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will become more beautiful, no matter how tough the girl is, after falling in love, they will become gentle, so gentle that friends who know her will feel uncomfortable, after a woman has a boyfriend, in front of her boyfriend and other people, a total of two appearances, girls in love will show their most gentle side to the person they like, especially like a gentle lady, a little lady with good manners, but in front of friends, you will not be restrained, you will be more open.
When girls don't have boyfriends, they either go shopping with their girlfriends or watch movies with their friends。After falling in love, you can't go out because you have a boyfriend, because your boyfriend doesn't like to go out, so the girl stays with the boy, and after falling in love, the girl becomes very good at taking care of others, because she is single and only takes care of herself, and now they have a boyfriend, so there is one more person in this person's world, because they like, and the girl will start taking care of her boyfriend.
Therefore, psychological changes are also the most prevalent condition for many girls after dating。For example, a girl who usually calls for takeout, if she is in love, every time she sees a variety of food, her first thought is to be able to save money for her boyfriend, many girls' sense of accomplishment comes from the delicious dishes they make with their hearts and dedicate them to those who like them, after falling in love, the girls will take the initiative to learn some dishes after learning about the boy's eating habits and cook according to the goal.
After a girl is in love, her emotions are easily influenced by her boyfriend because the girl is very dependent on her boyfriend, She wants to get the attention and companionship of the boy, but for the boy, sometimes she ignores the thoughts and hints of the girlfriend, causing the girlfriend to be angry, when the girl does not have a boyfriend, they only miss their parents and friends, after having a boyfriend, her heart is full of boyfriends, because she is busy in love, and even forgets the fixed time of calling her parents ** every month, girls are easy to be embarrassed with boys on various secondary issues, but girls don't actually care about the right and wrong of the problem, she only hopes that her boyfriend can take the initiative to admit her mistakes, Boys are usually more rational and honest, so there are often couple disputes, this is because boys have to fight for right and wrong, while girls need the attitude of their boyfriends, which makes girls easy to get angry.
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Before falling in love, my girlfriend was very gentle and dependent on me for everything. After falling in love, his girlfriend became brutal and unreasonable, and he was careful about everything.
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The first point is that my girlfriend is very gentle before falling in love, cute and considerate, temperamental, charming, and looks very individual, and the second point is that after falling in love, she becomes like a shrew, which makes me feel difficult to figure out, and often plays a little temper, this is what has changed.
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The biggest change that happened before and after falling in love is that my personality has changed a lot compared to the original, and now I don't have any special impulsiveness to do things, I will consider the feelings of others, and then my personality and temper have become particularly cheerful, and I can talk more than before, and I am also willing to express my true thoughts in my heart.
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Before falling in love, my girlfriend was a good girl and didn't think about anything. After falling in love, she became surprising to me, it turned out that she was so charming.
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The girlfriend before falling in love was particularly gentle and virtuous, very cute, how to look at it, how pleasing to the eye, after falling in love, I found that my girlfriend had a lot of problems, such as being lazy and not liking to clean up the house.
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First of all, everyone has their own emotional experience and past, whether it is good or bad, it is an indispensable experience on the road to Xiangqing's growth. If you mind your girlfriend's emotional history, then it is recommended that you start by thinking about the reasons for this thought from your own perspective.
Secondly, you can try to communicate with your girlfriend in moderation about her past, understand her situation and thoughts, and don't make comments or criticisms easily. If you can truly respect the other person's choices and decisions, as well as cherish the current relationship, then any past flaws should not be a problem. At the same time, you should also be careful not to interfere too much in the other party's private affairs, such as investigating her past, forcing her to do certain things before Jinyuan, etc., which are inappropriate or even invade the other party's privacy.
Finally, if you still can't come to terms with your girlfriend's past, you may need to re-examine whether you really want to continue with her. If you're looking for a perfect relationship without the past, you're likely to have more negative effects on yourself and others. After all, to love someone is to accept them wholeheartedly, including their past.
