Walking on the verge of falling out of love. Help me analyze whether I should chase her again

In fact, this kind of thing is really hard to say, after all, everyone's thoughts are not the same, and she doesn't know whether to be angry or really want to give up your relationship now, so the best way is to find her to explain things clearly, ask her if it is still possible to reconcile, and tell her that you are angry with her when you say that to her. 6 years is such a long time, I am sure she will take it seriously, and if she cares about you, she will be reconciled.

You have to have faith in yourself, in your feelings.

I'm not good at feelings, I think everyone has their own ideas, maybe she's just angry with you, but it's also possible that she's tired of your attitude of doing things, and wants to give up this relationship to start her life anew, but if you really like her, I think you still work hard to pursue, no matter what the outcome is, as long as you work hard, I think at least you won't feel sad and regret for the original retreat in the future.

Even the number has been changed, tell you Do you think you still need to continue People are emotional animals If one party finds a new boyfriend or a third party, the game will be over quickly There is a kind of love called touching Do you understand Since it's impossible, don't be stupid

Judging by your four years of experience, I suggest you don't dwell on it any longer. Some women just like the feeling of being away, and if you stick too close, they will stay away; If you're too far away, they'll lose their temper. Do you feel as if you're being led by her all the time?

Be a little more free and easy, and there will be the next girl.

If you feel that you have met the right person and she is also worthy of your love, continue to love, four years is not long, but it is not short!

It may be a hint that you have the possibility of renewing the front edge, or it may be a coincidence unintentionally, if you still want to, you can also hint or ask to sit out, if you refuse, then let it go.

Water bottle? Don't think about it again!

Meaning you don't value her.

A lifetime. The saddest thing is that self-inflicted affection is in exchange for nothing.

Things must be reversed, you still have hope, admit your mistakes, but can you control such a girl? Don't let love become painful.

This woman is very arrogant, and you are not attractive enough to her, so you say that you are good-looking, you two are too passive, too used to her, even if you continue, it is not interesting.

Let it go, there is no benefit if you don't let go, there are benefits to letting go, one is that you will be a little more relaxed psychologically, because when you are desperate every day, your life will not dare to be big, and there will always be negative effects. The second is that the long pain is better than the short pain, and it is human nature to be able to learn a lesson and polish your eyes or not expect to polish your eyes but to love Lang Jun from now on, and the third is that he is hateful enough, are you not afraid to be with such a person, it is human nature to stay away.

In fact, you have to thank him for recognizing you, as well as his dedication, breaking up does not mean tearing your face, forgiving you will not be tough to that extent, it sounds good from the beginning to the end, and a person will have more social experience, you think about the current society, there are not many people divorced, people are also "first marriage", society creates complex people's hearts, it doesn't matter whether it is good or bad, what I want to say is that you have to look away, and secondly, you can't let yourself leave a shadow.

Love, why do you have to give up easily?

Falling out of love is indeed painful, and it is his seven-year relationship, and it will be difficult to turn around for a while!

Your boyfriend tells you what he thinks, and maybe he takes you more seriously.

But the past is the past after all, why should I always measure it by other people's past, my ex-girlfriend also talked to me for 3 years, and finally chose to leave me, and I also passed 1 year to forget her, but in this year, my current girlfriend knows about it, and I tell her all my thoughts, her choice is willing to come with me!

As a boy, it's actually very touching to hear his woman say such things.

In fact, love is like this, if you think it's worth it, then you work hard, if you don't think it's worth it, let it go as soon as possible!

Maybe for the sake of reluctance, anything is acceptable.

But will regret it later.

You're still young.

Find someone to fall in love with.

will be happy.

Since he told you so, I think you understand it too, what else can you do? Do you still cry and argue for him to stay for you? Even if the person who can keep him can't keep his heart, besides, if he really wants to go, even if he can't walk, you can't keep it, he has to climb out, forget it, there are many good men in the world, I think I can do it, and there must be others who can do it, remember that in the future, before you don't understand this man, don't invest all your feelings at every turn, pay is equal to gain, that's self-righteousness, unless you believe that you can turn a bad man into a good man!

Leave, it's because you have paid without regrets, so you can have no regrets, leave without guilt, you will be more free than him, because you are not sorry for anyone.

There's really nothing like that everybody does.

It just so happens that falling in love is a kind of fate, and it is a gift from above.

It's rare to meet it the first time.

Believe in me, believe in yourself.

You will get your true love!

Time is a magical thing.

When it's all gone, you'll understand everything.

If I were you, I wouldn't forget this relationship, because I have to learn to love myself first, in order to be more confident, to love others more, no matter from the other room, to be loyal to yourself, since he has put forward his own ideas, proving that he is still a good person and does not want to delay you, so you should also think about it, although it is difficult to accept, but it is indeed a fact, we have to be happy, generous, a person's wonderful let go, hehe, I wish you happiness.

Forget it, friends.

Affection is not one-sided on a person's part.

It is mutual.

The so-called twisted melon is not sweet.

Let it go, since love is at the end of the road, why bother to protect this love that has no ending, give up a tree, and you will have the whole forest.

Happy to you.

It's hard to change what men decide.

No matter how much you try to keep him, you can only keep his people.

Can't keep his love, can't keep his heart.

It's hard to persuade you to give up, but it's the only option that works in your favor.

Yes, feelings cannot be forced

Gives you 2 options

One is to choose to give up, and it is better to be in pain for a lifetime than for a while

The second is to force myself to pretend that I don't know what to do and continue to live with him, but I know it's hard

Actually, feelings are selfish, but I believe that maybe he is hugging you, kissing you at that moment, his heart. It's completely yours, and knowing that there is true love, then it's not cheating. Learning to let go of yourself, although it is easy for me to say it as an outsider, I understand that it is difficult to do, and it is up to you.

