Met such a person? Shouldn t it be any longer?

Indeed, I agree that you should leave him, if he is a man of different minds, as you have said.

It's very nice, but it's another thing to do, I really care about you, and the way and practice of dealing with it won't be like this.

And you don't know him well, and he doesn't work very closely, and he can't even afford to feed his own three meals, how can he take care of you.

So if his attitude is like this economically, then you have to think about it carefully, or even give it up.

Because people are poor and ambitious, they can't be men's ambitions are gone.

It's okay to lose money in business, and it's not a problem to be in debt, the focus is on dealing with things"Attitude"

Attitude is very important, and you can see his style of behavior, so my personal advice is. Out!

Also, find a relationship to cherish.

Maybe he really has some difficulties, and it's better to be in another place, and watch after a while.

Actually, it's nothing, sometimes I use my girlfriend's money, but I can't use her anymore, she knows it, knows that I won't use her money casually, and she won't say anything when I use it, and she won't say anything when I use it, and she will take the initiative to give it to me. We both understand each other and know that it is not easy to make money. It's not easy for two people to walk together, so don't just look at your boyfriend for a little money, think about it.

Remember this saying: those who are willing to spend money on you do not necessarily love you, but those who are not willing to spend money on you certainly do not love you.

The problem can really be seen in the attitude of spending money!

Judging by your description, this man either has a problem with his character, or he doesn't see you as a serious object of development, or both.

I don't recommend that you continue.

Hey, I remember that this was what I did 8 years ago, I didn't have money at that time, I chatted with netizens on the Internet every day, and if I talked well, I went to play with her, and I became a girlfriend after playing twice, at that time I had a lot of girlfriends, and I also said that I was doing business, and I ran around in the same city for a month, a girlfriend here, a girl there, almost someone else raised myself, and no one knew what I was doing if I didn't have deep contact, so there was no danger of capsizing, I didn't want to talk to you too much, when you got to know him, you knew what was going on, If you follow him, go from you, and immediately go to another woman, he usually doesn't have much money, you see that he has a lot of money and a lot of money on the Internet. There is no money for the rest. I have done a lot of it myself, and I know it very well.

Soft persimmon psychology.

Frankly speaking, this kind of person is very calculating, they are well versed in the way of socializing, they are always able to exploit all kinds of loopholes, and they will use different methods to achieve their goals in the face of different people. Whenever I see those who have suffered losses but are silent, their psychology of pinching eggplants or burying soft persimmons immediately begins to move.

The reason why they have been able to succeed again and again is precisely because of their extremely low sense of social morality and rogue mentality. All kinds of struggle experiences have made them tried and tested repeatedly, so the soft persimmon psychology has become their logic and experience, and it has become a kind of communicative inertia.

In their consciousness, there are two common human natures: introspection and order. When there is a problem, they will take the lead and use the methods of questioning, doubting and scolding to deter the other party, find the problem from their own side, and let the other party fall into an illusion that they are wrong, and they will not find the reason from him, but feel sorry for him.

The reflex arc of people is relatively long, and by the time they react to what is going on, the matter is often over.

Mis-transfers and emotional garbage**.

Psychologists point out that self-blame and self-imposed pressure are more likely to damage a person's mood than anger. Those who are unreasonable take advantage of precisely this. For example, if something goes wrong, they will put the main blame on you, which is a classic mistransfer.

There is a special defense mechanism in their minds, so that they can't tolerate the feeling that the mistake is self-inflicted, so those who cooperate or collaborate with them become the object of their blame. At the end of the day, it's that they don't want to take responsibility alone, and they always want the people around them to bear the same bad experience as they do.

Of course, none of us are stupid, it's just that sometimes we choose to be silent. But how can we possibly remain calm after suffering a lot of dumb losses? At this time, it is inevitable to be angry, not only angry with those scumbags, but also angry with yourself, and even angry with the whole society.

We are angry, why would we cooperate with such a person? Why would such a scumbag let himself meet? Why are you so stupid, you have been tricked by this kind of person, and you still know it later.

In fact, we can't change the usual pattern of interaction between two people, just as we can't turn a Saturn conjunction into a Venusian one. The energetic connection reflected by the two people is fixed.

So how do we make the right choice?

This is the root of success, because we choose who we want to be with. We've been practicing this choice all our lives, and we're still practicing it. We don't always know exactly what we choose, but we do do it intentionally.

There is no such thing as a choice, which is completely good or bad. In fact, there is an extremely important reason behind every intimate relationship you have ever been in. People are picky, and two people don't come together unless there is an important reason to exist.

Through the interpretation of intimacy, you will be able to understand how the energies of both parties are working, and even if the relationship has passed, it will be easier for you to understand the reasons for leaving that relationship. Even if the relationship is very bad, there are some aspects that you will definitely benefit from. Many times, the most challenging intimate relationships give us an important understanding of ourselves that we can't get anywhere else.

In relationship interpretation, when some intimate relationships have a heavy Saturn or Martian influence, it is actually too simple and too tense for the partner, and both parties cannot get along easily.

Feel free to decipher and clarify the truth about intimacy that you want to know, and you have the right to choose a relaxed relationship over a stressful one

Here's an answer to that question for you. First of all, the right person really hasn't been encountered. As for what counts as the right person. Let's analyze it.

Those regrets in the past, when people reach middle age and everything gradually becomes clear, can finally be let go.

In the past, I just felt that there was nothing wrong with choosing him, he was the right person, but now I finally really see that he is the right person.

In the days of spring breeze, there are too many people to help you share joy and success, but in the days of your loneliness and sadness, it is more important than anything to have someone to rely on.

The right person is the one who can be relied upon even in the most difficult times. In fact, it is easy to forget the good times of life, and the deepest impression is the hardships that two people have shared together. Someone is willing to put the icing on the cake, such as the boyfriend in the opening story, who is willing to be nice to his girlfriend on a normal day because the process pleases him, and he also enjoys the feeling.

And his girlfriend's family is in trouble, and he needs to affect some of his living arrangements, give him part of his interests, and ask him to do things that help him, but he is unwilling.

The icing on the cake may be loved, but those who are willing to give charcoal in the snow are worth marrying.

In this world, there are too many people who are icing on the cake, and there are too few people who are willing to give charcoal in the snow, but I only hope that if life is destined to not take care of both, then I can fight for my scenery, and the people who love me are only responsible for holding me when it is cold and giving me warmth.

I hope I can help friends in need.