What does Chinese Style Divorce tell us?

After reading "Chinese-style Divorce", from the marriage between Song Jianping and Lin Xiaofeng, I seem to see many similarities in my own life, except that I have not achieved the same career achievements as Song Jianping.

Happy families are always similar, but unhappy families have their own misfortunes, and perhaps most unhappy Chinese families have a woman who suffers from gains and losses. When the husband's career is unsuccessful, or more accurately.

When he was not rich and rich, his wife always tried every means to count him down and hit him; And when her husband finally achieves something, she will worry about losing him all day long, so she will do everything to supervise him and manage him.

The final outcome is always expected. Because of this deliberate grasp of love, the wife loses herself, loses her principles, and loses the tolerance and understanding that should be maintained between husband and wife. For the husband, the marriage at this time is like a shackle around the neck, and the family is like a cold cold store, with nothing but cold.

Eventually, the husband lost patience and even lost his sense of responsibility, and the marriage came to an end.

Kindness, tolerance, and confusion are the summaries of Lin's mother's attitude towards family and emotional life. This great woman won her husband with her tolerance and won a happy and happy family, despite his husband.

When I was young, I made a mistake that many people would consider unforgivable.

From the short and failed marriage of Liu Dongbei and Juanzi, we see the essence --- responsibility of marriage. A marriage with love alone is not enough, it also needs responsibility, and responsibility is greater than love. In Liu Dongbei's eyes, marriage is the grave, love is the flower, and the flower must wait for the arrival of death when it enters the grave.

He is not willing to wait for death, so he is always after the love of flowers. As everyone knows, just as flowers cannot last, love is difficult to last, so his life is always a continuous new pursuit. A marriage with love will only be a short-term flower, and at this time, only responsibility can make the marriage enter a continuous flowering and falling, and the flowers and flowers bloom repeatedly, and only in this way can a real marriage be formed.

In the ending of the TV series "Chinese-style Divorce", the heroine Lin Xiaofeng and the actor Song Jianping finally divorced.

Chinese Divorce" is a drama about the classic Chinese marriage situation, the heroine in the play Lin Xiaofeng is the status quo of most married women in China, in the play Lin Xiaofeng's husband Song Jianping is a hepatobiliary surgeon, in order to support her husband's career and the family's daily life, Lin Xiaofeng quit her job as a primary school teacher and went home to teach her husband and children.

Introduction

In the eyes of his wife's primary school teacher Lin Xiaofeng (played by Jiang Wenli), her husband's hepatobiliary surgeon Song Jianping (played by Chen Daoming) is an ordinary good person. She and her son Dangdang (played by Shi Lei) can only live the life of ordinary people and are excluded from the life of a modern metropolis. Later, the ordinary Song Jianping finally decided to accept Lin Xiaofeng's persuasion and went to a foreign-funded hospital.

In the face of Song Jianping's decisiveness and actions, Lin Xiaofeng said that he would take care of all the housework and let him have no worries. The contrast between the two began to widen, Lin Xiaofeng began to be wary of Song Jianping, and took all kinds of extreme measures for supervision, and the relationship between the husband and wife deteriorated rapidly and the contradictions deepened.

"Chinese-Style Divorce" shows that the initiative of marriage is in the hands of women.

The drama "Chinese-Style Divorce" is very realistic, and it can be said that it truly reflects some of the conditions in the marriage of most ordinary people. It can be said that women have great power in marriage, and the other side of great power is great responsibility and pressure. In other words, if you want a long-lasting marriage, you often rely on forbearance, and if you want to make yourself happy, you can choose to leave.

The revelation of "Chinese-Style Divorce".

1. Misunderstanding each other is the norm in married life. A misunderstanding produces a bad result, and there must be a misunderstanding of the misunderstanding at the same time, and a correct understanding of the misunderstanding itself dissolves the misunderstanding. A real misunderstanding is a misunderstanding of a misunderstanding.

2. Song-style men are highly lethal to women. He used the elegance hidden in the repression and grievances and the unprincipled forbearance of his wife to "attract" the women around him, and the women always did not want to see the men they liked suffer, so they would rather give up their principles.

3. What marriage lacks is communication, not trust. In a marriage where there is a lack of communication, a lack of love, no sharing, and no empathy, there must always be someone to create an incident, forcing both parties to communicate, have to share, and of course share the pain. It's also better to share the pain than not to share it at all, or at least it looks like marriage.

4. It is a man's ploy to make his wife hysterical. In many cases, he refused to communicate with his wife, and even deliberately aroused her suspicion and sensitivity.

5. It is often men who lack marital trust. In marriage, when one partner becomes a shield, the other has to become a spear.

It shows that the reason for the high divorce rate in China is because of people's sloppiness and irresponsibility for marriage, as well as irresponsibility for children after divorce! I think the reason for the high divorce rate of Chinese is that people's attitude towards marriage and family is not serious enough and not cautious enough, which leads to the high divorce rate, and modern people are more open-minded and do not pay enough attention to the concept of marriage and family, so it has led to the continuous increase in the divorce rate. Chinese-style divorce shows that people nowadays do not attach importance to marriage and are irresponsible for marriage.

I think this is because the traditional concept of China is relatively strong, and the Chinese-style divorce also shows that people nowadays have a very sloppy attitude towards marriage, and they will not take it seriously.

Chinese Divorce Ending:In the ending of the TV series "Chinese-style Divorce", the heroine Lin Xiaofeng and the actor Song Jianping finally divorced.

In the play, Lin Xiaofeng was originally a primary school teacher, but he quit his job for the sake of his family, and his husband and children were single-mindedly at home, and her husband's career was booming, which caused the distance between Lin Xiaofeng and Song Jianping to become bigger and bigger, and finally chose to divorce.

Introduction

According to South Korea's "Asian Economy", the TV series "Chinese-Style Divorce" is loved by audiences in China and even throughout Asia, and has also attracted the attention of South Korean production companies.

Relevant people in the Korean film and television industry said on the 22nd that they would remake the Chinese TV series "Chinese-style Divorce".