Should I marry with the person I love or the right person?

First of all, it is harder to fit than to love. Whether a person is suitable or not is actually a coffin conclusion, and the real world is that there must be something about a person who is not suitable for another person. No matter how good his conditions are, how satisfied his parents are, and how well you are compatible, no other person happens to match the complex gears of people.

Two people together, even if they are three or five years, if they don't maintain the mentality of running in and the determination to keep an independent distance from each other, the gears will only be bad and will not be good. If there is no love, suitability is a fantasy, why do we have so many laws and regulations, just to keep a distance between people by abiding by the rules, so that the heart's gears are worn out too badly. So, remember the first rule of married life, in this world, there is no right person, only the person who loves.

Secondly, there is no degree of immaturity that will not love. What is maturity, maturity is the beginning and change of the warp. And human nature hates uncertainty, so whether it is school or primary society, it is still cultivated to cultivate the principle of fairness that you will get if you give, and the first lesson in life that allows you to experience the impermanence of the world is to learn in love.

When you know that a person also has something that is not as good as you want, and you still don't regret the time you spend with him, you are mature. When you go from asking what to do to thinking that there is always a way to solve it, you have a responsibility. Without maturity and responsibility, married life will not be happy.

Remember the second rule of married life, which is a partnership in which the other party is not your protector, but your partner. In the long run, people will only find partners with comparable conditions. Third, there is no such thing as a reality of finding a way to find a way in love, hoping for a one-step solution.

No matter how good this person's conditions are now, he is married, has children, has a house and a car, but he may be confused because of his promotion anxiety and neglect of his family, when he meets other members of the opposite sex, when he encounters the decline in his physical health, and when he encounters the emptiness of his ordinary life, he is lost... Imagine that such a family, on the basis of no love, what motivation does it have to fight against these? <>

If I had to choose, I would most likely choose to marry the right person rather than the person I like. I think marriage is more like living together as a couple, if that person likes him and he doesn't like me, I guess it's hard to be happy after marriage. But choosing the right marriage partner is different, at least two people can work together for a better married life, such a family atmosphere should be better, more conducive to the healthy growth of children, and more conducive to the stability of the relationship between husband and wife.

First, there are many advantages to choosing the right person.

If you choose to marry someone who is in harmony with you, at least we can clarify the division of labor between the two people in married life, and both of us can play the role they should play. Even if we don't like each other enough, we are the strongest allies. In this way, we are often able to keep our hearts and not be disappointed because someone has given too little emotionally in our married life.

On the contrary, we take our marriage seriously, because we already know what we should look like when we get married.

Second, it is easy to choose the person you like.

If I choose to have a good relationship with someone I like, I may pay a lot to this family because I like this person at the beginning, but once I can't warm the other person's heart and the other party has not responded, I am likely to be hurt because of this, and I will have an unwilling psychology and feel sorry for myself. In such a situation of losing my cool, it is conceivable that my performance will deteriorate day by day, and this family may become precarious because of this, which I must not accept. It's better to choose a firm partner to live with at the beginning.

3. If you can like each other, that's the best.

Of course, there is one exception, and that is if the person I like likes and he likes me, then I will definitely choose the person I like 100%. Because two-way love is very beautiful, it is great that its destination can be based on marriage. Because I believe that the moment when two people who love each other come together and finally make a vow in front of the sacred temple is deeply moving, and we will respect each other, love each other, and support each other in the rest of our lives.

Marriage to the person you like will make the relationship between the two people more stable, and you will not often quarrel because of some small things in life.

Personally, I think that you should marry the right person, because only such a person will live happily with you in the future.

should be with the person you love, because in this way, two people have a common topic, are willing to compromise for each other, and are willing to work hard for the future of two people.

The right person, because the personalities of the two people are very suitable, will get along very well, basically there will be no quarrels, which will help the stability of the marriage.

It means that you have to live with each other for the rest of your life, and two people have been together for so long, why not choose one that satisfies you? So we have to avoid being with someone we don't like, and we also want to avoid being with someone who doesn't fit us.

Love is the foundation of marriage, try to marry someone who loves each other. Although we have no way to guarantee that in the future life, this relationship will not become, and it will be able to withstand the wear and tear of time, but if there is a good emotional foundation between each other, it will make us more tolerant of each other when facing complex trivial matters after marriage, and we will feel that with each other, even if life is not easy, it will not be so difficult, so that each other will go together for a longer time.

Don't be with someone who hasn't come out of the previous relationship yet, it's irresponsible for both of them. Maybe the other party just has gratitude and gratitude to you, but this feeling is not love, don't let this feeling be mistaken for love. After all, life-saving straw is only useful at the moment of need, and it is not needed after being rescued.

Touching is only temporary, feelings are lifelong. Touching without an emotional foundation is not love.

Love is also unfair, don't think that you are good enough, you are good enough personally, so you will definitely win the other person's heart. Love is mutually attractable, it will not make the other person attractive to you just because you are good to the other person, if you don't love, you don't love, no matter how good you are in front of someone who doesn't love you, it doesn't mean anything to him.

