Why Cultivate Mature Values in Children?

1. Respect. This is the most important value we should teach our children.

2. Sincerity. No one wants to make friends with a hypocritical person, so it is easiest for a sincere person to win a true friendship.

and friends. 3. Responsibility. What is Liability? It is to have a beginning and an end, and complete what you should do.

4. Order. Everything proceeds in order, which is the law of nature and the law of society.

5. Impartiality. Fairness and justice, being such a person is respectable, and it is easy to get support and help.

6. Tolerance. The world is big, but it's small. Especially in the age of the Internet, the world is a family, and the earth is.

A village. 7. Friendship. Concern for others is a decisive value and an intrinsic expression of human compassion, not only for parents, teachers and classmates, but also for the disadvantaged, sick, poor, disabled, etc.

8. Cooperation. This is a society full of competition, and competition has become a kind of nowhere in all areas of daily life.

Collaboration is especially important.

To help children establish correct values, world view, and outlook on life, the most basic thing is to do:

1. Lead by example. Parents are the first enlightenment teachers of children, and their values, world view, and outlook on life directly affect the germination and formation of children's values, world view, and outlook on life. Therefore, parents should read more, communicate more, think more, and feel more, and pay special attention to absorbing nutrients from carrying forward the excellent traditional Chinese culture.

Parents' values, world view, and outlook on life have improved, and they can correct all kinds of questions raised by their children, and can transmit positive energy to their children through words and deeds to promote positive growth.

2. Teach students according to their aptitude. It can be said that today's children are very smart, and each one is a seedling of genius. "The predicate of destiny is sex, and the predicate of spontaneity is the way."

This is the most important educational concept in traditional Chinese culture. It is an unbreakable truth to discover a child's talent and nature, and let it be maximized and released. Parents and schools should be good at discovering geniuses, cultivating geniuses, achieving geniuses, and caring for geniuses.

But in the process of raising children, many violate this truth. According to his own utilitarian ideas, he made up geniuses and designed geniuses, but the result backfired and stifled geniuses. This must be prevented and corrected.

3. Be kind and incentive. Correct values, world outlook, and outlook on life are established by accumulation bit by bit, and they are by no means achieved overnight or ascend to the sky in one step. This accumulation is mainly the accumulation of knowledge.

We should start with interest to guide children to increase their knowledge and broaden their horizons. The accumulation of knowledge and the systematization of knowledge are the cornerstones for children to establish correct values, world view, and outlook on life.

4. Read books and enlighten the Tao. With the growth of age and knowledge, it is appropriate for children to read classics such as the Tao Te Ching, the Four Books and the Five Classics, and to read biographies of celebrities and great people, so that they can have heuristic and democratic discussions and exchanges with children.

5. Develop good habits. Good habits are like a huge sum of money deposited in the bank, so that children can enjoy an inexhaustible and generous interest for life. Correct values, world outlook, and outlook on life are embodied, tested, and superimposed from the habits of every day, every word and deed, and every thing.

6. Fault tolerance and error correction. Who is not a saint or a sage, let alone a child? We should always inspire children to use their brains and think about problems, what is wrong?

Why is it wrong? How to do it right? Now what?

Knowing that mistakes can be corrected, good is great! Knowing mistakes will change, wisdom will increase!

Social existence determines social consciousness. In the process of guiding children to establish correct values, world view, and outlook on life, we must be good at seeing the essence through phenomena, and understand the laws, follow the laws, and apply the laws with our children, and not be confused, misled, and troubled by social chaos!

Most of these children were also brought up by our parents. Nowadays, many parents always criticize China's education, blindly admiring foreign education, and thinking that foreign education is the most humanized education that is open and takes children's interests first. As a result, more parents are going with the flow and letting their children do as they please.

It doesn't matter if the child learns or not, anyway: don't put pressure on the child, don't be tired of the child.

Parents, I would like to advise you not to mislead your child with your wrong views. Whether it is abroad or at home, what kind of education is there and which person can reap the rewards and succeed without hard work? As the saying goes, no pain, no gain!

When a child is young, he must have big goals: What will I do when I grow up? If not, at least have a short-term goal:

I have to get into a good high school or a good university. If there is no goal, the child's mind will be dark and dazed, just like a person walking without light and direction, what a terrible thing it would be.

This important task should be done by our parents. Because parents are the first teachers of their children, parents are the life mentors of their children, and parents are the shapers of their children's hearts.

If the child did not cultivate the spirit of hardship and hard work when he was a child, did not cultivate the perseverance of willpower, did not cultivate the good quality of strict self-discipline, only knew how to eat and be lazy all day long, greedy for enjoyment, and retreated as long as he encountered difficulties in study and life, and did not have the spirit of perseverance and hard work at all, then I assert that it is difficult for children to learn things, and it is difficult for them to become talents when they grow up. Even if you become a talent, it's an accident.

