the answer is yes, then face it calmly.

When you ask him, it is really important that your boyfriend will take the initiative to tell you that he will take the initiative to confess. will take the initiative to confess that he has let go, and if he is hesitant, it means that his ex-girlfriend has not yet come out of his heart.

If you find that your boyfriend is still in contact with a girl he has been in a relationship with, you should be vigilant and make it clear to him, and it is best to cut off the relationship, which is dangerous.

Girls like to compare themselves with their boyfriend's ex, in fact, there is nothing to compare, what he likes now is you, and you have won in this regard.

Who doesn't have a little story, in their twenties, there are still too few people who are in love for the first time. So don't be too careful, be a little more open-minded, be more considerate, and be more tolerant.

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When I learn that my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend is pregnant with his child, I will find out, whether my boyfriend knows, when he knew, what situation, and what his ex-girlfriend thinks. After all, I like him too, and the person who is with him now is me, and I still won't be separated all at once.

I had already done a paternity test, but I was in pain, he said that if it was his child, he would have to raise the child, and he felt sorry for me.

What am I going to do.

It depends on how much you love him, if you don't love him very much, then you will break up, this child will definitely be a burden to you in the future.

Question: I didn't expect this kind of drama to happen to me.

I hate him so much now, I hate him so much.

All I could think about was the image of him sleeping with the woman.

Ask your boyfriend for his opinion to see how he treats the child before deciding what he will do or respect his choice.

Summary. First of all, if the child is being raised by a man, I think you should think carefully, compare if you have a child, it may cause problems. Second, if the man and the woman are still in touch, then you can gather evidence and break up with your boyfriend sooner.

Thirdly, if your boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend have been cut off, then you don't need to worry about anything and live a good daily life with your boyfriend.

I understand you, please wait a minute.

First of all, if the child is being raised by a man, I think you should think carefully, compare if you have a child, it may cause problems. Second, if the man and the woman are still in touch, then you can gather evidence and break up with your boyfriend sooner. Thirdly, if your boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend have been cut off, then you don't need to worry about anything and live a good daily life with your boyfriend.