I always feel like everyone doesn t like me

That's what you think too much, a person can't be perfect enough to be liked by everyone, but it's also impossible to make everyone hate, don't be so pessimistic, there are always people who like you.

If you feel that everyone doesn't like you, you can participate in more collective club activities, and have more contact with everyone, and you will slowly develop self-confidence, and maybe someone will confess, so that you can prove that you are liked by others

Can you reflect on whether you sometimes fail to take into account the feelings of others. Please note not to do stupid behaviors that only please the opposite sex, pay attention to personal hygiene, be cheerful, don't always complain, don't chew the root of people's tongues behind your back, help people around you appropriately, read more, be sunny and optimistic, have a strict mouth, and be a little cautious when appropriate, because the heart of defense is indispensable, don't show it.

I hate people who are sweet in their mouths and spicy in their hearts, and I don't like to hear their fake words, so I can't help it, so I point it out loud, or turn away, leaving her with a look of bewilderment watching my back as I leave, and there will be no next time. Like is like, love is love! There is no need to hide it, even if there is a cliff in front of you, a mountain of swords and a sea of fire.

The people around me don't understand because they're not my bosom friends! Whatever he does, it's a kind of happiness to live in his own world.

I also feel this way, and my feelings are one by one, I want to develop interests and hobbies but are blocked, I always feel that life is locked, and my parents can't listen to any of my words, they always insist on going their own way, thinking how good it is to be at home; But because of this, many people are not recognized, life is too tiring, I think in this situation to find evidence, with facts to prove that I am right, or to find evidence to prove that I am wrong. When everybody takes you seriously; You can't take yourself too seriously, and when everyone doesn't take you seriously, you have to look down on yourself. ‍‍

Don't forget, you are you. Others hold you up to the sky, you are still you; When others trample you under your feet, you are still you. In the face of other people's "killing", more sober and more humble; In the face of other people's "stick killing", a little more pride, a little more self-confidence, this is the real take yourself seriously, is really worthy of yourself.

Reflect on whether it was your lack of courage in some of your own decisions, or because of the opposition of others, that they did not come true.

I think whether others like it or not is his business, the key is to do a good job of being a person, to be worthy of the world, to be worthy of the earth, to be kind, to say what others want to say, for example, a beggar begging along the street, everyone doesn't like him, why do they stay away? Just because he is poor, has no money and no power, as the so-called poor no one asks about the rich on the streets, and there are distant relatives in the mountains.

Everyone has their own way of living, why should they cater to others and live a humble life? I'm the kind of person who doesn't fit in very well, I like to be quiet, read books, write and draw, and memorize poems and poems that I think are good. When I see a moving article and a poem, I will cry, I will sigh for the ancients, and I will worry about the unlucky life of others.

All of this seems to the people around me to be different, and when I talk to them, they also think that I am upside down! Over time, respect and stay away.

In real life, we are accustomed to looking at and evaluating ourselves through the eyes of others. For example, if you wear a new dress and others say it looks good, we will feel that we are responsible for our appearance; When others say it's ugly, the more we look at ourselves, the more unpleasant it becomes.

It's just such an insignificant thing as dressing, and it's even more so for a big thing. When a person is held and respected by others, and the scenery is infinite, he often can't find the north and becomes very dragged; And when everyone doesn't want to see him and treats him as air, it's very easy to give up on himself.

There may be two aspects to feeling that everyone doesn't like you, the first may be that you just feel yourself, but you don't, and the second possibility is that some of your behaviors may be unacceptable. Actually, in the end you just feel for yourself.

If you feel this way, is there something wrong with you personally? You should find the reason from yourself, and then slowly get rid of the bad fault, so that someone will like you.

This may be your own psychological problem, not everyone will not like you, and not all people will like you.

First of all, find the reason from yourself, if the problem really appears to yourself, you should correct it in time, and you should not blame others.

Summary. A lot of people don't like what I do.

First, find out that the people around you don't like you, whether you are too psychologically sensitive or others really don't like you, and when you interact with people, you feel that the people around you don't like you, which may be due to two reasons; The first is the reason for my own psychological factors. In psychology, people's temperament is divided into four categories, there is a type of person called depressive nature, this temperament of people has a characteristic is that they are too sensitive and suspicious, if you are this type of person, it may be that you are too sensitive and suspicious of the outside world, it is not necessarily that others do not like you. Second, it may be due to one's own behavior.

