What should I do if my dad doesn t like my husband?

Updated on parenting 2024-03-05
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't affect your feelings for the sake of a car. It depends on your situation. No matter when the only thing that loves you the most is your biological parents, this sentence is definitely no problem.

    If your husband loves you, then if there is a problem, just say it, and many small problems will accumulate into big problems in the end. There are two ways to do this: first, your husband picks you up to and from work almost every day, which is also what a husband should do.

    Although you are advocating a carbon-free life now, your current situation can only be like this for a while.

    2. Drive yourself, if your husband won't drive it for you. Estimate the face of men, you drive the car you bought. He can't open. It's possible that you have this idea in your heart.

    Third, don't drive, all do buses, if the distance is not too far, this suggestion can be considered. When the house is repaired, they all move together, and then open again. Naturally, your husband will send you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Of course, your parents regard you as a treasure and hope that your husband can protect you and be considerate of you at all times. This is also normal, however, you should also take into account your husband's work situation and financial ability. Feelings can only last if both parties understand each other.

    I think your father thinks more selfishly, they are both husband and wife, and they have to be so clear. I feel that your father subconsciously does not regard your husband as his own family, and even has some hostility. As for the car, you should first explain the reason to your parents and try to get their understanding, if it really doesn't work, it is better to sell the car altogether, or you and your wife will buy a cheaper car.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It should be a husband with a strong sense of vanity, it won't hurt people, if you like it, you can pick it up, and if you don't like it, you can do it yourself.

    If you are afraid that he will be angry, then get used to it, and one day you will find that you have lost a lot, love, dignity, family affection, ......

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Take your time, you don't have to please too much, men just focus on the family and work hard to do a good job, if the personality is incompatible, reduce the contact of contradictions, after all, it's not a vexatious child, right?

    It doesn't have to be serious.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Your husband doesn't feel sorry for you... But this is a matter for you as a couple, and you have to tell your parents that you will handle it yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    So angry, not like a man, you are also angry and let him see it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    1. Work hard, be strong, and tell yourself that there are others who love you.

    In fact, we are human beings, and some of us are here to hone our willpower.

    As if his father was one of them, he appeared as a better person when he came to spur himself to become a better person. In this way, you will feel better, and you will also be more motivated to be a strong and hard-working person, after all, there are other people in this world who love you, mothers, grandparents, siblings, and your own lovers, etc.

    2. Find a time, find a place, and have a good talk with your father.

    Since the other party gave birth to himself, there is no need not to love himself, talk to his father well, and confirm whether he thinks too much, or his father really doesn't like him and doesn't love himself; If it is the former, it can be regarded as no mustard between father and son.

    You can live happily and not think cranky.

    3. The harder you work, the luckier you are, you behave so well in front of your father, I believe he will also see it, he will not think that you are an unbelievable girl, I believe that one day he will accept you all!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you feel that Dad doesn't love you anymore, you should behave well, study hard, and let Dad see that you are a very sensible and lovely child, and he will definitely love you more. In fact, every parent loves their children, but it means that the method is different, and it does not make you feel it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You should study hard, inherit the advantages of your parents, carry them forward, surpass the previous generation, and make some achievements, of course your father loves his children, you don't have such thoughts, filial piety to your parents,

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If Dad doesn't love you, it may actually be because he has a bad relationship with you, at this time you can see if you can cultivate a good relationship with Dad, and then tell him that you need Dad's love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Dad definitely loves you, but the way he expresses it is not quite right, maybe he doesn't usually express it through words, but he may express it in another way, maybe he is a person who is not good at words.

    You can honor him well, and I believe that he should give back to you in the same way.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You can tell your father how you feel, and tell him that you need his care very much, and hope that he can talk to you more and spend more time with you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think your idea is redundant, because there is no parent who does not love their children, and you may be because your father is too busy, so he does not care enough about you, so he gives you the illusion that he does not love you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't think about it all day! You're your dad's child, can he not love you! Maybe it's a problem! Feed your family! You have to work hard to make your dad proud of you!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you don't feel loved, you have to see why Dad doesn't love you, do you feel that the relationship between the two of you is unstable, so you need to work hard to be yourself and let Dad see it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There is no father who does not love his children, it may be that the father is not a person who is good at expression, he is just silently doing everything for you, and the way of expression is different, so that you can misunderstand that the father does not love you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You feel like your dad doesn't love you anymore! And mom loves you and is happy! As long as you study hard! Bitter section of the body! Make yourself better, and your parents will love you even more!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This may be one of your own feelings, but I think your dad must love you very much, otherwise he wouldn't be so nice to you, so you should still understand your dad or communicate with your dad more.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You don't think about it in terms of personal feelings, parents in the world will love their children, but everyone loves in a different way, and it has something to do with their character, and fathers are generally stricter, which is true.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Dad loves you, maybe you don't feel it, Dad himself is not good at expressing it, and he will not be particularly gentle and careful and care about you directly, but he earns money to support your family and gives you money to spend, and will meet some of your requirements, this is a kind of love.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In fact, parents like their children and may not be good at expressing them, so you don't feel his love for you. Don't deny yourself lightly.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Actually, it's not, every parent likes their child, is it that he is too strict with you and too harsh to make you have such thoughts.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It may just be that you feel, because many times it feels like you will do something wrong, and it is impossible for your parents not to love you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Hello, happy to be able to answer this question for you. If you are particularly annoying when you meet your husband's father, then you can actually reduce the frequency of meeting and move out with your husband after marriage. In fact, you can treat it with a tolerant heart, the beauty of people is not on the outside, but on the inside, you love your husband very much, your husband also loves his father, without his father, there is no your husband, it is normal for the old man to be verbose, not only because you are his relatives, but also because he cares about you, get along well with the elders of both sides, you will have a happier home, the beauty of women lies in tolerance, women's wisdom also lies in tolerance, I believe you will be happier in the future, in fact, you yourself are also great I hope to help you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    There are all kinds of dads in this world, and not all dads are up to the mark. There are so many betrayals of marriage in this world, and a few fathers who don't talk like each other are not weird things, right? I felt disgusted with my father, and I didn't think it was too difficult.

