If you could, would you still be with your first love?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-29
59 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't think I will. My first love and I have never been together, although we like each other, but because I don't have the courage, it has become a regret of youth. Would I wish to be with him once if I had the chance?

    No, because now that we are all grown up, we are not the same person we used to be. I liked him because at that time, he was my tablemate, and he would close a window for me when I had a cold. I liked him because at that time, he would give me a copy of Jimmy's Starry Sky and write it in the dark pages

    I miss you so much". I like him because at that time, we couldn't be at the same table, and he would have tears in his eyes and say that he couldn't bear it. I liked him because at that time, he would secretly stare at me, making me too shy to look up.

    This kind of like, today, at this time, in this place, will there still be? I've graduated from college and started working. Why he liked me, I never knew.

    He said that there is no reason to like someone, he chased me for two years, but we were not in the same university, so this relationship is destined to have no beginning and no end. So, if at this moment, he likes me and confesses to me, will I accept it? No, because I am a stranger to this person for four years, and I don't know how he is now.

    If I can't let go of the past and run over to confess to him, will he accept it? Not necessarily, maybe he has a new girlfriend too.

    Time cannot heal all wounds, but it will erase people's memories. It's just that at a certain moment, when you pass by the campus, you suddenly think of the teenager who cried and laughed with you, and will say: "If only we had been together!"

    Since they broke up in the first place, there must be a reason. Whether it was to let go of oneself or the other party to let go, at that moment everyone made a choice. So at this moment, all we have to do is move forward and welcome each other with a new life.

    Missing is also a kind of fate, not all fate is long-term together, there is also a kind of fate called the cape of the sky. First love is the fate of the cape, always the poignant beauty of gazing from afar, and never looking forward to the helpless heartbreak of each other.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Won't be with her because the past is in the past and there's no need to live in the past all the time. A lot of people have changed over the years, and everyone is no longer suitable.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I won't, because although the first love is very beautiful when I think about it, but if I look at it with my current thoughts, the other party is not a person to rely on, but the first love has added a filter to him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No, I think the first love should be put in my heart, and the two of them are actually not very suitable in real life, so it is impossible for me to be with my first love again.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Of course it will, because my first love is a very responsible boy, and he is also very good to me, I will definitely choose to be with him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No. Because I felt that my first love was immature and had no sense of responsibility, I would not be with my first love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No, it won't. Because feelings are not forced at all, only when both parties love each other very much, so that they can really be together.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If I could, I would also choose to be with my first love, because my first love gave me a feeling that no one else could give me.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Not really, because the two of them are not particularly suitable, but there is just a trace of regret in their minds.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First love is when two people like each other, and it can explain the love concept of two people, if it is said that after getting along, two people can really be together. This feeling is very happy, but some will also break up, and if they choose again, they will also choose to be with him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If I had a choice, I wouldn't choose to be with my first love, because my current wife is my favorite, so I wouldn't choose again.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If I could, I would still choose to be with my first love, because so far, I still have him in my heart, I still can't let go, I still have a lot of regrets, although I know that it's impossible, I still fantasize about seeing him again, what will I say when we meet.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No, because I don't think my first love and I are a good fit, and it won't end well if two people are together.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Yes, because the first love is beautiful, only those who have experienced it will know, it is the girl I like for the first time, and I will definitely not hesitate to be with her again.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course I would choose to be with my first love, because my first love was very good to me, and we both broke up because of a long-distance relationship.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    No, because it's been a long time since I've been separated from my first love, and I don't think the two of us are in a good place, so I'm not going to be with him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If I could, I wouldn't be with my first love, because I'm married and have children, and my wife is also very good, I want to cherish my current life, and let him pass in the past!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you can, you won't choose to be with your first love, because you've broken up, so there's no need to be together.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Give up because it's just a beautiful emotion, and the first love for a woman is the most beautiful experience in your life, so it's ordinary and trivial because it's beautiful. The wind and snow are not full, love must be spent in a needle and a thread, firewood, rice, oil and salt, and the romantic time has become the embellishment of marriage at most.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Hello friend, if I could, I would definitely choose to be with my first love, because at that time it was our feelings for pure gold, and we should be happy.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If it's okay, I can't guarantee 100% that I choose to be with my first love, because a lot of love at that time comes from a desire in my heart for that other relationship, and my first love is not necessarily the right person.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If I could, I wouldn't have chosen to be with my first love, because my first love didn't seem to be good.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Will you choose to be with your first love? The most important thing is to talk about the relationship between two people, if two people are very happy together, very happy, of course they will choose to be together, if two people are very tired together, very stressed, they will definitely not choose to be together.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you choose, then you will choose to be with your first love, because after all, there are very good memories and beautiful love between two people, because the most basic thing in marriage is love.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    My first love and I are still together, even though we have been separated and reunited. But in the end we came together, we were together, and I felt very happy and happy together. And I also cherish our lives very much.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    My first love and I are not together now, because we were all very young when we first fell in love, and we had no experience in dealing with feelings, although love was very sweet, but because of the immaturity of the relationship, we finally broke up.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    My first love isn't with me now, and the two of us broke up in high school.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    My first love is still with me now, because my first love is a very responsible, very nice person, and we love each other very much, so we have been together all the time, and we are not separated yet.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    That's definitely not, maybe many people can't stick to being with their first love, and in the end they will choose to separate for some reasons, and many people end up with themselves not their first love.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Not together anymore. By the time we graduated from school, we went our separate ways. At that time, it was usually a period of ignorance, and I didn't think about how to continue, or separate. Everything just went with the flow.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    My first love and I are still together, and the feeling between the two of us is also very good, and our relationship is also very sweet, so my first love and I will definitely be able to go a long way, and we will be able to make our love get a perfect ending.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Without being together, first love is a memory of youth, and first love is the foundation of love and the original intention of letting yourself start love.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    My first love hadn't been with me for a long time, and they had already broken up when I was in school. Now it's just a passer-by, and there is no further contact.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    My first love is still with me, and we have spent many years now, so I will cherish my first love very much, and I can go to the palace of marriage with my first love, so I am very good to my first love.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's been a long time since we were together, and we separated before graduating from college, and she had her choice, and then it was cured, and there was no then.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    My first love doesn't have the idea of being with me right now because we both have families. And they were happy with each other. So we're just thinking about it, and we don't have any ideas.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    My first love is no longer with me because my first love has been with me for a long time and I have now forgotten about my first love, but I think my first love also taught me a lot of truths, so I am also very grateful for this first love of mine.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    My first love is still with me. This is the one I am now, and the two have always been together.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    There should be a first love who will be with him half, but many first loves have already separated, because they each have their own lives.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    didn't get together, because the two people often quarreled, and the personalities of the two people were not suitable at all, so they broke up a long time ago.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    is no longer together, the two of us are destined, and the relationship is very unstable, so we broke up a long time ago.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    My first love was long gone with me, we broke up a long time ago, and now we each have our own lives, we don't bother each other, and even if we see each other occasionally, we are just ordinary friends.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It's been a long time since we were together, and it's like it's over before it started, but it's just a pity that there are good memories left.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    This first love of mine is definitely not with me right now, because the two of us separated for some other reason, so it was very worthwhile for both of us.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    My first love was long since he was with me, and I've been through several of them. But no matter who you're with, you always want to have your first love. It's because it's a really good feeling.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    My first love and I haven't seen each other since we broke up. We are people living in two cities, and we have broken off contact after breaking up, so the opportunity to meet will be handed over to God, I wonder if it will be more embarrassing if we really meet? Although I haven't met, sometimes I still miss my first love, and I've dreamed of it a few times!