Second, if others don't like you, you have to check what problems exist when you interact with people, and you feel that the people around you don't like you, you must find the reasons from your own side, you can refer to the following questions to find the original scum and quiet dates: 1People with too strong personalities and unforgiving personalities often don't get liked by others.

Such a person has the characteristic that when interacting with others, he can force a lot of reasoning in his mouth about things that make no sense. Things that make a little sense are even more unforgiving to people. Such a "strong" person, although he did not suffer at that time, but in the long run, this kind of person is not likable, let alone get benefits!

2.The reason why people who are too calculating about their mothers-in-law and mothers are not popular with others is that they can't afford to lose a little, and they will be dissatisfied with others when they suffer a little loss; The second is because people who are scheming take advantage of others, always treat others as fools, and think they are very smart. People don't want to deal with such a person!

3.High-profile and flamboyant, people who feel that no one is as good as themselves have two characteristics, the first is to highlight themselves on any occasion, they are self-centered, constantly tell others about their life trivialities, and boast of their personal experience; Or only talk about personal interests, never pay attention to the feelings of others, and secondly, in the eyes and mouths of such people, he looks down on anyone, and no one is inferior to himself. This type of person is, of course, also frowned upon.

4.Sanctimonious, as if he is a righteous gentleman, this type of person is often serious about everything, righteous and awe-inspiring, this kind of person looks sanctimonious, as if he is a righteous gentleman, and his heart is also like a dismantling of the inevitable hiding of chickens and dogs. This kind of person is also not popular!

Of course, in addition to these typical characteristics above, there may be other factors that make you unpopular with others, so you should also check yourself from various aspects such as personality quality, behavior, language, etc., to find out the reasons.

1. Many people don't like you, which just shows that you are very good, because you have nothing to do with others, and others have nothing to do with you, so you can't live in the eyes of others, otherwise you can't really be yourself. 2. But people who are in close contact still have to respect others, do not consume and drag others, and only in this way can others respect you and will not consume and drag you down. 3. People who don't like you from a distance, in fact, you have nothing to do with them, they are all your negative energy, so they don't like you, and you can also dislike them and stay away from negative energy.

I feel that many people don't like themselves There are two possibilities, one is self-feeling. The other is really not like. The reason for the former situation may be one's own personality.

Generally, it is an introvert and lacks self-confidence, and others have no intention of disliking it, but they always think that others don't like them. If this is the case, as long as you consciously change yourself, work hard to improve your self-confidence, and communicate with others more, it will naturally be fine.

If you really don't like yourself, then you have to analyze yourself very seriously and thoroughly. Look at what the problem is, and try to correct your own shortcomings, make more friends, and gradually isolate yourself from the social group.

First of all, you have to like yourself, others may like yourself, and it is not very important whether others like you or not.

It's impossible to get everyone to like you.

Six out of ten people like you, and it's OK.

What if you feel like a lot of people don't like you? I think it's okay if one person doesn't like you, two people don't like you, I think it's excusable, everyone's values or sense of identity with things are different, but if the people around you don't like you, then you have to analyze yourself, whether your own character is flawed, or whether there is anything wrong with others, and you often think about yourself.

The main thing is that you have a problem with your mentality, communicate with them more, and you will find that it is not what you imagined.

It's best to be yourself, and it should be okay to communicate with others and be kind to others.

Interpersonal relationships are always a problem in our lives, and I believe that each of us has different interpersonal problems. Even some people can't adjust their mentality in time, suffer from depression, and always feel the incomprehension of those around them. So, what do you do if you feel like others don't like you?

First of all, you can't judge the other person's feelings by how you feel about them. You must know that everyone's personality traits are different, and others may not take your troubles to heart. And what you think is okay, others will take it to heart.

So, everyone is different. If you use your mind to speculate on other people's thoughts, then the result is also your own idea, which you think he thinks, but it does not represent his own thoughts. You feel that the people around you don't like you, and this conclusion is something you came up with and doesn't represent what others think.

You don't think other people like you, and you can't say that others really don't like you. Your feelings are completely different from his feelings, so his actions will make you feel that he doesn't like you. We don't have to dwell on that.