Break it up, this man is too selfish, too irresponsible, isn't this just a feeling**.

Let go as soon as possible, since he has no feelings for you, why do you still follow him?

If a man has no feelings for you, then he will not take your feelings into account when he does things, and in that way, you will often be hurt.

Love and marriage are all about finding a partner, a partner who takes care of each other, encourages each other, and depends on each other, not a person who is desperate.

while the other person is desperately enjoying it, or desperately hurting you invisibly.

If you say that you live for yourself, then why should you be with him, it is better to be single.

Don't you feel sad about a body that has no feelings for you?

In fact, one-sided love is the saddest love, and if you live like that, one person is tired, and the other person will be tired.

Give it up! Since he has told you that he has never had feelings for you, then in his heart he just wants you to break up with him, and one is not with you.

The soul around him, what is the use of him. The one who got him, you can't get his heart, you will suffer.

Find someone who loves you, where is there no grass at the end of the world? Why not bother looking for something that shouldn't be yours?

After reading your story, I think our experiences are a bit similar. Because I was also faced with the situation of not knowing where to go. He was also my first love, and I gave a lot.

He also had someone by his side who had been with him for six years and was once very close. The difference is that they are separated and will not be together. But for some complicated reasons, even so, the two of us couldn't get together.

But he said he loved me and I liked him too. So even though I am now suffering and aggrieved because of the uncertainty of the relationship, I still have no way to make a decision to let go. But I know if he says to me:

It's not me who likes it, it's not me who loves it," then it won't be because it's my first love, and it won't be because I like him and can't bear to break up. We are all girls, and what we care about most is whether the boy next to us has himself in his heart, and whether he likes himself or not? If he wasn't that person, he wouldn't be happy from the bottom of his heart if he continued, would he?

If he really said to you personally: "I have no feelings for you, I love you, like you, and am willing to take care of you for a lifetime" and other words are lying to you, then instead of the three of them entangled, it is better to let the two of them feel comfortable. Even though your feelings for him are real, even though it's hard and painful.

But did you find the motivation to entangle? He himself said, "He doesn't have you in his heart!"

I can't forget my ex-girlfriend" Maybe my words sound cruel, but if you think about it, is that the truth? Of course, this is just my personal opinion!

If I were you, whether he could forget the woman of the past or not, out of self-preservation, I would not give myself to such a casual person who comforts himself with other people's feelings, others do not pity you enough, and have to pity themselves. I believe you should have a relationship of your own for 7 years or even longer. You have yours, and I'll have mine.

I used to have a girlfriend who had been with me for three years, and then we broke up because of a little misunderstanding, and then I found a lot of girlfriends to forget her, including the current one, but I and my current girlfriend have been a year since yesterday, and I also found out that I was really in love with her.

How to say it, you still have to fight for your own feelings, if you really love him, go for it, after all, the two of you have been together for a long time.

In addition, I want to say that not every love has to pay true feelings, silly child, slowly grow up, hehe, don't they all say that the first love doesn't understand love at all, I hope you can experience it, you will understand some.

Let go and let him go.

Although you love him, he doesn't love you, you are just a stand-in, you love so humblely, you can love someone without caring about right and wrong, but at least love each other.

Be generous and let him go, even if you cry with a pillow at night, you have to smile and say goodbye in front of him, because then you will be worth his miss.

It is impossible to take back the feelings you have paid all at once, but you have to learn to forget, you didn't know the truth before, but now you know, you can't act as if you don't know anything, how long can the happiness of self-deception last?

Although it hurts to break love, you don't plan to live in false happiness all the time, do you? When he doesn't want to give you false happiness, it will be more painful and difficult to accept than when you break off love.

Can you bear the helplessness and grief when he says he loves you, when he kisses you and his eyes look at other women through you? If you can, then you can choose not to let go.

There's a saying that goes like this: "I'd rather think of me when you hold someone else than think of someone else when you hold me", you know?

Divide it more chicly! It is recommended that you separate from him first, if he still loves you, he will find you again, if he doesn't love you, it is also the right thing to do, it is very painful to live with someone who does not love you! Come on, I wish you to find your own happiness! ~~

Ponder slowly.

Let's break up.

Many things don't necessarily pay off. Especially feelings.

If you have the opportunity to fight for it, since he is an emotional person, then if one day you grab his heart with your love, then I think you will be very happy! In fact, loving someone can't be measured by time, although he and his ex-girlfriend have been for seven years, they have depended on each other because of seven years! And you are only with him for seven months, so you need time to accompany him slowly, they finally broke up after seven years, which means that their fate is over, and you are the other half who will accompany him in the future!

It is very difficult to find a man who is truly considerate of himself in the vast sea of people, he is cold to you, he thinks it is unfair to you, and wants you to leave by yourself!

If you love, don't give up!

This love is worth it!

Love, two people together.

Over time. Neither of them changes, but it is also timeless.

One side changes, one side stands still, and nature gradually drifts away.

They changed together but became no longer in the same way as each other and parted ways.

Change together but still be able to be united, so eternal.

A love affair ends.

We feel that our lover has changed, left, or betrayed.

I feel like I was like I was back then.

thinks that if you continue to keep the other person's love at that time, you can keep each other forever, but "unchanged" is not always good.

Is love eternal?

Sometimes the problem is not that the lover has abandoned him, or that he has abandoned the lover, but that time has left us and change has left us.

I still believe that love can be eternal.