Why did he suddenly ignore me when he talked about this?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-11
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Chatting and chatting, he suddenly ignored you, maybe because he really had something to do, or maybe because he didn't know how to talk about the so-called love, that is, "one thing to one thing," the more humble you give, the other party will take it for granted, the more arrogant you are, the other party will be interested in you like this.

    Tsundere does not mean that there is no one in your eyes, or you ignore the efforts of others, but you can afford to let go in love, when you love him, you will not blindly fall into love, be a girl with a love brain, do not love, and will not fall into self-pity, but to gather and disperse, and maintain your due posture.

    In the end, you will find that it is really necessary to be a tsundere woman, it makes you understand that in the world of love, there must be a bottom line and principles, rather than blindly following each other, so it will be very tiring to get along.

    Don't think "what if I'm tsundere and make the other person think I'm a nice person to get along with"? If there is a person who thinks like this, it can only mean that he is not the right person for you, whether you are arrogant or humble, he will not like you, and when you meet such a person, don't waste your efforts.

    The easier it is to get something, the less it is cherished, the more arrogant it is, the more people think you are rare, and the more he knows how to cherish it.

    The common mistake that women make in love is that if they love him, they will give up themselves for him, and if they love him, they will become humble.

    Maybe this is also a kind of love, but in the end, you will find that you are no longer attractive when you lose yourself, and the other party no longer likes you as much as before, and there will even be all kinds of dislikes, thinking, "How did you become like this", "I still like the original you." ”

    This also reminds those girls in love that even if you love someone again, even if your relationship is good, you have to be yourself in love, a little "tsundere" and a little "personality", so that you will be more prominent and more likable.

    What you can't get will make people feel mysterious, make people want to cherish, be a tsundere girl, so that he will feel that he wants to conquer you, and after conquering, he will not dare to give up easily, for fear of losing you from now on.

    If you repeatedly give in and give up everything for him, he will only feel that this thing should be like this, and he will not feel moved, nor will he feel that there is anything to be grateful for.

    Only if you keep your own style and make him feel that even if you leave him, you will live well, so you will naturally make him unforgettable.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't think I can say anything about you, so there's no need to say any more.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When men and women are dating, if nothing else, the feelings between each other should be deeper and deeper, if a hot boy who is chatting with you suddenly ignores you, what is the reason for this?

    Of course, it is not excluded that there are other reasons, it may be that the other party has learned some of your past in other people's mouths, and these past are unacceptable to the other party, so they gradually treat you coldly. But in the final analysis, if a boy really likes you, no matter what kind of situation and difficulties he encounters, he should stick to it, and the real like should be a firm choice, rather than giving up his liking for you when he encounters a little difficulty and a little entanglement, it is not a pity to be given up by such a man, don't feel sorry for this, pack up your mood and wait for the person who really loves you to appear.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Some guys are chatting and suddenly ignoring you, it may be the following:

    1. I lost interest in you in the process of chatting, so I stopped paying attention to you.

    2. Something else diverts attention. When something that interests him more comes to him, her attention will be diverted, which will lead to a situation of ignoring you.

    3. I want you to take the initiative. Guys take the initiative all the time but you don't do it, and sometimes they want to get you to take the initiative through this retreat-to-advance approach.

    4. I heard something bad about you and believed it. This situation will cause him to have a bad impression of you and then ignore you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    1.This boy is relying on his high emotional intelligence to make you think that the two of you are chatting very well, in fact, it's not a good chat, it's just that he makes you feel good to chat, and now he feels annoyed, and he will naturally leave, a friend of mine once used his high emotional intelligence and appearance to chat with many young ladies at the same time, and the personality in front of each girl is different. . . Of course, he will screen them one by one, and the one that will be screened to the end is the one he thinks he will really like.

    So you might just happen to swim into his fish pond.

    2.This guy may have a lot of fun chatting with you, but he may feel like he's not as good as you in a few ways, and these may be the things he really cares about, and he's been trying to convince himself but ultimately fails, and he's probably going to say goodbye without even saying goodbye.

    3.Maybe really, this guy has a girlfriend, or maybe he wants to be seriously with his girlfriend.

    Ask your favorite person why he suddenly ignores him. The morning was fine. Going to school in the afternoon suddenly changed. He told me that he had just broken up and was tired. Let me not bother with him. He hadn't said that before.

    It's that your crush doesn't like you.

    Will persistence lead to results?

    After all, it's hard to go on without love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When men and women chat together, in fact, many times they talk and chat, and he may feel that you are not the most suitable person for him, or that he is chatting with you for a purpose, and he wants to pursue you.

    When he finds that your personality is not what he likes, or that there is no hope for pursuing you, he should be very hesitant to continue chatting with you, and then some men may just cut off contact with you and ignore you. This is a normal manifestation of men, and many men have this kind of thinking and don't want to waste time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Some boys talk to you and suddenly stop talking to you, this is because the boy was originally pursuing you, seeing that you didn't have the slightest intention of agreeing, so this boy stopped chatting with you and went to find someone else.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Some guys talk to you and suddenly ignore you, there are a lot of such things happen in life, some people just want to pursue you, so they desperately want to chat with you, but as time goes by, he gets to know you more and more, and he finds that you are not his dish, so he will take the initiative to give up attacking you.