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Regardless of the past.
Some men, when they first fall in love with a woman, will wonder how many times their girlfriends have been in love and how many men they have experienced. As a matter of fact, living in 2023 today, which is already a modern society, it is very undesirable to continue to look at this issue with old concepts and old eyes. No woman is 100% sure that the man she fell in love with will be her life partner for decades to come.
Therefore, some men are confused by how many times their girlfriends have talked about love, and they have to find an opportunity to ask for a clear question, which is very immature.
You must know that a woman is more sensitive, and perhaps she was hurt in the previous relationship and is reluctant to mention it, and it is very easy for the man to ask about the details, or even to get to the bottom of it, which can easily arouse resentment from the other party. How do you think she can answer this question? Because you care so much, if she tells you the truth, it will only increase your annoyance.
So a wise woman will tell you: I have been in love once before you, but I am in love with you for the last.
Only by ignoring the past and looking at the future can we deepen this feeling.
Be honest with each other.
Therefore, at the beginning of a relationship, both men and women should be honest and sincere, and should not avoid their own shortcomings, so that it is easier for them to understand each other and to run in before marriage.
Don't have skin-to-skin kisses too soon.
When the love is strong, the flowers bloom spontaneously. Men and women have reached a certain stage of love and are eager to have more. However, it is not necessarily a good thing for this to happen too soon.
Sometimes men are strange animals that have brain circuits that are so strange that they wonder if the other party is too casual and behaves when they get it.
Therefore, women themselves should have a good grip on their own so as not to suffer a big loss in the end.
Male friends should also remember that respecting each other is also the same as respecting oneself. A man who is restrained and patient is more likely to make a woman feel reliable and go with the flow, isn't it?
Maintain each other's good demeanor.
In love, there will inevitably be misunderstandings, quarrels, and awkwardness between lovers, and as a man, we should take the initiative and be generous, and coax and coax women to be happy. As a woman, you should also know how to take advantage of the steps to go downhill, and when the other party sincerely apologizes, you should accept it leniently, and do not hold the other party for too long, otherwise, you will really lose the other party.
The most taboo thing in love is to scold each other, tear their faces, and expose each other's scars and shortcomings when they quarrel. In the end, it will inevitably cast a shadow in the other party's heart, and it is very easy to break up and lose the other party.
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When you are in a relationship with someone, you need to have a comprehensive understanding of her personal situation to determine if you are a good fit for each other. However, caring about the other half's past, Xun Qing does not mean that she cares about her past experiences. ......The reason why I say this is because there are three reasons why both parties need to know each other, understand the past of the other half to determine whether they are suitable for each other, and the two parties in a relationship should give each other enough space.
1. Both parties in a relationship need to understand each other. This is the foundation of a romantic relationship.
Love is for the purpose of marriage, and two people are ultimately going to live together. ......Therefore, lovers need to understand each other in order to communicate and communicate better and be close together. This is a very critical premise and foundation for love.
A relationship that lacks mutual understanding cannot last long. If lovers don't understand each other, it's impossible to be together at all. ......Therefore, lovers need to have some understanding of the other half's past in Changzhong.
2. Only by understanding the past of the other half can we determine whether they are suitable for each other.
The key to whether lovers can be together is whether they understand each other. ......Only by understanding the past experience of the other half can you determine whether the other party is really suitable for you, and can you further clarify whether two people can fall in love and be together for a long time. ......From this point of view, lovers should have a fairly deep understanding of each other's past.
This is a key factor in the maintenance and deepening of the relationship between two people.
3. Lovers should leave enough personal space for each other.
Lovers need to get to know each other, but they should leave enough personal space for each other. ......Only in this way can the relationship between each other be more harmonious, so as not to affect the feelings between each other because of personal matters. ......This is crucial for lovers.
