When will I grow up? When does the child start to grow?

When you have more experience, more understanding, and know what is your own pursuit and what is your own responsibility, you will be considered mature.

As a parent, seeing your child grow up is the happiest thing. ......As the child grows up, what they do at some point will make the parent feel that their child has grown up. Such moments include the child's initiative to care for the parents, the child's independent problem-solving, and the child's initiative to take responsibility.

1. When the child can take the initiative to care for his parents, the parents will feel that he has grown up.

When children are young, they need to live under the care and care of their parents. ......But one day, parents will be pleasantly surprised to find that their children have learned to care for their parents......They do not accept the care of their parents, but they know how to care for their parents, can take the initiative to help their parents do things, and take care of their parents in daily life. ......When parents see this scene, they will be very moved and relieved, and feel that their children have finally grown up and are sensible.

2. Seeing that the child solves the problem independently and autonomously, parents will feel that the child has grown up.

When children are young, they are not able to solve problems independently and need help from their parents. ......But at a certain moment, parents will find that their children no longer have to rely on their parents, but rely on their own strength to solve problems independently, and they can handle things ......very wellWhen parents see this moment, they will feel that their children have grown up and have a future, and they will be very gratified.

3. When children begin to take the initiative to take responsibility, parents will feel that their children have grown up.

Children can't take responsibility, and they don't know how to take responsibility at all, everything depends on their parents. ......But at a certain moment, parents will find that their children can take the initiative and consciously take responsibility for themselves, and no longer have to worry about ...... parentsWhen parents see such a moment, they will fully realize that their child has finally grown up and has become a young man who can support himself, at this time parents will feel very relieved, and they will also feel very happy and happy, which is the best reward for parents.

It's been said that growing up is a very complicated thing. Sometimes, it's a long process; And sometimes, it's something that can be done in a split second.

The other day, a friend told me about the experience of sending my son to kindergarten in the morning:

My son is a bit introverted, and he doesn't like to take the initiative to express his intimacy with me when he is defeated on weekdays. Every time, I chased after him and confessed to others: Son, why does my mother love you more and more!

Son, why are you so cute! Son, how do I like you more and more? The little guy just hehehe, or vaguely and shyly replied, Mom, I love you too.

This morning, I sent my baby to kindergarten, and as is customary, he went in alone, and then I watched his background disappear before turning away. This time, my son walked in the door and suddenly turned around and came back, and I asked him what was wrong. He said, Mom, this time I want to watch you go first.

Then he just stood there and looked at me with a smile, wearing a blue suit, ** white and clear, as if glowing. I instantly felt that my son had really grown up. ”

After listening to this story, my heart softened: what kind of Korean drama plot is this!!

There will always be a moment when you will realize that the little baby who only cried when babbling and learning to talk yesterday has quietly grown up. The mood at this moment, how to say, gratifying? Warm?

Or is it mixed with the loss that children will eventually leave us and live independently?

Sister, I'll give you a little flower."

When the child grows up, we parents often say that the baby will grow up quickly, but when the child grows up a lot, it is often in a moment, and many times the child is intimate and can make us feel, or when the child has income. In the dead of night, I always want to find a tranquility, find a space to be alone, and then let my thoughts drift with the wind, and escape for a while in the tranquility of cranky thoughts. When the soul can't bear the load of life, it can only send a signal to the sky that it is tired, too tired, and this feeling of tiredness is not something that ordinary people can imagine.

Every day I want to find peace in my soul, however, it is really difficult.

From the day of birth, people are destined to accompany a lifetime of emotions to point to the dust and the unsatisfactory life, fate is doomed, if you want to change your fate, you have to contend with all the misfortunes and ups and downs, choose the appropriate escape, that is just useless futility. Escape may sometimes be just a minute, or you can only get a minute of silence, or maybe you suddenly realize in the tranquility that people can't live too tired. I often comfort myself in this way.

When the child grows up, goes to school, gets married, and has a child, is this what the child really grows up? In fact, no, the child's growth is in an instant, in every moment when he is sensible.