    There are also some people who are chatting with you and chatting with others at the same time, and there is no progress with you, but there is great progress with others, then he will give up on you and pursue her with all his might, which is the consistent practice of many people.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because the guy wants you to take the initiative to find him once, to see if you like him and are interesting to him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Mainly because these guys may have a new goal, so they won't bother with you anymore.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Maybe there's something and then I just forgot about you, there's no big reason for that, I think.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First of all, at this time, it is necessary to understand what the other person is thinking or doing. There are generally three situations when you ignore you:

    The first is that the other party encounters something bad, is in a bad mood, and doesn't want to pay attention to you.

    Second, which of your sentences offended the other party, and the other party expressed anger with a cold attitude.

    The third is that I am simply busy and don't take care of you. Learn to judge the psychology of the other party in order to handle the relationship appropriately.

    If you chat normally throughout the whole time, and the other person doesn't show emotion, or is dissatisfied with what you say, then it's likely that something else has affected your mood.

    If you notice that the other person is impatient, you can tell the other person directly, see that you are not very happy, what is going on, tell me. If you don't want to say that I'll take you for a walk.

    If the other party still ignores you like this, then don't disturb the other party for the time being, and wait for them to deal with things or emotions before restarting the conversation.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The reason may be that they find out that the two people don't have anything in common in the process of talking to you. Since he talks to you, it means that he wants to pursue you, or it may be that he sees no hope. So after talking for a while, he will stop paying attention to you. This shows that he wants to give up.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Some guys talk to you and suddenly ignore you, just because they can't find a common topic, or you steal the topic.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Maybe he thinks that you are not in the same way, sometimes the two can have a common topic to talk about a few days, and if they can't talk, they will naturally stop talking.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It may be that you have a new goal, and you don't see any hope here. So the position was shifted.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Therefore, for girls, what is perceived as a test in some cases is actually a setback for boys' self-esteem. In the case of testing boys, we must pay attention to their changes in hearts at the same time, because girls want to test boys, it shows that they have a love for boys, if the boys let go in the end, it will make girls also have a deep sense of frustration, and they regret it, but it is useless to regret it when this state is accepted. Why did my boyfriend ignore me?

    The second is that many girls take boys' love for themselves for granted, in other words, they take it for granted that they accept all the boys' input into themselves without making other responses. There is no one in the world who should feel sorry for you, except for your parents, so the long request will make the boy feel sad and destitute, and he will lose you quietly.

    The most important source is that too many girls are too much, and many girls feel that their personal behavior is beyond the scope of doing. But there are some things in the process that you think about on the contrary, and you can see that this way is very meaningless. At that time, I was always very angry, and I sprinkled all my resentment on the boys.

    No one is your completely free gas bag, and after a long time, of course the boys will resist.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When boyfriends and girlfriends start to fall in love, they feel very happy, and they are very tired every day, but after getting along for a long time, they feel that they have less and less words to each other, and they feel that they are not in love with each other before.

    Say more warm words to each other, how did you love each other before, how much did you care about each other, and your heart is still the same as before, and you still greet each other for breakfast every day when you get up in the morning? Did you sleep well last night? Although these words are simple and not gorgeous, they can make each other's feelings deeper.

    Second, it is still the same mentality as when you were in love, this shoot picks up each other to and from work every day, goes out to play and dinner with the opposite party on time every day, and chats more about each other's lives and ideals, such topics will make each other have a vision for each other's future.

    3. Give each other the most special gifts on special days, you can give each other an unexpected surprise on their birthday, such as a candlelight dinner, and you can also send a bouquet of flowers, which will move the other party to tears and increase the relationship between two people.

    Fourth, do more intimate actions, such as when the other party is at work, you can give each other a hug or a kiss, when the other party is off work, you can open the door for the other party personally, and then gently throw a hug, physical friction can warm up the feelings between each other.

    Fifth, recall each other's good things in the past, and often recall them can make the love between each other stronger, as if they have revisited it again, so that the feelings between each other can be warmer.

    Sixth, accompany each other to go crazy together, do what she likes with each other, don't feel that what the other party does is a bit against common sense, cherish the time spent with each other, respect some of each other's ideas, and cherish the time together when you can be with each other.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Maybe you've only known each other for a short time, but you have a way, please ask the two of you to sympathize with each other, and they get along very happily at first sight. Yesterday I was very patient, forgetting all my worries and laughing the happiest, showing that he will not feel annoyed by this two for how long they will be together.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You've been chatting very well, and he suddenly ignores you, maybe something is busy, because you've been chatting, he also has his own things, and he has things at home, and he may suddenly have something to do and left, not chatting with you, everyone has their own things.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Maybe before you meet that person, you set a lot of rules and regulations in your heart for the future partner, but when that person appears, those so-called requirements.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    While chatting, he suddenly ignored you, maybe because he really had something to do, or maybe because he didn't know how to talk about the so-called love, that is, "one thing to one thing," the more humble you pay.

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