I don t want to lose her, what should I do? How can I not lose her

Updated on psychology 2024-03-29
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Try to do everything you can to get her back, (but not violently) and if not, let her go and wish her happiness, so that she may be grateful to you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you. There is no reason to like someone, and it is worth it to pay without regrets, as long as you can be with the person you love. In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you.

    I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you. If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back. If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life.

    A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Then speak out.

    Say to her! You're going to keep her.

    If it's too late, she might fall in love with someone else.

    Take your time! Communicate.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    She doesn't want to admit that your relationship is because she doesn't love you very much, she wants to meet someone better, so he compares with you before choosing. It is better to advise you to give up early.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    After college, can you guarantee that you will still be together? If it is also a long-distance relationship, it will end sooner or later.

    She keeps hovering between the two of you, which means that she doesn't love either. Give it up.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    1. Don't have too much hope and expectation for this relationship, because the greater the expectation of another person, the greater the disappointment. And I don't have to express my feelings to her with particularly warm and energetic feelings, because it may also be a kind of pressure for the other party.

    2, keep your distance, don't know anything after being together, Weibo let others know, and Q doesn't need to be associated. Because sometimes there are some unnecessary suspicions and suspicions. And once this happens, it's hard to dissipate.

    3. Don't focus on falling in love, there are more important things to do in college. A girl won't change her heart because of how much you love her. She needs to see that you have advantages that others don't have, which can be appearance, experience, and grades.

    4. Don't have too many lies, paper can't contain fire. Lies can silence the other person again and again, but this is only a stopgap measure after all. The most important thing for couples to get along with each other is trust, so you don't want to consume this trust again and again.

    5. Love is unfair, the more you give, the less you may gain, the less you will be valued, and the less you will be cherished. What you can't get is always in turmoil, but what is favored has no fear. Personal experience, when you fall in love in college, don't devote yourself to it, but also allocate a considerable part of your energy and time to study, otherwise you may lose your wife and lose your soldiers in the end.

    6. Don't share all the stories as soon as you come up. During a relationship, the most important thing is the common language, which is the so-called topic. If you finish all the words in your heart at the beginning because you are too excited and excited, you will definitely have nothing to say in the end.

    And once there is no common topic between the two, they can only stare at each other with wide eyes, and they are not far from breaking up.

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