Shouldn t we be more considerate of others?

You like Confucius's saying very much: Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you. You know what it means is not to impose on others what you don't like, but to put yourself in the shoes of others, that is, to think more about others.

You say this quote from Confucius that reminds you of the story of a blind old man who always carried a bright lantern in his hand when he walked at night. Others thought it was strange when they saw it.

But your heart is like a mirror: "As the old man said, 'I do not carry a lantern to show the way for myself, but to provide light for others.'"

Isn't helping others helping yourself? Thinking more about others, isn't it a good thing to sell Hu for the benefit of others? "You say.

You have a strong ability to comprehend, and you know so many truths, that even you are quite proud of yourself. However, when dealing with others, have you done "do unto others as you would have them do unto you?" ”

Last Sunday, you don't do your homework, you sit on the couch and watch TV. **Mom saw it and reminded you again and again to finish your homework first. You ignore it and leave her in the air.

Mom was very anxious and said a few words to you. At the time, how did you do it'？You turn your face on the spot and get into an argument with her......You talk back to her so hard, do you know how uncomfortable she is?

You know she's all for your good!

This week, as soon as you get home, you throw away your school bag, sit in front of the TV, eat snacks with relish, and eat bag after packet. Your dad reminds you that those snacks are high in calories and easy to get angry, so you should eat less. But you didn't listen to the advice, and said that you didn't need him to worry about ......That day, you had a sore throat and you couldn't do it.

Who took you to the doctor? Who is running to take care of you? You "don't listen to the old man", and sure enough, "suffer in front of you".

It was me, who gloated and said, "I deserve it, I can't live if I do it." "However, your father didn't scold you, you have a sore throat, but do you know how much your father's heart hurts?

For your body, for your rebellion day in and day out.

Yesterday, at the dinner table, my brother sandwiched your favorite sweet and sour pork ribs, and with a "snap" of the ball, you hit him on the back of his hand and warned him not to move. The younger brother wailed and cried. Your grandmother came and persuaded you to give your brother a piece to eat.

However, no matter what she said or persuaded her, you were unmoved, and let your brother cry hoarsely on the side. Later, your mother beat you, and you cried like a tearful person, and ran to your room and locked yourself in the "cell" like a "prisoner" for a long time. During this half day, grandma, mother, and even the little brother who was beaten by you came over, and they asked you to open the door and say comforting words.

But you hardened your heart and ignored your family. Do you know guilt, do you feel uneasy? Didn't you hear the helpless sigh of your old grandmother?

All of these things are still in front of you, and they remind you to think. In the morning, standing in front of the collapse of the dressing mirror, I looked at you and was delighted to find that you were finally determined to face it, you finally realized your own shortcomings, and decided to correct yourself and be a good boy and student who is consistent with your words and deeds, and thinks more about others in everything. I laughed, and so did you.

Can you treat other people's business as if it were your own? Can you be completely considerate of others when it comes to helping others? I think I still need to cultivate.

In the past few days, in order to help the old teachers in the office sort out the materials of senior titles, they often work overtime for a few hours after work, because they will not be able to operate a series of tasks such as electronic documents, scanning, and uploading, so almost from beginning to end, I and another teacher are helping them get it.

The process is very complicated, I didn't take this matter as my own business at the beginning, when they asked me to work overtime to help read and disturb the whole information, I was a little anxious, worried about Niuniu's homework, worried that Niuniu would find me, and anxious to go home, so I was a little absent-minded.

It wasn't until today that I encountered some problems with the uploading process, and seeing their helpless looks, I made up my mind to help them tidy up, and at the same time I was ashamed of my emotionality. I don't think about Niuniu anymore, and I am determined to treat other people's things like my own! Genuinely help others!

I didn't go home until ten o'clock today, and Niuniu had already fallen asleep with her grandmother. I don't blame myself for coming back so late, I can help others and make others happy because of my existence, which is also my happiness!

From today on, don't always think about others, don't care about other people's joys and sorrows, and don't be affected by other people's emotions, it's time to care about your own feelings and be the best version of yourself.

What I went through was what I chose. I always think about others, but I have wronged myself. "Do not turn to yourself", which is not to blame anyone, only myself.

I'm still young, it's time to learn from the lessons, and I just know that I don't want to live the same life again, and I don't want to be seen by others anymore"Good old guys"。I don't owe anything to anyone, and no one owes me anything. Slowly I have to learn to express myself in an appropriate way, and I don't want to keep all my words in my heart and let myself become more and more hideous......

Because you are older and more mature, many things are always considered for others, but others think that everything you do is indifferent, never think about others, and live your own life!

Don't always think about others, be happy with others, and wronged yourself. After a long time, those people will take your efforts for granted. When you're tired, no one will feel sorry for you.

Sometimes you need to be selfish, there is no need to think about others in everything, thankless, who is not a person for the first time, why should you wronged yourself.

I will always think a little more about others, but I will think more about myself in the future. No one can wronged themselves, right?

Live a selfish life, don't be so yourself, don't be aggrieved and lose yourself.

People say, can't you think about it for me?

Say to yourself, in fact, I put in a lot of effort, don't you see?

People say you're just selfish?

I said myself, obviously I just worked hard, but was it wrong?

People say, you can't think from my point of view?

Say to yourself, why do you have to get used to you?

As he spoke, his world was in chaos.

And someone else's world remains still.

The idea of taking care of others is important, but who will take care of our feelings.

We are also born and raised by our parents, and we also have our own little tempers.

We also want to have a good time, and we're not impregnable.

Actually, we are just ordinary and ordinary people.

We just want to be quiet.

We just want someone to understand us.

Being kind to people is a choice.

To be alone with yourself, Dan Yanxiang is also a choice.

This auspicious first choice is not easy to do.

It's just that we're too vulnerable to injury.

Only by thinking about yourself can you think about others. Simulation.

If you have heard too much from the other party's point of view, it must be too depressing.

Sometimes you need to free up a little bit of your nature and let yourself relax.

If we have lost even ourselves, then what can we do in exchange for the care of others?

Continue to practice and walk along the way.

I'm honored to be able to answer for you: If you want to be inconsiderate of others, you can try the following old methods:1

Focus on your own needs and desires without considering the feelings and needs of others. 2.Do not communicate or communicate with others, and avoid any association with others.

3.Do not participate in any social activities and avoid contact with others. 4.

Do not assume any responsibility or obligation and only focus on their own interests. However, these methods are not advisable as they can lead to alienation or breakdown of your relationship with others, and they can also cause you to lose the trust and respect of others. Instead, we should be as considerate of others as possible, respect their feelings and needs, and build good relationships.

I hope mine can help you and have a great day.