Finally, be brave enough to examine yourself. Everyone in our lives makes mistakes, and no one is perfect. At this time, if you find that the people around you don't like you anymore, you should be brave enough to review yourself, whether you are too selfish, stingy, etc. If there is, it will be changed, and if it is not, it will be encouraged.

I feel that the people around me don't like me, in this case, I should change my personality, my image and temperament, so slowly, the people around me will accept you and like you.

You have low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence, so you feel that the people around you don't like you, anyway, you just like yourself, don't care about other people's eyes.

Don't close yourself off yourself, you need to open your heart, don't set up barriers, you are honest and others will treat each other sincerely, so you don't need to keep letting go, don't carry a psychological burden.

Then change yourself for the better, and if you don't like me, it should be something wrong with me. I'm going to share my good stuff with them, be generous, helpful, and no one doesn't like it.

This should be a sign of overthinking and lack of self-confidence, maintain an optimistic attitude, self-regulate emotions and establish correct life values.

I think I'm thinking too much, and I can chat with my close friends and clear my mind.

Since the people around you don't like you, it's probably your own reason, first self-examine, recognize your shortcomings and correct them.

I used to feel this way, thinking that this person has an opinion about me, and that this person feels that everything is directed at me. Later, I thought, I will be my own and not lose to others, regardless of whether you have an opinion of me or not, and slowly, the relationship with that person turned out to be close. So, you're also a demon, and you have to overcome it yourself.

Don't cater too much to others, you can buy some snacks when you are okay or work overtime, and everyone will share them together, but your personality should be easy-going, don't be too inferior, everyone will have such a heart.

I used to feel this way, and after a long time, I was still suspicious, but in fact, the people around me were quite busy. People don't necessarily have time to study who is what their personality is, whether they are good or not, think carefully about their own treatment of others, and will not particularly study the person around them.

to create such a situation. The main thing is that I think too much.

It may just be a feeling, it doesn't have to be the case, if you want the people around you to like you, you have to do more good things, help the people around you more, and do small things for them.

Summary. First, because you always tell the truth, if your good friend has shortcomings, and when people ask you, you tell them about their shortcomings, then your friends don't like you. Second, because you are not hypocritical enough, we all know that people nowadays like to listen to good words and beautiful words, if you rely on your own conscience, you are telling the truth, and do not flatter others, others will not like you.

Third, because your mouth is not sweet enough, whether it is your friends or relatives, if your mouth is not coated with honey, what dear mother-in-law, dear mother, dear husband, say so-and-so is amazing! Those who don't say sweet things are not welcome. Fourth, because you are too upright, if you sometimes have something to say, but you don't do things enough, you still can't get the likes of others.

Fifth, because you don't know how to pat yourself, life in the workplace is very stressful, especially when you want to be promoted, if you don't maintain a friendly relationship with the leader and don't pat the leader's sycophant, the leader will of course not like you, and your promotion opportunities will be disappointed. Sixth, because you are too kind, everyone knows that people who are too kind are easy to be bullied, and after being bullied, others will think that you are easy to bully, and they will naturally not like you.

Why is there always someone who doesn't like me.

First, because you always tell the truth, if your good friend has shortcomings, and when people ask you, you tell them about their shortcomings, then your friends don't like you. Second, because you are not hypocritical enough, we all know that people nowadays like to listen to good words and beautiful words, if you rely on your own conscience, you are telling the truth, and do not flatter others, others will not like you. Third, because your mouth is not sweet enough, whether it is your friends or relatives, if your mouth is not coated with honey, what dear mother-in-law, dear mother, dear husband, say so-and-so is amazing!

Those who don't say sweet things are not welcome. Fourth, because you are too upright, if you sometimes have something to say, but you don't do things enough, you still can't get the likes of others. Fifth, because you don't know how to pat yourself, life in the workplace is very stressful, especially when you want to be promoted, if you don't maintain a friendly relationship with the leader and don't pat the leader's sycophant, the leader will of course not like you, and your promotion opportunities will be disappointed.

Sixth, because you are too kind, everyone knows that people who are too kind are easy to be bullied, and after being bullied, others will think that you are easy to bully, and they will naturally not like you.

I think in real life, we really can't do it, everyone likes themselves, I think 60% of people in life like you, you are already very good. Why do you need 100% people to like you? The most important thing is that we like ourselves.