If your lover betrayed you, would you forgive him?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-17
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Betrayal will not forgive, feelings are pure, cannot tolerate being defiled, as long as he truly loves me, he will not betray me at all, and will not give himself a chance to betray. He betrayed this relationship, which means that his heart for me has changed, and he no longer loves me as truly and so much as he did at the beginning. What is there to forgive for a man who doesn't love himself.

    There is a saying that there are only zero and countless times for a man to betray, there will definitely be many times with the first time, in order to stop being hurt again, the best thing to do is to stop the loss in time and not give him the opportunity to hurt himself. Some injuries are enough once, and there can't be a second time, and this is also a matter of personal principle, it is the fault of the other party, why should I suffer the pain and suffering.

    Even if you forgive, there is a hurdle in your heart that you can't get over, many families are like this, when they are betrayed by one party, they choose to forgive each other for the sake of their children or for other reasons, and they say that they forgive, but how many of them really forgive in their hearts. This will become a thorn in the heart forever, and if you touch it, it will hurt for a long time. In the end, I really can't accept it, and in the end I will choose to separate.

    I will not forgive the person who betrayed me, if he is sorry for me, I have to make him pay the corresponding price, let him know how outrageous and hateful his own mistakes are.

    It takes a lot of courage to forgive a betrayed person, especially a person who betrays feelings, often needs a lot of courage to face it, and finally choose to forgive. People who can forgive are also very admirable. I don't know if others can do it, I can't do it, because I don't allow myself to live with a betrayed person all the time, and every time I think about it, I feel very disgusted.

    Since he has betrayed, let him bear the consequences. However, there are also some people who live happily after forgiveness, depending on what you think, some people can think about it, and some people can't.

    Feelings are not allowed to be betrayed, and I hope everyone can be consistent.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't choose to forgive, because I don't think it's sincere, and it only makes me feel very distant.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    1. I have always believed that if he betrays me, he must repay my betrayal with equal kindness.

    2, so I won't forgive him. Just because I don't forgive him doesn't mean I won't engage with him. It's just that the relationship is not so good, just strangers.

    3. If it is a lover's case, he will not forgive, and he will definitely not. If it were a loved one who raised me, I would choose to forgive.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Personally, I don't think I'll forgive the other person, because I feel that the moment he betrays you, he doesn't love you anymore, so I don't think it's worth forgiving.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Will you forgive someone you love for betraying you?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    For many people, love is one of the more important things in life. Many people regard love as very important. And in love, there is often no betrayal, because once there is betrayal, you will think about the future development of the relationship.

    So if you suffer a betrayal of love, can you still forgive the other person?

    In our love, we generally give our hearts. The efforts of two people must be equal, so that there will be a return, and the relationship will be stronger. And there are often a lot of problems in the relationship, and there will also be some small contradictions.

    These contradictions need two people to work together, and two people need to communicate and solve them, so that love can continue to develop. And good feelings are generally not allowed to be blasphemed, and they cannot have impurities. Because once there are impurities, such feelings are not pure and have no value.

    And it also feels a little utilitarian.

    Therefore, in our lives, feelings cannot be betrayed, and there is zero tolerance. Sincerity and single-mindedness are very good qualities in a relationship, so the betrayal of love cannot be tolerated. Because there are only zero and countless betrayals that occur in love, once it happens, you will have a grudge in your heart, and it will also affect the future development of your relationship.

    So I feel that betrayal in love is unforgivable and intolerable. If I have been emotionally betrayed, I will not choose to forgive the other person.

    So to sum up, if I suffer a betrayal of love, I will not forgive the other person. Because I don't think there's any need to even forgive the other person, and this relationship has no value for me anymore. And I have some emotional habits, if the other party betrays me, I will never be able to get over a hurdle in my heart, and I will always question his loyalty to me.

    So if you suffer a betrayal of love, can you still forgive the other person?

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It can't be forgiven, because I think betrayal in love is a very excessive thing, and even if I forgive, I will mind it very much.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Love should be single-minded, that is, it should end from one to the end, if someone betrays in love, it is unforgivable, and he can't do the most basic requirements, so he should not forgive love, and it should also be reflected in principle.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If I suffer the betrayal of love, I will not forgive the other person, because there is only one chance, and if you miss it, there will be no more.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think feelings actually have to be trusted and respected. If love is betrayed, it is also a kind of disrespect to the other party. Of course, you won't forgive the other party. But willing to bless him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you and I have suffered a betrayal of love, I will not forgive each other. Because once love loses trust, no amount of compensation can make up for it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello, I personally won't, because there is a betrayal in love, then there will be a rift, and there will be non-stop quarrels in the future. It's better to separate a little more freely.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If I suffer a betrayal of love, the fact that I can't forgive the other person is the truth. Of course, it is not excluded that some people may choose to forgive, after all, the prodigal son does not change his money.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I won't forgive, because I feel that such a thing can't be forgiven at all, and if I forgive, maybe there will be some estrangement in my heart.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I can't forgive it, because I hate it very much, and I can't accept that my other half betrays me.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    My love has a bottom line, and the feelings of two people who are loyal to each other are my bottom line. When I meet someone who betrays me, I cut off contact with him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I can't accept this kind of thing happening, because the most important thing in love is loyalty, and it is funny to talk about love when you are old.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If the person you love the most betrays herself, I will definitely not forgive, everyone will make mistakes, it depends on what the mistake is, some mistakes can be forgiven, some mistakes can never be forgiven, she can betray you once will have the next time, the person who loves you will not make this kind of mistake, betrayal means that you don't love, why forgive, do you wait to hurt the second time?