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Her first love is no longer with her, and she has a new choice.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    The first love and myself are no longer together, because the first love was the love when I was young and immature, so I didn't find it, and it was reasonable in the end.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    If I could, I wouldn't have chosen to be with my first love. Because there is a good saying, a good horse does not eat back grass, since the relationship is separated, there is no need to redeem it. Otherwise, it will cost hundreds of times the effort, or even thousands.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    If I could, I would choose to reunite with my first love. After all, it's the one I like, and I've experienced a lot of good things. To put it bluntly, it's also a very regrettable state. They will also choose to be together.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    If I could, I wouldn't choose to reunite with my first love, because I want to meet the current person, because I am very happy with him now.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    If there is such a condition, I will not choose to be with my first love, because I feel that my first love and I have lost the original intention, so I should still look for the person who loves me the most.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    I wouldn't choose to be with my first love if I could, because I feel like it's already a good memory for me, and I would choose to be with my partner because my partner was so good to me.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    It depends on whether there is still a contradiction, what was the reason for the separation at the beginning, whether it was really resolved, if everything is okay, then it is okay to be together again.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    I wouldn't choose this if I could, because I am very happy with my current boyfriend, so I would not choose to be with my first love, because my first love hurt me too much, and I would forget my own first love.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    If I could, I wouldn't choose to be with my first love again, because we were very naïve to each other when we were together, and we didn't really have love at that time, just a simple gender attraction.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    The life of each of us is actually an experience, and in this experience. There will be flaws and regrets, and a life without flaws is actually incomplete. So if we had a choice, we would still choose to break up in the situation at that time.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    There are no ifs and bolts for this kind of thing, because it is not the same now as it was before. The first love was just a hazy love, and I wasn't very sensible at that time, so I can't say that I will be with him if we get back together.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    If I could, I would choose to be with my first love, because recalling my emotional past, only my first love can make me smile at the corner of my mouth, because I think this relationship is flawless, although it is impossible, but imagine the beauty of making up for this regret.

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