Let s talk about why everyone is not optimistic about long distance relationships, right?

Fall in love with your phone. As long as you don't show up, you will panic. If there is not enough trust, contradictions will arise.

I ran into another love to avoid the problem. In short, if you don't accept it, there will be a bunch of questions to stop you. If you love, you love, if you are together, you will be together, don't think too much.

In the end, happiness is good. ‍‍

There is no point in giving examples on this issue, and people vary greatly. And you don't know if you're facing the right person. I have only one sentence from my heart to send:

Don't give up when you can still persevere, and leave early when you can't persevere. There is nothing right or wrong in a long-distance relationship, how can you know the outcome if you don't talk about it?

I think that in a different place, two people need to be tolerant, and both people have to have confidence in each other. It is impossible not to have contradictions, but if you are unhappy, you must say it in time, otherwise the disappointment in your heart will be magnified little by little, and you will give up in the end. Then when communicating, you should let the other party feel your intentions, even if you are not together, the circle is different, there is no common topic, but a trace of liking that you inadvertently reveal can strengthen her feelings for you.

If you have the conditions, let's meet often, and if you don't have the conditions, create the conditions. I have to work hard to get rid of this situation as soon as possible, after all, a long-distance relationship is uncomfortable, and everything is to give her a future with you.

originally thought that a long-distance relationship was nothing more than a matter of distance, and in reality, it was not always necessary to stick together. However, now I feel that it is not easy for a long-distance relationship to last, and the two people must be extremely firm and strong in their hearts. Because of the distance, it's good that the two people don't quarrel, that is, they spend all the spring, summer, autumn and winter with their mobile phones.

Once there is a quarrel, a cold war, and not being in touch for a long time will make people think that the other party does not love them. and then doubts each other's love, and even constantly imagines the loss of each other. The feelings continue to wear out.

In fact, long-distance relationships lose not to distance, but to their respective assumptions. A long-distance relationship doesn't have to last long, but whether you can avoid a cold war, whether you can't have no news for a long time, whether you can show a little more of your inner emotions than usual, and whether you can...I still believe that long-distance relationships will also have lovers who will eventually become married.

Indeed, there will be some difficulties in long-distance relationships themselves, such as too far away, less togetherness and more separation, different environments, lack of supervision in the relationship, etc., if these factors cannot be overcome, it may lead to the breakup of the couple and the relationship is difficult to last. Personally, I think that the most difficult thing to overcome in a long-distance relationship is a lack of security. When one party feels a clear lack of security, there will be problems in the relationship.

To ensure and increase the sense of security of both parties and maintain a sensitive long-distance relationship, it is necessary for two people to adjust their mentality, pay attention to details, and take some positive measures, and the long-distance relationship will also have a high probability of success.

Appropriate material compensation for the partner. It's not about spending too much on couples, but about buying gifts for each other on occasions such as anniversaries, Valentine's Day, or meaningful moments. Don't think this is cheesy, what your partner wants is not something, what you may want is just a sense of ceremony, it depends on your attitude, and the money should be spent.

Reject ambiguity for your partner. If you really want to give the other person enough security, then cut off the flowers and plants behind you as soon as possible. If you have to go out alone with a friend of the opposite sex due to work or other circumstances, it is really necessary to report it to your partner.

Don't think it's nothing, if one day your partner finds out quietly, it will be even more troublesome to solve the misunderstanding.

Try not to go more than a day without contact. No matter how busy you are, it doesn't take long to send at least one message every morning and evening. When you have time, try to keep in touch and communicate more about your surroundings so that the other person can understand your life.

If you can, keep a certain amount of chat time every day, preferably to be able to **or** talk. Tell us more about interesting people and things around you, and occasionally talk about your troubles. Only when your partner understands your life will they feel more secure.

Don't speak harshly and fight a cold war. In any case, don't say harsh or over-the-top words. The Cold War did more damage than you might think, even more than a public quarrel.

Instead, love is said out loud. Don't be afraid to say love, you have the other person in your heart, you should say it decisively. If you really say something to you, no matter how calm the other party seems on the surface, you will definitely be happy and excited inside, and you will feel very secure.

It's raining in the city you live in and would love to ask if you have an umbrella with you. But I held back, because I was afraid that you wouldn't bring it, and I couldn't do anything about it, like I love you, but I can't give you the company you want. Probably that's why.