    First of all, this is your life path, how you live, by your own decision, others do not care about you, then you care about yourself, after all, only you will be by your side, others will leave sooner or later, maybe some people although next to you, but his heart will leave you sooner or later, entrusting yourself in the hands of others is a huge risky thing, and loving yourself is the most commercial insurance. You can also think of this as a training to live alone, and in the future you will definitely be alone to observe the world and live alone, so it is good to know as soon as possible.

    At the same time,I think you should also spend a little more time thinking about what your father has done to you since you can remember, and you feel that he loves you, even if it's a particularly small act, I think there must be. There's a good chance you've developed a mindset that Daddy doesn't love me without a doubtTherefore, everything is considered from the perspective that he does not love me, and over time it creates a feeling of hating his father.

    Sometimes we have to look at things from a different perspectiveFor example, when you fall very badly on your bikeYour dad wants you to go to the clinic alone, but I think maybe he's exercising your self-awarenessThe reason is that he is unlikely to be with you for the rest of his life, and he wants you to be more and more tenacious and learn to take care of yourself. In the summer, I want you to study and train, maybe it is to shape your work ability and pave the way for you to step into social development in the future. He doesn't care about your life, maybe he believes that you will solve these things on your own?

    So don't think badly of your dad all the time.

    Anyway,I think your dad may indeed be a not very good dad, but that doesn't mean he doesn't love you, it's very likely that he just didn't say the love he gave you, but just hid it in his heart. Wouldn't that dad be more outstanding? You can try to communicate with your dadBut you don't have to communicate with the opinion that he doesn't love me, it will only make everyone's misunderstanding deeper, and from a different perspective, you can find different surprises.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Try to listen to Dad, don't make Dad angry, care more about Dad in life and let Dad feel your love, so as to influence him, work hard in your own study and work, let Dad see your achievements, and you will naturally be proud of you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Summary. There may indeed be this special family, due to some special reasons, parents are not particularly concerned about their children, so when you encounter this kind of thing, you can only adjust it yourself, you may still be young now, you can't leave this family, you just endure silently, there is no particularly good way to change, and then one day in the future you have the opportunity to go outside by yourself, study hard by yourself, find a better future for yourself, and when you are financially independent, it is when your whole person ushers in a new life, Therefore, it is more important to study hard than anything else, don't affect your future because of the current environment, if you give up now, then your life will be like this, if you start to work hard now to have a good result, you will have many opportunities to change in the future, you can still be free, you can still be happy.

    My dad doesn't love me, what should I do?

    There may indeed be this kind of special family, due to some special reasons, parents are not particularly concerned about the vertical ruler child, so when you encounter this kind of thing, you can only adjust it yourself, you may still be young, you can't leave this family, you just endure it silently, there is no particularly good way to change Yu Gao, and then one day in the future you have the opportunity to go outside by yourself, study hard by yourself, find a better future for yourself, and when you are financially independent, it is when your whole person ushers in a new life, If you give up now, then your life will be like this, if you start to work hard now to have a good result, you will have many opportunities to change in the future, you can still be free, you can still be happy.

    Oh my God, you've said a great job! Can you elaborate on that?

    There may indeed be this kind of special family, due to some special reasons, parents are not particularly concerned about the vertical ruler child, so when you encounter this kind of thing, you can only adjust it yourself, you may still be young, you can't leave this family, you just endure it silently, there is no particularly good way to change Yu Gao, and then one day in the future you have the opportunity to go outside by yourself, study hard by yourself, find a better future for yourself, and when you are financially independent, it is when your whole person ushers in a new life, If you give up now, then your life will be like this, if you start to work hard now to have a good result, you will have many opportunities to change in the future, you can still be free, you can still be happy.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I don't think so, most father-son relationships are particularly harmonious, after all, there is a blood relationship, if you can do the following, especially as a father, then it is very helpful to maintain the relationship between each other!

    1. Be more accompanied, and often turn to sing.

    As a father, in addition to work, you should spend more time with your children and communicate with them more, so that you can understand each other and get closer to each other's hearts.

    Fathers can take the initiative to take on the task of tutoring their sons' homework and teach them some learning methods; Be willing to listen to the interesting things they encounter in their lives; When they encounter difficulties, they should be given adequate support and help.

    And when there is a misunderstanding between the two parties, it is necessary to communicate proactively to understand the inner thoughts of the other party more deeply.

    In this way, the son will become more familiar with his father, and the estranged relationship will become more and more intimate.

    Second, we must allow our son to have different opinions and know how to let go.

    Dads should know that their sons will grow up and learn to make their own decisions without the help of their parents, so they should encourage and guide them to become independent and allow them to have different opinions on issues, rather than blindly asking them to be obedient and do what they want.

    In addition, sons also need to have their own independent space in the process of growing up, and the distance between father and son will inevitably become distant.

    As a father, we must recognize these in time and know how to let them explore on their own, so as to ensure the harmony of the parent-child relationship.

    3. Understand your son's interests and hobbies and find common topics.

    If father and son have similar interests, they will have a lot of common topics, and the relationship will naturally be much closer. As a father, I usually pay attention to my son's interests and hobbies, and then go to learn about this knowledge. As long as you master these skills and principles, I believe that the relationship between father and son will definitely become closer.

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That's what you think too much, a person can't be perfect enough to be liked by everyone, but it's also impossible to make everyone hate, don't be so pessimistic, there are always people who like you.