How to guide children to learn to share, how to let children learn to share?

Parents must teach their children to share.

1.Lack of communication habits: Children may not have developed the habit of sharing with their parents, resulting in them not knowing how to share their daily life with their parents.

2.Distrust of parents: Children may lack trust in their parents and are reluctant to share their daily lives with them.

3.Lack of attention from parents: Sometimes parents may be busy with their own work and life, lack of communication and attention with their children, and children may feel that their daily lives are not important to their parents.

4.Age: Children at certain ages may be more autistic or independent and reluctant to share daily routines with their parents.

How to develop your baby's ability to share.

1. Meet the baby's need for love.

Ask mom and dad to spend enough time and energy with their baby, and don't ignore their baby's need for love. Otherwise, your baby may lose the sense of security he has gained. This distrust of parents may manifest itself in the baby's social behavior, such as the reluctance to share with others.

2. Be an example of sharing.

Mom and dad can consciously share what they like with their family in front of the baby, when the baby occasionally makes a sharing behavior, must not refuse, to sincerely accept the baby's kindness, and to thank the baby, so that the baby can experience that it is a very happy thing to share with everyone, so as to motivate him to continue this behavior.

3. Role-play.

Tell your baby stories about sharing, and play the role of sharing with your baby, the baby will play the role of sharing what he likes with others, and Mom and Dad will play the role of accepting gifts from others, and then you can exchange roles. After a period of role-playing, the real and direct emotional experience makes the sharing characteristics of the role fixed in the baby's heart. At this time, the baby will really grow from a "stingy" baby to a cute baby who is willing to share with others.

4. Strengthen guidance during critical periods.

The age is a critical period for the development of children's ability to share behavior, and parents should seize this period to guide them in their daily lives. For example, when the baby is with his family and with children, he should be guided to share food, toys, etc., so as to make full use of this critical period to promote the development of sharing behavior ability and better acquire social communication skills.

1. Understand your child's behavior. When the child is occupying things and is unwilling to share this behavior with others, first of all, parents should understand his behavior, which is normal, indicating that the child has begun to establish his own sense of property rights, and through the confirmation of the object, to recognize the relationship between the object and himself, which is a process that every child must go through.

2. Don't be serious and don't scold. Help the child successfully pass the sensitive period of property rights awareness, and teach him to learn to share the correct way is not to be honest and not to scold. Some parents think that their children will not share because of their own lack of education, and there is a loss of face in the liquid branch, so they can't help but scold their children and compare themselves with their children.

3. Find the right opportunity to sell sensitive and remind appropriately. It is more common for children to play with others, and there will inevitably be some friction in the face of each other's toys.

When the child nods, tell him: Then you give the toys to the other friends to play with, and they are happy, right? In this way, it is possible to give the child a sense of sharing without compulsion and natural excess.

4. Attribution after sharing. When a child shares his toys with other friends, let them understand that the toys belong to him, and let the children know that they need to be returned after others have finished playing, so that the children will gradually understand and be willing to share.

5. Don't tease children. Parents should remember not to tease their children when they are unwilling to share, and when they are unwilling to share, they will immediately snatch the things in the hands of the children to other children, and do not say that they are stingy when the child cries, which is not right, and so on.

6. Accept your child's sharing. When the child's awareness of sharing is trained many times, the child will gradually share the things in his hands with us adults to eat, at this time we must accept, can not say that the baby eats, the mother does not eat", this is the rejection of the child's sharing, the child will produce a kind of disappointment, over time will not be willing to share, because can not feel the fun of sharing.