What are the learnings and exquisiteness of going to my girlfriend s house?

If you don't have knowledge, if your parents like you, they will tolerate everything for you. is too particular, but I feel a bit vulgar and uncomfortable.

In this era, when a man goes to his girlfriend's house for the first time, he will inevitably be a little nervous, afraid that the other party's parents will not like him, but this is also a normal thing, after all, seeing his parents is a checkpoint that everyone has to go through.

1. No matter how nervous you are at the dinner table, your father-in-law and mother-in-law will always ask you some questions, don't ask what to say because you are too nervous, you can go and talk about others, you can't look embarrassed after speaking, let alone bury your head in eating, as the saying goes, "food is not a word", our Chinese tradition is to talk and laugh when eating, so that it can also be well integrated, otherwise the atmosphere will be very embarrassing. Just like your father-in-law and mother-in-law will usually ask you if the food is appetizing, at this time, don't just say this: delicious, appetizing!

You still have to pay attention to certain skills when speaking! Maybe you haven't eaten much because you're nervous, but you also have to show that it's delicious, so to speak: Auntie, your craftsmanship is really good, it's exactly the same as what I make at home, it's delicious!

It's very much to my liking, I really want to be able to eat it every day, etc., don't be blunt, this dish is salty, that soup is hot, which will leave a bad impression on my father-in-law and mother-in-law. There is always something to drink at the dinner table, and we, as young people and juniors, should also pay attention to it when toasting, even if we don't drink, even if we drink drinks, we must have basic etiquette, maybe this will be very difficult, but this is about your life events, so the first glass of wine must be for you to toast them, don't wait for them to come to you so impolite, you must know how to respect.

2. Don't be too idle The current post-marriage routine is, "the male protagonist is outside the female protagonist", that is, the man works hard outside and is responsible for supporting the family, and the woman tidies up her daily life at home, so the woman generally undertakes most of the things at home, and the man can eat when he comes back from work, or lie directly on the sofa to rest, and is unwilling to deal with housework with the woman. But if the father-in-law and mother-in-law see that you are always sitting, then they may think that they are marrying their daughters after all, and they have not said it now, so how hard it will be for their "heart and liver baby" to marry in the past, and they will be very distressed, so the man must pay attention to this. As a man, be generous and take the initiative, for example, after eating, you can clean up the dishes and chopsticks next to you, although this is a small action, but it is of great significance, because it will give a good impression to the other party's parents, feel that you are a very sensible and polite child, and your daughter will be very relieved to marry in the past!