As parents, if we want our children to establish the right values, we must do the following:

1. Teach by example. As the first teacher of the child, every word and deed in daily life is crucial. The first action that a child learns from cognitive society is imitation, and he will see adults as objects of imitation.

If the words and deeds of adults are inconsistent, it will directly affect and mislead children. Therefore, parents should read more, think more, communicate more, especially when teaching their children values, they can transmit positive energy to their children through their own words and deeds.

2. Cultivate a sense of responsibility. As the law of West Point says, "Never shirk responsibility, dedication is the soul, start from small things, and details determine success or failure." From an early age, parents should teach their children that everyone has responsibilities to bear.

For example, students' current responsibility is to learn cultural knowledge; The responsibility of people in the workplace is to work hard; Soldiers, the responsibility is to protect the family and defend the country; Doctors, the responsibility is to save lives and help the wounded ......Everyone must have a sense of responsibility when dealing with responsibility. I don't want to take any responsibility, I just want to sit back and enjoy it, that's impossible. Because a responsible and responsible-minded person, then his life path will be wonderful.

3. Cultivate values and beliefs. When cultivating children's values, they can be guided by stories, live teaching, etc. For example, try to choose books that convey correct values to teach children about the formation of values and understand the importance of values, or you can teach the historical origin of countries around the world to let children understand the importance of values.

It is also possible to use opposing values to help children learn to discern the meaning of correct values.

4. Cultivate love and help others. Volunteering is the best activity to nurture a child's love. Parents can take their children to participate in volunteer activities such as social services, such as helping the elderly clean up, helping neighbors mow lawns, or participating in community volunteer services, so that children can develop generosity, love, and compassion from an early age.

5. Cultivate a sense of integrity. The ancients said: "Sincerity is the foundation of the five constants, and the source of a hundred lines."

From this, it can be seen that integrity is the source of all kinds of behavior. From an early age, children should be cultivated with a sense of integrity, do not lie in front of children, do not promise easily, and teach children to do what they say. If the child lacks integrity, it is necessary to guide the child correctly, let the child know where the mistake is, correct the mistake, and guide the child to be an honest and trustworthy person.

6. Develop good habits. We often say that the formation of behavioral habits is an inexhaustible wealth for children to enjoy for life. The formation of good habits will continue throughout a child's life.

The formation of correct values is accumulated from every word and every line of habits, and it is the spiritual wealth of the pen. Let the child develop good habits from an early age and reserve spiritual food for his future life stage, so that the child can go further and more steadily.

Here are some ways to develop values in your child:

Lead by example: Parents should lead by example and set a good example so that their children are educated in the right behaviors and values from an early age.

Emphasize honesty and trustworthiness: Educate children to be honest and trustworthy, not to tell lies, not to deceive others, to be trustworthy, and to be a trustworthy person.

Guide children to deal with problems correctly: Guide children to deal with problems and conflicts correctly, and cultivate children's problem-solving skills and good interpersonal communication skills.

Develop a sense of responsibility: Encourage children to take responsibility for their actions, learn to take responsibility, and understand the impact of their actions on others and society.

Teach children to be grateful and reciprocate: Teach children to be grateful for the help and support of others, and take the initiative to give back to society and contribute to others and society.

Establish a correct worldview and values: Guide children to understand the correct worldview and values, such as respect for life, the pursuit of peace, freedom, equality, etc.

Through the above methods, parents can cultivate the correct values and morals of their children, so that they can learn how to become a virtuous, responsible, compassionate and caring person from an early age. When traveling, parents should pay attention to combining these values with their children's actual life, so that children can gradually understand the meaning and value in practice.

Hello! In home education, the most important thing is that parents teach their children values and moral codes.

These values and moral codes form the basis of a person's personality and behavior and are essential for a child's growth and future success.

First of all, parents should teach their children the right values. This includes respecting others, being honest and trustworthy, helping others, caring for others, and so on. By teaching by example, parents can be role models for their children to learn these values.

They can help children understand the importance of these values through interactions, discussions, and explanations with them, and guide them to apply them in their daily lives.

Second, parents should teach their children a clear moral code. This includes distinguishing between right and wrong, understanding responsibility, learning to be fair, and so on. Parents can tell their children about the difference between good behavior and bad behavior, and the consequences of each action.

They can help children clarify their responsibilities and develop the qualities to keep their promises and keep their promises. Parents can also encourage their children to respect the rights and interests of others and develop their sense of concern and participation in society.

Finally, parents should also teach their children good communication and problem-solving skills. This includes listening to and expressing one's own opinions, respecting the opinions of others, resolving conflicts effectively, and more. Parents can help their children learn to express their thoughts and feelings through dialogue and communication with them, while also teaching them how to listen to others and respect their opinions.

This kind of education can help children build good relationships, develop problem-solving skills, and lay a solid foundation for their professional and personal lives.

In short, in home education, parents teach their children the right values and moral principles, as well as good communication and problem-solving skills, which will have a profound impact on their growth and future.

For your reference, I hope it inspires you!