    If it is a lover's betrayal, I think it's acceptable, because the lover is not yours in the law itself, so there is no betrayal, she can be your lover, and at the same time it may be someone else's lover.

    As for the betrayal between lovers, love itself is two people trying to be together, understanding each other, running in with each other, that is, trying to get married, if it is suitable, it will be married, and if it is not suitable, it will be broken up, but sometimes one party is deeply trapped and cannot extricate himself, and the other party may have been newly married.

    No matter which of the above reasons for betrayal, the most difficult thing to come out of is the betrayal when you are in love, because you have not experienced too many setbacks in life when you are young, and your ability to resist blows is poor, so it is often not easy to get out of injury, but this is also a lesson that life teaches you, strong people often come out of pain and failure.

    The betrayal of a lover often destroys a family, the most hurt is the child, adults don't care, since the betrayal shows that the relationship is no longer there, couples without feelings often expect such a day, but they did not expect to end the marriage in this way.

    There is no betrayal between lovers to be precise, and you leave because you can't satisfy her desires materially or spiritually, that's all.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Undoubtedly, then I will never forgive a person who betrays me, because if he does this kind of thing, then it is unforgivable, even if he has a last resort, then I understand the other party, but it is absolutely impossible to forgive, just like the mirror is broken, then there is still a crack where there is a crack, then there must be a gap in the heart, forgiveness is basically impossible to forgive, if you understand, then it is possible to understand, but forgiveness is impossible.

    Unforgivable. If you do this kind of thing, then it is basically a thing that cannot be forgiven, because many times although we will encounter some forced things, but this does not mean that we can forgive the other party, because we have done this kind of thing, then we have done this kind of thing, then it cannot be forgiven for any reason, after all, what we do is to do something, and things have happened, then it is basically unforgivable, because betrayal is the most hateful thing.

    Understandable. Of course, there are many times when betrayal is due to some unavoidable reasons, then I can understand the other party, but basically I can't forgive the other party, I believe that anyone who is in some unavoidable reasons, then will do this kind of thing to betray things, but it can't be forgiven, because some things can be forgiven, but betrayal is a thing that can never be forgiven.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If there is still love, I will choose to forgive, since it has happened, you can forget him, although it may be said that there may be some shadows in your heart, but if you love enough, all this is not important True forgiveness, it is you who still have feelings for a person, and love, but he hurt you, failed you, he admitted his mistake, apologized, repented, at this time, you don't care, forgive the other party, this is forgiveness.

    People who truly understand the meaning of forgiveness and can truly complete forgiveness are always premised on the other party's attitude.

    In other words, if the other party does not have an attitude, you will not be able to forgive at all, and you don't need to forgive—why forgive, you can't find any reason to convince yourself to forgive the other person.

    However, even if the other party admits his mistake, repents, and sincerely apologizes, you may find that you just can't get over this knot, that is, you can't forgive the other party - it's not your fault, but the homework needs you to complete, you can't do it, and even your heart itself is resisting forgiveness, because all forgiveness comes from willingness.

    As the saying goes, "the deeper you love, the more you hurt, the deeper you hate", when a person breaks his heart to the core, then he will hate from love. Because the cracks in the relationship, as long as they appear, are basically difficult, or even unhealable, and every time I think about it, I will feel the pain of tearing my heart, if you want to go back to the past, it is really difficult, maybe it will never be possible, even if there is a change, the scar will remain in the bottom of the heart permanently. So, would you choose to forgive for emotional betrayal?

    Normally, very few people choose to forgive, unless they really haven't loved, because maybe if they do, it can mean indulgence, and the situation will be even worse. Of course, if it is the betrayal of the other party's feelings caused by their own reasons, and the other party does have the actual action of complete repentance, some people may choose to forgive. The main thing is to look at the action.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Undoubtedly, then I will never forgive a person who betrays me, because he has done such a thing, then it is unforgivable, even if he has a last resort, then I understand the other party, but it is absolutely impossible to forgive, just like the mirror is broken, then there is still a crack where there is a crack, then there must be a gap in the heart, forgiveness is basically impossible to forgive, if you understand, then it is possible to understand, but forgiveness is impossible.

    If you can't forgive if you do this kind of thing, then it's basically a thing that can't be forgiven, because many times although we will encounter some things that we can't forgive, but it doesn't mean that we can forgive the other party, because we have done this kind of thing, then we have done this kind of thing, then we can't be forgiven for any reason, after all, what we do is what we do, and things have happened, so it is basically unforgivable, because betrayal is the most hateful thing.

    It's understandable, of course, there are many times when betrayal is because of some unavoidable reasons, then I can understand the other party, but basically I can't forgive the other party, I believe that anyone who is in some unavoidable reasons, then will do this kind of thing to make a betrayal of the Liang Sui, but it can't be forgiven, because some things can be forgiven, but betrayal is a thing that can never be forgiven.

    From the point of view of a person who betrayed me, then his behavior has made me very cold, so let this kind of behavior appear is an act that can be understood, but can never be forgiven, betrayal can never be seen.

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