Honesty and White Lies Debate, Integrity and White Lies Debate

When the time is right, we're going to tell some white lies. Some white lies can make life better for us and those who love us and those we love.

Lies motivated by good intentions are the nourishment of life and the source of faith. It makes people ignite the flame of hope in their hearts, and they are convinced that there is love, trust, and emotion in the world, so that they can find more reasons to laugh at life. The white lie is the spirituality that endows human nature, embodies the delicacy of emotions and the maturity of thoughts, prompts people to be strong and persistent, involuntarily strive to strive for it, and finally overcome fragility and survive in a desperate situation.

In life, you can often encounter some white and beautiful lies, which constitute another landscape of life. It enriches people's lives, makes people's relationships more harmonious, and makes life more enjoyable and satisfying. Lies when disaster strikes suddenly, sometimes life-saving lies.

A transport plane encountered a sandstorm in the desert and made a forced landing, but the plane was so badly damaged that it could not resume take-off, its communications equipment was damaged, and communication with the outside world was cut off. Nine passengers and one driver were in despair. The instinct to survive has them fighting for their limited supply of dry food and water.

At the critical moment, a passenger who was on a temporary plane stood up and said, "Don't panic, everyone, I am an aircraft designer, as long as everyone works together and listens to my command, the plane can be repaired." "It's like a shot in the arm that stabilizes everyone's mood, and they consciously save water and dry food; Everything was in order, and everyone united to fight against the difficulties of the wind and sand.

More than ten days have passed, and the plane has not been repaired; But a caravan of merchants traveling to and from the desert passed by and rescued them. A few days later, it was discovered that the temporary passenger was not an aircraft designer at all, but an elementary school teacher who knew nothing about airplanes. After someone knew the truth, they scolded him for being a ** and angrily scolded him:

The story above tells us that a white lie is the hope of life, an oasis in the desert, and it sometimes really changes the trajectory of our lives.

White lies have the magical power to inspire you to make progress again and again, and never give up for the sake of your dreams. Because the road ahead is completely illuminated by joy, life becomes better because of it.

The famous American writer O? Henry's "The Last Leaf" tells the story of a white lie. When the sick old man looks at the withered and declining leaves and despairs, the loving painter decorates the dry tree of life with a carefully sketched green leaf, so as to maintain the light of life that is about to be extinguished.

Isn't this the ultimate lie? If being open and straightforward is a mistake, I choose to lie. If confession of truth is a disservice, I choose to lie. If it's for yourself or others to stop suffering or grief, what's the harm in lying more?

Even a lie deliberately by a good man is a lie. Therefore, we should be honest and treat people with sincerity. Once the white and honest lie is exposed, the other party will be hurt even more, and it will be more uncomfortable to pretend to be the first person in the heart.

Therefore, we should be honest, and it is best to avoid white lies in life, even if white lies are beautiful.

Integrity is very important, if there is no integrity, the world will not be harmonious

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Name: Integrity.

Hanyu Pinyin: cheng xin

Shape]: This product is colorful, sunny, and transparent.

Composition]: Dongpo language.

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Auxiliary ingredients: 1 gram each of warmth, friendliness, justice and sincerity.

pharmachologic action]:

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Dosage]:

Regardless of time, the usage is autonomous.

Notes]: Dongpo language.

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If you develop the habit of making promises, others will trust you more because of your maturity and trustworthiness, and your life will be more fulfilling and better!

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After all, there are two words for a good lie, so I don't agree with the other party's opinion!

Honesty has been advocated in ancient times. From Confucius's "Man cannot stand without faith." "To prepare for the Chi Mencius" is the way of heaven for the sincere, and the way for the sincere is also.

From Shang Ying's "City Gate Standing Tree" to the modern "Outline for the Implementation of Civic Morality", all of them embody integrity, that is: sincerity, truthfulness, and truth-seeking. I will address my views from the following perspectives:

A white lie is contrary to good faith.

First, to dissect the phenomenon and look at the essence, the dictionaries explain that lies are distorted facts, not true things. Things judge that beautiful appearances can always confuse some people's eyes.

The little teacher earnestly taught us not to lie, lying is not a good child, but when I put a good coat on a lie, it hit the weakness of human nature and made some people begin to accept white lies. But can the stripping of beggar's clothes and the cheongsam get rid of its essence that does not correspond to the facts? Therefore, a white lie is still a lie, contrary to seeking the truth, so I think:

A white lie is contrary to good faith. (You can use "The Emperor's New Clothes" to explain this argument succinctly).

Second: Ask the opponent to be more rational and less emotional. The other party insists that the white lie does not violate the integrity, is it too much emotional thought!

Adding the word good faith in front of a lie takes it for granted that it is no longer a lie, and that its motive is good faith, but it is an indisputable fact that there is a certain uncertainty in the good faith itself, so it has been repeatedly used by some "professional **". So please open your rational eyes and look at the reality of white lies! Don't "be ignorant of the true face of the lie, but only in good faith!"

Thirdly, what is the new connotation of integrity in the social context of contemporary China?

First of all, since the fundamental spirit of honesty is truthfulness and innocence, it requires people to respect objective laws and establish the spirit of seeking truth. In the face of the spiritual yardstick of integrity, all hypocrisy and deception and fraud will be ruthlessly exposed and criticized.

Second, as a value, integrity has the characteristics of impartiality. It requires social groups to establish a fair and reasonable system, and requires every member of society to establish a fair attitude and a sense of selflessness.

Third, the humanistic spirit embodied in honesty requires people to consciously abide by the law, be sincere and trustworthy, and establish values and morals that are suitable for the market economic system and the rule of law. Harmony is not something that can be established with white lies, harmony is the embodiment of sincerity between people!

Finally, I want to tell the other side that a wolf in sheep's clothing is still a wolf after all! Therefore, we always believe that a white lie is contrary to good faith.