Why people s personalities change so fast

As the saying goes, the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change. Human character is generally difficult to change. The changes you see are actually some of his personality"Non-mainstream.

Part; It's like a tree, but some of its branches are pruned to make it more suitable for the growth of the tree.

Changes in the environment are the main reasons for some personality changes. For example, a person's personality at school and in society may seem to those who were once familiar with it to change a lot, and in fact it is. Because everyone knows that school and society are almost completely different environments, if you don't make certain adjustments in personality, how can you adapt to social life?

When he adapts to the new environment, especially if it is more comfortable, he will gradually reveal certain personalities that you are familiar with in the past, and these personalities are his"Mainstream character. You only have to get to know it for a while, and you will sigh that his personality has not changed much.

Of course, there are also some people who seem to have a radical change in their personalities. These people are generally those who are not doing well, or who are prone to extremes. To see the true face of these people's former personalities.

Then we have to make a lot of efforts to change their living environment. The change of personality is related to many external factors, such as family status, including the living environment, living conditions, physical health, and the relationship between relatives and neighbors. The main thing about personality is that mentality is dominant, a person with a good mentality is not easy to change his personality, on the contrary, a person with a bad mentality is prone to change his personality!

There are some things that cannot be explained by physiology and psychology alone.

As people grow up and are affected by the environment, they will form a character, and at the same time, the personality is constantly changing with the environment, but different people change in different ways and directions.

This is related to the innate temperament, environmental conditions, physiology, etc.

Different people have different variations, just like wood, some materials are hard and difficult to cut, while others are softer and easy to cut.

Personality is the basic configuration of birth.

Personality is an acquired pattern of behavior and thinking.

Generally speaking, it is the personality that changes, not the personality.

When someone undergoes a major change in their psychology, it may be that on the road to personality development, there is a conflict with the natural reaction expected by the personality, which triggers a chain reaction. You think that your personality has changed, but it is not, it is when you encounter problems, when you think, you learn to balance, and you should give priority to personality or personality reactions.

Personality is an inner personality problem, it is difficult to change, you are just not mature enough, you can't control the state of loss and happiness, experience more, challenge more, and slowly grow up and it will be stable.

Changes in a person's personality have a lot to do with the environment and experiences. What you call "sudden change" may be the result of a long process of change that you are not aware of. And when you suddenly notice this result, you have the feeling of "suddenly a big change".

My experience is the opposite of the subject, I have always been very extroverted in elementary and junior high school (I had a nickname called "little verbose" when I was a child), but in the first half of the second semester of high school, my teacher's feedback to my parents has always said that I am an introverted child. My parents also told me that they thought I had changed, and they didn't say a word every day.

But I didn't feel like a "sudden change" because I was aware of the process of change. It turns out that I have been idle all the time when I was in courseware, and now I have no desire to speak at all many times.

As for why this change happened, I think the first thing is that the crush failed (which really hit hard), and the second is that most of the classmates are disagreeing after the second year of high school.

People's personality will be affected by the growth environment, and with the growth of years, the growth of experience will also change, which means that they have grown up and matured. In addition, reading more books can also change a person's mind.

There are two reasons why personality is difficult to changeThey are intrinsic and extrinsic.

OnePersonality is hard to change

People have different personalities, some people are introverted, some people are extroverted. Different personalities have their own advantages and disadvantages, for example, introverts tend to be more calm-minded, and extroverts generally have good social skills. There are also some people who have a more negative personality, such as a short-tempered personality, which not only does not help people, but also hurts the people around them.

As the saying goes, "the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change", many people feel that people's character is innateIt's hard to want to change。In fact, this is an excuse for myself, there are two reasons for the formation of character, one is innate, and the other is family influence, and it is really difficult to change. If you want to change your personality, you need to put in a lot of determination.

For example, people with low self-esteem should be good at discovering their own strengths and recording them, even if the omelette is better than others, it is considered an advantage, and over time you will find that you are actually very good.

IIWhy is it hard to change personality?

Personality is a person's label, distinguishing themselves from others, but there are still people who feel that their personality has shortcomings and want to change their personality to improve themselves. There are two reasons why personality is difficult to change, one is an internal influence and the other is an external influence。Personality is something that is intrinsic to oneself, and if you want to change, you need an inner drive.

In fact, people's personalities are not static, and many people's personalities will change according to their growth experiences, for example, some children are very lively when they are young, but they become taciturn when they grow up. There are also children who are afraid of giving birth when they are young, but when they grow up, they become self-cooked. Changing your personality takes a long processIt's not something that happens overnight, so even if we don't succeed the first time, we can still try a second time, three times, or even dozens of times.

Most of the reasons for external influences come from family influencesA good atmosphere in a family will affect whether the child is impatient or calm. Parents are the child's dry mirror, and the child will imitate the parents' every move, including the way of doing things, methods, which will affect the development of the child's character. Therefore, if parents want their children to have a good character, they need to be guided correctly from an early age.

IIIIn summary

There are two reasons why personality is difficult to change, one is an internal influence and the other is an external influence