When everything you do is built on a glowing screen, then this relationship is unreliable, not to mention that the love is not deep or something, no matter how deep it is, it will fade for a long time.

It's probably a small farewell to a newlywed, and a long absence is like a widow. There is no way to be in a different place, try not to separate in a different place, after a long time, it is very lonely, especially after a quarrel. I have always believed that loyalty and trust are the most basic things in a relationship, and they are the "obligations" that both individuals need to fulfill in a relationship, and they should both remain loyal, trust each other and give each other trust.

But these two points are always challenged. It's amazing to be able to hold on and come together in different places. I've always longed for that kind of relationship that looks out for each other and strives for a common goal.

Because it's too fragile. The essence of love is a kind of interpersonal communication and communication, and the communication methods in this process are very diverse, the richer the way, the more comprehensive and objective the understanding of each other by both parties in love. And the problem with long-distance relationships is:

There is a lack of communication between lovers in two places. Epistle? Mail?

**？Sms? None of this is as reliable as a greeting between two people face to face.

Don't underestimate the power of time and space barriers, feelings can stand the test, but they can't stand the wear. Especially in the most intense stage of the relationship between two people, this kind of barrier is a big blow to both parties. The slightest misunderstanding of communication may cause irreparable pain.

My sister and my brother-in-law have been in love since junior high school, first in a long-distance relationship and then in a foreign relationship, and had a wedding last year, and then my sister went to Canada with her brother-in-law, and gave birth to a daughter in August today, and the family of three is very happy. I watched the two of them all the way, in the past, when I was in a different place, my brother-in-law would buy a plane ticket overnight because of my sister's sentence "I really want to eat rice balls", come back to buy a bowl of rice balls, and appear at the door of my sister's house early in the morning, and then watch my sister finish eating and accompany my sister to leave one night. My sister would be angry at my family because my brother-in-law was drunk by the adults in the family, and said, "I'll drink his wine."

Over the years, at least in my opinion, they are very loving and happy. I don't think long-distance relationships have ever been a problem, the question is, are you in love? Do you love each other enough?

I feel that one of the things in marriage is to trust each other and tolerate each other, rather than being one-sided all the time.

The biggest principle is mutual trust.

This kind of trust is not a lip service, trust is like your bank account, you have to deposit it often, in case you encounter problems before you can withdraw it.

If you are usually an unreliable person, don't accuse the other party of not trusting you if you really encounter a misunderstanding. A long-distance relationship is so fragile that an ambiguous text message, a **, can overdraw all the trust accumulated before. We don't hide anything from each other, someone chases them, someone plays ambiguous and reports it immediately, the other party will feel uncomfortable for a while, but after that, we are very relieved of each other.

If you never plan to replace your boyfriend and girlfriend, just get rid of those rotten peach blossoms and quickly cut through the mess, don't be afraid of hurting the person chasing you, dragging him will hurt him even more, and it will also hurt the person you love the most and your most precious trust.

Let's talk about girls can't die.

Girls are prone to insecurity in long-distance relationships, and they don't feel taken care of and considerate by the other party, and the first feeling is that they are particularly annoying if they are appointed in advance, although their boyfriend does not agree to break up, but his subconscious is slowly ready to break up. Later, in the three chapters of the law, it is not allowed to turn over old accounts, it is not allowed to take office in advance, and it is not allowed to mention the word breakup.

Boys can't be distracted.

My boyfriend walks to the ** and hangs me on his lips, and when he mentions me, it's beautiful. The lab thinks he loves his girlfriend very much, so the junior sisters don't think much of him. There was a girl who was very tired of him and always looked for opportunities to get close to him.

He told me when he noticed it, and then he hid from the guy and went around promoting how good his girlfriend was. I usually don't joke with female classmates about gags. So I'm very relieved of him.

Sometimes he will do a little exaggerated in order to reassure me, such as not listening to the girl's in-depth conversation, and not taking a photo with the girl alone. But it was precisely because of these exaggerations that I trusted him so much. He is also a typical male engineering student, who is obtuse to ambiguity and does not understand the amorous feelings.

So it's good to find an engineering man.

Long-distance relationships have many drawbacks, such as communication problems.

Maybe I don't think a long-distance relationship will come to fruition.