Tell us about how you got through the hardest days of your lives.

In the most difficult of days, our economy is very difficult. In the most difficult days, we may be penniless, or even have no rice to cook in the rice bowl. When we walk through the bustling streets, looking at our lonely figures, sometimes, we even burst into tears.

In order to live, sometimes, we will even look for the help of acquaintances in a low voice, and then we will be rejected in a strange gaze. Even if someone will lend a helping hand, however, such help can often only be done once or twice. Therefore, in the remaining days, we can only force our faces to laugh, we can only grit our teeth and hold on, when we stand up, in the days to come, we will cherish it more and keep the ordinary happiness more. ‍‍

Almost everyone goes through tough days. Some people, after going through difficult days, seem to have changed as a person, they will become extremely depressed, extremely lost, and even become complaining, as if the world owes them one. In fact, when a person is in a difficult situation, we should understand one truth the most:

When a person is difficult, only he can help. So, in the hardest days, I learned to endure it alone; In the toughest days, I also learned to force a smile. ‍‍

When there is nothing to do, go out for a walk, see the outside world, and comprehend the wonderfulness of life, which not only broadens your horizons, adds life experience, but also passes the time so as not to sink yourself. ‍‍

If you think about it for yourself, the process will seem longer and more difficult. The key is to find a way to calm yourself down, there are many ways, listen to **, go to the movies alone, travel, or more extremely, you can also go to Bundi. Time is always the best medicine to heal all kinds of pain, but the long and difficult process is also unbearable for many people

The world is too verbose, there is no distinction between right and wrong, people like us, always have to encounter some unsatisfactory, when we encounter unsatisfactory, unless we have no choice, we can bear it ourselves, we must learn to bear it alone. Because, in your most difficult time, very few people will take the initiative to stand up and help you, and everyone will avoid you for fear of it, how can they take the initiative to help you? Therefore, learning to bear a person, learning to stand up to the wind is the key to facing setbacks, overcoming difficulties, and tempering one's strong psychological quality.

When we grit our teeth and walk through the wind and rain of life, what greets us will be a beautiful scene of withered branches sprouting new sprouts. ‍‍

In my memory, the most difficult and painful days of my life should be the junior year of high school. Because I don't know much about talking, I don't know my classmates very well. They seemed to love each other, but I felt excluded.

In addition, I may be better at studying, because I have always had good grades, so I will be a little jealous of others who suddenly have a lot better grades, and I am very sad about this level in my heart. So every night I washed my face with tears, pretended not to know everyone very well in the dormitory, and went alone. I didn't go back to the dormitory at noon every day to study at school.

But the problems in my heart will affect my academic performance, and when you feel stressed, I run to the teacher's office with a ball of tissues and cry, thanking the teacher for understanding me very much. The referee was too stressed, and I also gave me some letters from senior sisters, and with the help of the teacher, I successfully passed the college entrance examination, although the test was not very good, but it was also a good result for myself. ‍‍

The difficult time will not be too long, read more books in the precipitation of your own time, enrich your cultural heritage, increase your theoretical knowledge, and lay a good foundation for your future self. ‍‍

In the most difficult days, there will be very few people around us. In the most difficult days, at this time, perhaps other than our parents, or our closest friends, will come to our side, comfort us, and help us. However, when we are alone, what we have to face is the hardships and hardships that belong to us, and a person must understand

If you can persevere on your own, you must not easily disturb others; If you can carry the mountain yourself, don't let others bear it for you. In the most difficult days, there will be very few people around us, and sometimes, even our own relatives will leave us. However, life has to go on, we have to continue to grit our teeth, and we can still force a smile in the face of our partner or children.

A person, if he can survive the desolation of no one to help him everywhere, will definitely usher in his own proud plum alone. ‍‍

No matter how painful it is, don't give up your right to engage with this society.

I will never forget the scene of my junior year of high school, the pain of knowing that I would not be able to pass the exam, the pain of that thought, the thought that I would never be able to escape from that small town. I smiled at my parents every day, I was afraid that they would worry, and at night I had insomnia all night, crying all night, and I couldn't see the light of my life at all. That summer vacation was a life in which I thought about suicide countless times and completely collapsed.

When I first entered the university, I was extremely inferior and dissatisfied, I was dissatisfied that I went to such a school, I was dissatisfied that I only had this kind of life, and I lived in my own world and couldn't extricate myself. I just started to decide to change my life in my sophomore year, and I thought it was already so bad anyway, could it be worse?

Sometimes we have to learn to zoom in a little bit, and we have to learn to zoom out a little bit. Isn't the state of mind a little bigger, and those sufferings, if you think about the vast universe and history, can't you look at it a little smaller? No matter how difficult the time, no matter how dark the time, it will always pass, and after the passage of time, the dilemma that I once thought was big enough to cover the sky is just a joke.

Regardless of the past, at least I'm glad I realized these problems, and I started to try to change, from arrogance to low self-esteem to regaining confidence, which was a long and painful process. In the future, I will go on a trip, go to the gym, go to the books, go to write, and make more good friends, and I firmly believe that my life will be better.

In the first year of our acquaintance, I had a car accident and my partner came to accompany me through this difficult time when he found out. After the car accident, I suffered a lot of physical setbacks, especially my bones were badly damaged and needed to recuperate for half a year. During that time, I faced a very huge challenge, I couldn't take care of myself, and I needed my partner to cook, bathe, and apply medicine to me every day, and she was by my side and took care of me without complaint.

