How to euphemistically say that a person has a two sided personality

One"Love"with"Strict"Be in moderation.

Most of today's rural children are only children, and their parents work outside the home all year round, so they don't have much time to educate their children. It was all handed over to the grandparents, and the old man regarded his grandchildren as pearls of applause. Because of this, there are two extremes in family education, on the one hand, the excessive arrogance, excessive care and unprincipled accommodation of grandparents.

Not long ago, Liu Xin's children in my class came to school and asked their grandmother to buy delicious snacks, but their parents said that if they didn't buy them, they wouldn't go to school; Another time she had to ask her grandmother to carry her to school ......And these unreasonable demands were agreed by the parents to comply. On the other hand, parents are excessively strict, and many parents who work outside the home educate their children by beating them, which has high requirements for children and many restrictions, resulting in distorted and deformed children's personality development. The family is the first school for young children, and the education and influence of the family on young children has a great relationship with the formation of children's character.

As a parent, the love for the child should have priority and principle, and cannot be connived at or accommodating, and the unreasonable requirements for the child should be insisted on rejecting him with the reason and principle of love.

Educating children is a long and complicated process that cannot be achieved overnight, and parents cannot place too high hopes on their children, let alone pursue them"Filial piety comes out from under the stick"、"If you don't fight, you can't scold"Parents blindly criticize, punish, and reprimand their children will only make them rebellious and irritable.

II"batch"with"protection"Be consistent.

It is common to see young parents who are rejecting their children's unreasonable requests, or when they criticize and educate them in a timely manner, there will be children's grandfathers, grandmothers or grandparents who protect their children to reprimand young parents: the tree is natural, the child will be sensible when he grows up, and he pulls the child away, and the young parents look at the old and the young, and can only reluctantly give up the education of their children, so that they will be protected by someone to do wrong things deep in the child's young heart, so as to be more arrogant and arrogant, without scruples. Invisibly, a concept of confusion and no right and wrong is planted in the psychology of young children.

Therefore, our parents must maintain the consistency of education, after the child makes a mistake, the parent should criticize the child consistently, reason, and must not appear that the parents criticize him, but the elders stand up to help the child.

III"Home"with"School"To communicate.

The family is the first school for young children, parents are the first teachers of young children, parents and children should sometimes communicate and talk as friends, and closely cooperate with the school for education, which is the key to forming a good character of young children. Children generally like to listen to their teachers, why? In fact, the reason is very simple, our teachers will praise the children in a timely manner as long as they shine, and they will also use a tactful way to persuade and educate the wrong places.

Therefore, parents should promptly report their children's bad habits at home to teachers, so that teachers can carry out targeted education, so as to change children's bad habits.

Please think carefully about what happened to you, and whether it will make others feel that your personality seems to be very different.

To express it tactfully, if I think you have a bad personality, then tell him that you had better change your personality. It's very straightforward, and it's also very tactful, so that he can understand what he means.

It's okay to joke, why can't you change your personality? Maybe it's more likable if you change your appearance, don't tell him directly that your personality is not good.

I think it's a tactful expression, I think you have a bad personality to say, I think your personality can be changed a little, I think it's better.

It's good to express it directly, because this is more conducive to making him clearly aware of himself, so if a person's personality is very bad, he should let him know clearly, or you can tell him that your temper is a little big!

I think you have a very bad personality, and if you say it so bluntly, you will not only offend others, but also affect yourself. Let's put it another way, I think your personality is very distinctive.

That everyone's personality is different, maybe you can't get used to other people's personality now, others may not be used to your character, if others don't affect you on the premise, try to express it tactfully, the character is not good, everyone doesn't need to feel your character.

To put it bluntly, you just want to break up with her but don't dare to mention it, for fear that the other party will be hurt, and you don't know what to say. This is a problem that many people face, two completely different individuals who never have any relationship and then become closely connected, there will definitely be a lot of problems of one kind or another, and it is normal to part ways in the end.

In fact, a relationship really can't be improvised or accommodated, because love is mutual understanding and mutual support.

In fact, it's not a way to endure it all the time, you can pick out his things clearly, take it out and say it, if he can improve then it's okay to say, but if he keeps going then you don't need to endure it anymore, after all, it's enduring now, what if you can't bear it one day, but before you make a decision, you must be clear, don't regret it, the road is your own choice, and the consequences will be borne by yourself, besides, others have not helped you choose everything?

The so-called different personalities and incompatible views are that there is a candle, she can think of cakes, but you think that there is still a leather whip.

Since it is not suitable, just tell people directly, don't delay others.

To put it bluntly, it's best not to like it. It's not true to say too much.

You just say that you have been under a lot of pressure lately and don't want to be in a relationship yet.

If you don't like it, it's better to just tell her.

In fact, because I am embarrassed and don't want to hurt the other party, I will hesitate, but since it is a breakup, if the other party likes you very much, it is already a kind of hurt, so it is better to say it very directly and talk about your feelings, after all, the improvisation is not love.

You should pay attention to the way you speak. It's a good habit to develop at home. Filter it through your brain before you speak.

You have to know how to say one thing tactfully. Otherwise, sometimes the words are too straightforward. will upset others.

Unknowingly, I offended people, and I didn't know it.

A person with a straight personality speaks straightly. You don't turn around the bush when you speak. In other words, the way of speaking is not tactful. If you want to change it, you have to think about it when you speak. Think about it and talk about it. Take your time to change.

If you want to change, first of all, you have to understand that your opinion is not necessarily right, and some things have nothing to do with you, you may not understand the feelings of the person, so you can't make a conclusion, you can think about it empathically, if you do something, others don't understand the situation to evaluate you, how will you feel.

As the saying goes, think twice before you speak, can you say this? After talking about the disadvantages and benefits, develop a good habit of using your brain before speaking, and basically you will not offend people.

You don't have to change it, you just do what you do, everyone is different

Slowly change the way you speak, be neutral in tone, smile a little, and the art of speaking is: say what others like to hear rather than what you want to say, if you want to say what others don't like to hear, the more you say, the worse it is.

Straightforward: Speak straight.

Euphemism: Speaking doesn't hurt.

Silent: Doesn't speak up even if someone has a problem.

This person is more shy, introverted and reserved.

When you see people talking, you should be steady and generous, don't be public, there is a shadow to say, there is no shadow to say. The so-called euphemism is to tell the truth, not bluff, solemn, and not verbal, so that the other party will love to listen and accept.