How to be more careful about the details

Reflect on what you did throughout the day every night and fix your mistakes.

Advice is to shift your attention away from "abstract issues", such as the details of other people's speeches, details of their living environment, and other things that are not too important, to a "concrete problem", such as buying a house, going abroad, immigration, or a specific issue in your career or study career, which is really important. Expend your subconscious energy on solving these problems and use the power generated by that energy. Solving these problems will bring us a better psychological experience, and we will be rewarded through the benefits.

And then self-improvement itself will also give us more self-confidence, more inner belief that "I have ample control over the world and my life". The inner strong generally do not become perfectionists, and tend to be very open-minded, because they believe that they can "do what they want", so it is difficult for anxiety to motivate various behavioral habits.

1. Change your mindset. People who do not pay attention to details often do not treat other people and things who pay attention to details correctly in their daily work, for example, they will give careful people the title of "calculating, petty family", and they will add up evil words to the reminders of kindness, but often have a fluke mentality on issues related to their own life safety, which are all subjective behaviors that do not pay attention to details.

2. Start with little things. Details are present in every little thing around us. Strictly abide by working hours, don't be late for work, don't leave early when you get off work, don't affect your work due to personal matters, and a good working attitude is the details; Saving a drop of water, a piece of paper, a kilowatt-hour of electricity, and developing the habit of turning off lights, doors and windows are the details.

3. Be "harsh" on yourself. To develop any good habits, you must be strict with yourself. Make a work plan every day, prepare a memo, and complete everything one by one.

As it is said, it is more effective to accomplish a small thing than to plan for a big thing. For the work tasks assigned by the superiors, we must take the lead and strive to do everything in place, so that no hail can be perfunctory.

To do a simple thing well is not simple, to do every ordinary thing well is extraordinary, pay attention to details should do the following:

1. The eldest grandson is not annoying, if the appearance is not good, cultivate temperament: if you can't cultivate a good temperament for a while, then often smile;

2. Temperament is the key to people, if it is not fashionable, it is better to keep it simple;

3. When shaking hands with others, you can hold it a little longer, sincerity is a treasure;

4. Don't use "I" as the subject of everything, remember to start with "we" when speaking;

5. Insist on saying good things about others in the back, don't worry that these good words can't reach the ears of the parties;

6. When someone says other people's rights and wrongs in front of you, you just need to smile;

7. Self-criticism can always make people believe, but self-praise is different;

8. Don't take other people's gifts for granted, but be grateful.