She was always there for me during that unimaginable time, and I felt truly cared for and warmed. She not only took care of my life, but also injected me with drugs, massaged my muscles, and helped me do ** training, and when I was hit hard, she made me feel the value of life's great-grandchild model and heavy love. During that time, we became closer, the love between us grew stronger, and we felt the infinite preciousness of life and the importance of each other.

I am truly grateful for the warmth and love she brought to me, and she taught me how to be strong in difficult times and successfully get through these difficult days. Without a doubt, it was the most touching moment I have experienced with my partner, and our love was strengthened by it.

There will always be a little disappointment in life, as long as you face it bravely, it will pass. Maybe looking back, it's not a big deal.

The most difficult thing in life is to surpass oneself, and to surpass oneself that some mechanisms are brought about by the progress of life. Easy to understand is to be able to rationally choose the right way to deal with things when facing the pain caused by things (that is, to persevere, believing that you will succeed if you persist. ）。

Control your nervousness, excitement, and calm yourself in the face of special situations.

There must be a rainbow after the storm, and with perseverance, everything will become a thing of the past.

When you are happy, you have to understand that this happiness is not eternal.

When you suffer, you have to understand that this pain is not eternal.

Whether you like it or not, everything will pass.

There is no Amitabha Buddha in the south.

Only harder, not hardest. So there is no other way but to work harder and more attentively, step by step.

Ernest Hemingway said, "You will only find life rich and colorful after you have been through hell."

I think that experiencing humiliation and setbacks can exercise a person's will and ability, and it will become a lifelong treasure.

In everyone's life, there is the most difficult year, and it is this year that inspires your unprecedented courage and potential, and life has become beautiful and vast since then. This is the subject of the book "Island Bookstore". It is precisely because of this theme that "Island Bookstore" quickly sold in 25 countries within a year, deeply touching tens of millions of readers of different colors and languages.

Does fate exist, of course, and it can be changed through our efforts. "The Four Disciplines of Lifan", a kind of virtue and life, self-cultivation and governance books. The author is Yuan Lifan of the Ming Dynasty, written at the age of sixty-nine, and the author tells the process of changing his fate with his own personal experience.

Hit this without merit and longevity but get fame and longevity, hit without children, but get two sons, there are book movie versions and TV series versions, and they can be searched online, only good and evil can break through fate, good and evil when doing everything, good and evil increase, evil decreases, good even if it suffers temporarily, the blessing of the whole fate is increased, and it has increased a lot, and evil is just the opposite. If you can control everything and be good, you are not a mortal, you can cry ghosts and gods in the world, of course, this needs to be practiced slowly. The so-called cultivation of the mind and changing one's life is to cultivate this, the better the person's luck, and the fate of the extremely good person cannot be bound.

those days are the nadir of my life.

Nadir --- the most painful and difficult moments, the time.

First of all, when the career is difficult, we should not pay too much attention to other people's mouths. When a person comes out to start a business, or opens a store, or sets up a factory, or co-owns with others to start a company, the initial stage is naturally difficult. At this time, we must not listen to bias and believe partially, we must have our own mind and analytical ability, other people's words, we have to divide it into two, correct, you can refer to it, feel that it is wrong, just laugh it off.

Don't think this person is justified today and do it; Tomorrow, I feel that the person is talking about experience, and he has changed the direction of his work. As a result, we can only laugh at our generosity and end in failure. So, we need to understand:

It's easy to start a business, but it's hard to keep a business, find a right direction, study hard, keep exploring, analyze with your own brain, and don't care too much about the cynicism of others, so as to do your own things well.

Secondly, when life is difficult, we should not pay too much attention to other people's mouths. A person's life, "thirty years in Hedong and thirty years in Hexi", yesterday's scenery is infinite, perhaps, today has become a down-and-out loser. When you are down, when you fail, life will definitely encounter difficulties, and at this time, other people's gossip and cynicism may come one after another.

If we care too much about the attacks of other people's mouths, then we will live in fear all day long, in the eyes of others, in gray tones, such a life, there is no great value. On the contrary, if we have the courage to start from scratch, fall from the **, get up from the **, take the cold words of others, as an autumn rain on the road of life, don't care, just take care of ourselves and move forward, and strive to do a good job in the current thing, perhaps, after the autumn rain, the rainbow of your life will appear in the sky immediately.

Third, if love is unsatisfactory, we should not care too much about other people's mouths. The love between people is very delicate, and sometimes, a good relationship may be terminated because of some rumor or a made-up story. When two people are together, there is no room for a grain of sand.

Some people always like to add some kind of lace news; Others may use fuss tricks to find ways to separate the love between two lovers. Therefore, if two people decide to be together, they must understand and trust the people they love, on the contrary, don't care about those gossips that are intentional or unintentional, otherwise, the two people have a good relationship, and they may miss the fate and miss you because of other people's mouths, if so, you will regret it for a lifetime.

The years of life can be blink of an eye, what you deserve, you can't run, you don't deserve, you don't have to force it. In the same way, the years of life should be earned by yourself, so you should work hard and have it boldly, and don't care about other people's mouths; We shouldn't get it ourselves, we have to know how to stay away, and don't use our mouths to go to the mother-in-law to talk nonsense. Only in this way can we successfully overcome our own difficulties when our lives are difficult.