Marriage is serious, it must be well thought out, and don't let yourself regret it because of the impulse. A person's life itself is a difficult practice, and feelings are not a necessity, we must gain and lose, after all, we can never have both. Therefore, do your own trouble, do not lose yourself, do not lower your self-standards, love yourself first, and then someone will love us.

I also hope that people who love each other can be together in the end and have a good outcome.

The right lover gets married together, I think it's more about the relationship between the two of them, or the three views of the personality are very harmonious, the right lover can be happy and last for a long time when they are together, and Li Zhixin has the motivation to live a round together.

Love is the foundation of marriage, try to marry someone who loves each other with round hands. Although we have no way to guarantee that in the future life, this relationship will not become, and it will be able to withstand the wear and tear of time, but if we have a good emotional foundation with each other, we will be more tolerant of each other when facing complex trivial matters after marriage.

If you don't share the same goals, you won't be able to go long-term, and marriage will be white-headed and old.

If I had my own choice, I would probably choose to marry the right person rather than someone I liked. I feel like getting married is more like living together. If that person likes me, but he doesn't like me, I guess it's hard to be happy after marriage.

But choosing the right marriage partner is different. At least two people can work together for a better married life. Such a family atmosphere should be better, more conducive to the healthy growth of children, and more conducive to the stability of the relationship between husband and wife.

There are many benefits to choosing the right person.

If you choose to marry someone who is compatible with you, at least we can clarify the division of labor between two people in married life, and both people can play their own role. Even if we don't like each other enough, we are the strongest allies. In this way, you can always keep your heart and not be disappointed because someone's feelings in your married life are too little.

Instead, we take our marriage seriously, because we already know what it should be like at the beginning of our marriage.

The one that fits is easier to get along with than the one you like.

If I choose to marry someone I like, at first I may give a lot to the family because I like this person, but once I don't cover the other person's heart and the other person doesn't respond, I will probably be hurt because of it, and then I will feel unwilling, and I will feel upset about myself. With this loss of cool, I can imagine that my performance will deteriorate day by day and this home may be in jeopardy. Of course, I can't accept such an outcome.

It is best to choose a committed partner to live with from the beginning.

If you can like each other, that's the best.

Of course, there are exceptions, that is, if the person I like also likes me, then I will definitely choose this person that I like 100% of the time. Because two-way love is beautiful, and its destination can be based on marriage, which is great. Because I believe that the moment when two people who love each other come together and finally make a vow in front of the sacred temple is touching, and that our whole lives will respect each other, love each other, and support each other as promised.

If the person you like very much likes you and likes you very much, then marry him, and if he doesn't like you very much, then marry the right person.

I think you have to marry someone you like, because there will always be chicken feathers in marriage, even if it is suitable, there are disputes indispensable, and you are reluctant to lose your temper with the person you like, and you will be very happy with the person you like.

I think it's about marrying the person you like the most, which will make you happier after getting married, and you will always keep the sweetness of love.

The person you love is not necessarily the right person to get married, and the person you are fit to marry is not necessarily the person you love. If we don't think this clearly and get married in a hurry, then we will really regret it after the age of 40.

After experiencing more things, people are more and more discovering that some people are suitable for sharing happiness and happiness, and some people are suitable for sharing weal and sorrow. They can be happy with us, and laugh with us in the sun; can share hardships and trek with us in the wind and rain, such people are people who join hands with us for a lifetime, and this person is often not the person we love deeply.

Many of us had an unforgettable first love when we were younger, and that person was often the one we loved dearly. At that time, we were all simple, naïve and stubborn, thinking that love was greater than heaven and that love was everything.

There are many bumps and bumps in society, and we find that the trivialities of firewood, rice, oil and salt in life will erode love. We will be surprised to find that there are really many people who are only suitable for dating but not for living.

He can accompany you to travel all over the mountains and rivers and enjoy the beautiful rivers and mountains, but he is not willing to pick up children every day. She can be drunk and singing with you, appreciating ancient and modern Chinese and foreign heroes, but she is not willing to cook, wash and do housework. When you are sick, he is too lazy to accompany you to the hospital, and when your family is sick, she is resolutely unwilling to serve.

When you get old, he thinks you have become a yellow-faced woman, and when your career is stagnant, she thinks you have no ability.

At this time, you will find that although deep love is important, it is far less important than companionship and support. If you can have both, then it's naturally best, otherwise you should give up your love and choose to accompany and support.

We say that we want to find a loving marriage, which is of course very correct, but this is based on the premise that two people have love, it is easier to resist all kinds of bumps and bumps in marriage, and it is easier to go on for a long time.

However, in marriage, it is more important to understand each other, and the accompanying support that comes from it. There are more people who love each other, but how many can't understand each other, so that all kinds of bloody dramas are staged? There are more people who love deeply, but how many personalities are so conflicting that it is easy to fall in love and difficult to get along?

There are more people who love deeply, but how many of them have too much resistance between the chains, and Yiliangsun has been fighting against resistance?

Love is just a part of life, and it should be the icing on the cake, or even better. If you give up your life for love, you are putting the cart before the horse, getting sesame seeds but losing watermelons.

Because the person you love the most is not the same as loving yourself, it is not suitable for your own marriage, so you should find someone who you really love to marry.