Men s standards shouldn t have a lot of emotion

Since it is the ideal man.

1. Have great ambitions and do not succumb to fate.

2. Have a generous attitude and will not have chicken intestines and rat belly.

3. Graceful, handsome jade tree in the wind.

4. Have financial resources, and regard money as dung.

5. Have the ability to do things lightly.

6. Physique, healthy and optimistic.

7. If you have friends, you will respond to emergencies in the rivers and lakes.

I can't do it, and the men are in the row; The heart is stronger than the man.

A good man is a gentleman.

The appearance should be good, not give you the first feeling of being average or bad, but making people feel outstanding and tasteful.

Secondly, it is necessary to have an inner temperament, which requires family upbringing and one's own knowledge.

Third, you must have a good moral character, be kind-hearted, and be gentle.

Fourth, I think we should have the feeling of a Chinese man, bold, filial, and of course, diligent.

In fact, there is another key thing to have a brain.

No matter how hard you work with a low IQ, it's like that in this life.

People are always a little greedy, he found you, proving that in fact you must have met his standards, but living together, some of the previous mysteries have become straightforward, and the aura of Xi Shi in the eyes of the lover has also faded, and the freshness is gone, and you may naturally find some problems in your small details, which may be said.

In fact, everyone is not perfect, even if the star is perfect in front of people, there will be all kinds of shortcomings, the reason why people are human is because we are not perfect, perfect is not human, it is God.

Your husband must also have a lot of advantages, but there are also many shortcomings that you can't see in the past, but you find after living together, the question is how everyone tolerates and accommodates it, if it is not a big right or wrong, the shortcomings in character, you can pass it with a smile, and life for decades, it will slowly change.

After my wife got married, she often said that I lied to her, because when dating, I unconsciously showed some very moral performance (such as not littering the garbage, even putting it in my car, waiting for the garbage can to be thrown away, etc.), she thought I was perfect, but I didn't expect to find out after getting married, I was a very sloppy person at home, hehe, of course, now I have changed a lot, I don't like to do housework, and I also take the initiative to do a lot of housework, such as cleaning, cooking, etc.

So don't care too much about what he says, the key is that your husband may think that you have some shortcomings, he couldn't see it before, but now he sees it, as for whether he wants you to change, you can find a chance to talk about it, married life is actually full of compromise and tolerance, laugh, endure it, and everyone lives a better life.

Maybe the way you understand, there are some problems, first of all, the phrase that you love others may not mean that it is aimed at your life, nor does it necessarily have a clear motive, but it is just a feeling, when you are a little sensitive and processed, it may be understood as a completely different meaning. First of all, there is no problem with this sentence, every stage of life cannot be as imagined as expected, this is a fact, such as no love before, the yearning for feelings, no yearning for marriage before marriage, yearning can be very perfect, however, the actual life process will inevitably have some gaps, which is a normal life phenomenon. When your lover says these things to you, it's just a kind of sharing and chatting between husband and wife, not necessarily aimed at you.

You are uncomfortable, it may be because you are too sensitive, it is very easy to guess the motive and meaning of each sentence, or it may be a problem with your own understanding, if you understand the conversation of the couple in this way, you will inevitably have a lot of troubles, and it will inevitably cause unnecessary problems in your communication and understanding.

Happiness Bodhi Garden, the guide to happiness lost.

Thinking too much, men are rational a lot of the time. Especially married men. Sometimes it's just a sigh, feelings are the most taboo and suspicious, and patience is the most.

Every man lives in his heart with a perfect goddess with long hair fluttering, which one of the real people will be rewritten, and the unrealistic people still live to the longing and don't care. Just imagine, you are not up to the standard of a perfect goddess, just like he is not up to the standard of Prince Charming. You have to worry about every word, and you're farther away from the goddess, but in life, in addition to firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, you also need to tolerate each other, and there's really nothing to care about.

Don't worry, that's what men say.

Possibly! If it were, I would be uncomfortable too!

A man just asks for a lot, so does he achieve everything?

It is said that suffering is a blessing, and the same is true in love. We who have tasted the forbidden fruit of love for the first time always seem so naïve, and only after suffering losses can we understand the truth of growth. It's not just for women, it's the same for men.

The failure of marriage will hurt men, and will make men rethink their lives on the road of life in the future.

When a man suffers a loss, he will slowly become mature, in fact, it is difficult to interpret the mature man's concept of love, including their lifestyle and love standards that are recognized or not. For them,It has a lot of capital and strength.

But I have to say that the criteria for choosing a mate for mature men are very different from those before they never suffered losses. Their self-confidence lies in,I have enough conditions and economic strength to fall in loveGo and enjoy life. So they are no longer afraid that women will leave them, because there is no shortage of women around them now.

They were also so close to the edge of happiness, and once upon a time, they were also so innocent and beautiful. But hurting again and again gave them an epiphany. In the face of the pressure of life and the cruelty of reality, the girl in white clothes he once dreamed of had long since passed away with the wind.

And he has already become a mature man who has experienced vicissitudes and worldliness.

This is the growth of a man who originally had infinite longing for the future and feelings, maybe that's it, people can only find out that what they did before was wrong after suffering a loss. In the face of the mental journey that these mature men have walked, each of them still feels sour and astringent when they recall it.

I shouldn't love others anymore, just for the sake of biology or for the sake of marriage to go to the woman he thinks, men are good at disguising themselves!

Men who have suffered losses are more emotionally mature and rational, and it is easier to see who is suitable for life instead of blind love, and they are also very rational in the face of you girls.

Men who have suffered losses should be particularly cautious and cautious in love, and besides, men will not suffer when they are in love, and it is women who suffer losses

Men and women are the same, they have naturally become more mature and stable after suffering losses, they will be more cautious in dealing with people, make decisions carefully, and at the same time they will not easily believe in love, they look very strong and indifferent on the outside, but in fact they hide a broken heart.

Men who have suffered losses will be mature and steady in love, and will no longer make low-level mistakes.

It is difficult to meet people with the same personality, as long as you have a magnanimous heart to see if it is the same kind of love concept.

If you are a loser who loves to spend money, men generally won't be serious with you! Won't believe you! Look at the character to decide everything!

Fear of getting hurt, fear of repeating the mistakes of the past, not trusting women, and even hating women.

Don't be gullible about women's words.

Otherwise, you'll be empty.

A man who has suffered a loss will be more cautious about his feelings, will not devote himself to his body and mind, and may also have a cynical attitude, because the pain in his heart will resist the feelings, and may continue to have a good yearning for the feelings, but it will also be mixed with distrust, which is certain, no matter what you have experienced, it will have a very profound impact on yourself, and the final result will either be suspicious of the feelings, which is a negative impact, which is destined to affect the future life, or it is mature, They will begin to think rationally about their feelings, think about the meaning of life, and face their feelings and life more maturely.