There are many lovers who break up because they don't deal with this aspect well. ......Therefore, lovers need to care about each other's past, but they must not mind, let alone be entangled. In that case, it will hurt each other's feelings, and the relationship will not be able to continue......As long as you pay attention to the above points, you can ensure that your love is happy, sweet, romantic and warm.
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<> "Let's see if you really love her, if you really love, then you have to learn to be patient, otherwise it's better to separate." Since you mind her past so much, then when you face her, you will also think of her past, and then come to torture yourself and torture her. Because of your mind, there will be a gap between you and you, and you can't be honest with each other as lovers should be.
You'll think for a split second that she might have done some intimate behavior with that guy, and then you'll be miserable. Since she now chooses to be wild and loves you, you should cherish her, holding on to that incident will only make your relationship fade, make you both tired and torture each other, do you hope that your life will always be in pain in the future? Or do you want to see her hold someone else's hand and live a sweet life in the future?
Since you can't let go, don't let go. Live your life with peace of mind and make your life happy. Don't let your future self regret the current hesitation, don't delay the precious time you spent with her like this, and let the past pass.
This mind is like a thorn in your heart, no matter how well two people get along, it will also make you feel a pain from time to time. When this pain is accumulated to the extreme, you will become unscrupulous and say some ugly things to hurt your girlfriend's heart. So since I mind it very much, I choose to break up, let myself go, and let go of the girls.
Wait for you to leave her for a while, and then look at your own heart. Is it that I love her more, or do I care more about her past? If you can't stand life without her, then congratulations, you are truly in love with your girlfriend.
Compared with the person you love, the past that bothered you will become insignificant, bravely go to her to get back together and ask for forgiveness. Of course, if you are in a relaxed and happy mood after separating from the girl, it proves that you really can't accept it, and breaking up is the right choice. In the end, I just want to say that if the relationship between the two is long, why bother holding on to each other's past.
Looking at the point, most people have been in love several times.
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Falling in love is a magical thing that can change not only one's behavior but also one's appearance. Women before and after love sometimes change so much that their boyfriends can't believe it.
Before Zhang Xi and his girlfriend officially fell in love, when they were still in the ambiguous stage, Zhang Xi waited for his girlfriend downstairs for about half an hour each time. Zhang Xi said that this is understandable, after all, girls have to dress up, and dressing up is a waste of time. After officially getting together, Zhang Xi gradually found that the speed at which his girlfriend went out became faster, from half an hour to ten minutes.
He found that his girlfriend casually slapped his face twice, then changed his clothes and could go out. Zhang Xi curiously asked his girlfriend why she was so fast, and her girlfriend smiled and bent over and said, "In the past, I dressed up carefully to see you, but now I am an old husband and wife, and I can go out by painting casually."
Zhang Xi laughed at himself and said, it turns out that your status has declined, so your speed has become faster.
Before Zhang Xi fell in love, every time he saw his girlfriend, his girlfriend was fragrant, even his hair was no exception, after falling in love, he found that although his girlfriend was still fragrant, she didn't wash her hair every time, and even sometimes just washed her bangs before going out. This made him very incomprehensible as a straight man, he didn't know that his hair could be washed in batches. Before falling in love, when the two didn't live together, Zhang Xi always felt that girls were the cleanest creatures in the world, and he felt that girls' houses must be clean and tidy.
He joked to his girlfriend that you are also a different person.
Before falling in love, my girlfriend went to dinner with me, and always ordered some good food, and avoided ribs and crayfish as much as they could, so as not to ruin my image; After formalizing the relationship, you find that she can still open her mouth to send food in even with lipstick applied, pick up ribs and nibble on them, and eat crayfish with her mouth full of red oil. However, although the girls who fall in love don't pay so much attention to the image, they are also more real, less "endsome", and more cute.
It's okay to be in love, as long as your girlfriend really loves you, if you have developed too much when you were in love before, it is natural to mind. If you become more and more mindful after getting along, then it is better to leave. If you can't get over yourself, you won't make your girlfriend happy.
Be kind to her and love her. That's it.
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