Sincere Faith and Good Lies Debate

When the time is right, we're going to tell some white lies. Some white lies can make life better for us and those who love us and those we love.

Lies motivated by good intentions are the nourishment of life and the source of faith. It makes people ignite the flame of hope in their hearts, and they are convinced that there is love, trust, and emotion in the world, so that they can find more reasons to laugh at life. The white lie is the spirituality that endows human nature, embodies the delicacy of emotions and the maturity of thoughts, prompts people to be strong and persistent, involuntarily strive to strive for it, and finally overcome fragility and survive in a desperate situation.

In life, you can often encounter some white and beautiful lies, which constitute another landscape of life. It enriches people's lives, makes people's relationships more harmonious, and makes life more enjoyable and satisfying. Lies when disaster strikes suddenly, sometimes life-saving lies.

A transport plane encountered a sandstorm in the desert and made a forced landing, but the plane was so badly damaged that it could not resume take-off, its communications equipment was damaged, and communication with the outside world was cut off. Nine passengers and one driver were in despair. The instinct to survive has them fighting for their limited supply of dry food and water.

At the critical moment, a passenger who was on a temporary plane stood up and said, "Don't panic, everyone, I am an aircraft designer, as long as everyone works together and listens to my command, the plane can be repaired." "It's like a shot in the arm that stabilizes everyone's mood, and they consciously save water and dry food; Everything was in order, and everyone united to fight against the difficulties of the wind and sand.

More than ten days have passed, and the plane has not been repaired; But a caravan of merchants traveling to and from the desert passed by and rescued them. A few days later, it was discovered that the temporary passenger was not an aircraft designer at all, but an elementary school teacher who knew nothing about airplanes. After someone knew the truth, they scolded him for being a ** and angrily scolded him:

The story above tells us that a white lie is the hope of life, an oasis in the desert, and it sometimes really changes the trajectory of our lives.

White lies have the magical power to inspire you to make progress again and again, and never give up for the sake of your dreams. Because the road ahead is completely illuminated by joy, life becomes better because of it.

The famous American writer O? Henry's "The Last Leaf" tells the story of a white lie. When the sick old man looks at the withered and declining leaves and despairs, the loving painter decorates the dry tree of life with a carefully sketched green leaf, so as to maintain the light of life that is about to be extinguished.

Isn't this the ultimate lie? If being open and straightforward is a mistake, I choose to lie. If confession of truth is a disservice, I choose to lie. If it's for yourself or others to stop suffering or grief, what's the harm in lying more?

Deception is certainly a lie, and a lie is not necessarily deception.

There are two kinds of lies: malicious and benign. Lying is an instinct of human beings, and as for whether it is honest or not, the key lies in what kind of lie it is. Then a malicious lie can of course be said to be deception, and a malicious lie is an act of seeking benefits for the liar, taking others as targets with a strong desire for profit and weak rationality, and not hesitating to harm others, which is a kind of behavior that harms others and benefits.

No matter how disguised a person is, no matter how he uses his rhetoric, how he racks his brains to put a white hat on his malicious lies, the lies he tells are all malicious and purposeful. But this is not the case with white lies, which are motivated by good intentions and have the purpose and purpose of defending the interests of others. The nature of a white lie itself determines that it is not malicious, but is based on the sincerity and goodness of the heart, and the lie that the person who is kind in itself is "forced" to tell in a certain state is good, and this lie is a kind of friendliness and a kind of concern for the subject.

This kind of lie is also a way of dealing with the world, a manifestation of the quality of thinking for others, and it is obvious that a white lie does not hinder integrity. A world without lies, like an earth without dust, does not exist, and the key is how we use it. White lies do not hinder integrity.

When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by doctors, his parents, lovers, children, and all his relatives will not directly tell him: "Life cannot be saved", "At most, how long can I live in this world?" and so on. Although these are all truths, who would be so cruel as a judge to sentence a prisoner to death, and tell the truth to his relatives who are already sick.

At this time, everyone will form a united front, keep silent about the truth, and use white lies to make the patient full of hope for **, so that the patient can spend the rest of the years in a peaceful state. Is this an undermine to integrity?

When a child who does not rhyme with the world suddenly encounters misfortune and loses his relatives, how to explain to him that his relatives have gone. We think the best thing to do is not to tell him the real situation for the time being, just to say that he is far away for business, or studying and working abroad.

When the child is sensible and has a certain ability to bear, and then tell the truth, the child will also understand the behavior of his relatives and will not be angry because he did not know the truth earlier. Is it also an obstacle to integrity?

When the mother of a soldier who is on a mission in the field is terminally ill and breathes from the heat, how much he hopes to see his son for the last time, but the son can't come back, can't do a little filial piety for the old mother, take care of the mother who once broke her heart for her son, he is very sorry, and he is also very worried. And the old mother understood her son very well, and told her relatives around her that she should not tell her distant son after she left, and she could not distract him, but to say that his condition was stable, so that he could be loyal to the country with peace of mind. Is such a white lie an obstacle to integrity?

I'm square, because a white lie is a lie.

The counterparty ---a white lie cannot be said].

There can be no doubt that a white lie is a lie in itself. Lies, lies are deception, deception is immoral, immoral things are unpopular, these are all taught by the junior teachers. But we ask ourselves, who hasn't told a lie?

Whether it is to one's relatives, friends, or people we don't know, there are many kinds of purposes, but when we add a "good intention" to a lie, it seems that everyone may accept it, which is the concentrated expression of human weakness.

Mark Twain once said, "When you can't make up your mind, tell the truth." It will make your opponents feel embarrassed and your friends feel relieved.

Therefore, the opinion of psychology experts is: do not lie easily, even if it is a white lie. People must be honest and not lie.

Honesty is better than all resourcefulness, and it is the basic condition of resourcefulness.

An honest person must be trustworthy to himself, and his last support is sincerity.

Honest and ignorant, weak, useless; But having knowledge and not being honest is dangerous and terrible.

Honesty is a symbol of strength, which shows a person's high self-esteem and inner sense of security and dignity.

If one can abandon hypocrisy, one will attain great peace of mind.

But there is nothing more shocking in the world than to "tell the truth"; There is no more funny person than "telling the truth".

If you follow the path of an honest and honest life, you will have a clear conscience.

True charisma is a sincere self-expression, and when you show someone who is unique to you, charisma will follow.

The positive side ---white lies can be told].

A white lie is beautiful, and this lie is not deception or ill-intentioned. When we tell a small lie in moderation for the sake of the happiness and hope of others, the lie becomes understanding, respect, and tolerance, and it has the power of magic, without any impurity. A white lie is a lie with good intentions, a nourishment for life, and a source of faith.

It ignites the flame of hope in people's hearts, and also makes people believe that there is love, trust, and emotion in the world!! White lies can make people find more reasons to laugh at life. The white lie is to endow human beings with spirituality, embody the delicacy of emotions and the maturity of thoughts, and urge people to be strong and persistent, and involuntarily strive to strive for it, and finally overcome fragility and survive in a desperate situation.

A white lie can save a terminally ill patient and give a glimmer of hope to others.