Being a stay at home wife is actually very hard, why don t many people understand?

Because many people feel that being a full-time wife does not have to go out to work, just doing housework at home and taking care of children, there is no pressure, but in fact, this is also very tiring.

This is because there are many people who have never experienced such a thing, have not experienced it, so they can't stand on this side to think for them, and they don't understand their hardships.

Because being a full-time wife is not profitable, it will not generate profits, and doing housework is something that everyone can do, so everyone feels that it is not hard.

As the old saying goes, "if you don't know how expensive firewood, rice, oil and salt are not at home", being a full-time wife in many people's impression is to clean the house, cook, and take children to and from school, giving people the illusion that there are not many things to do and no pressure.

This is because people feel that their work is very simple, and then they don't have to work too hard, and they have more time left.

That is to say, if the scale of our personal division of labor is too small, then the production efficiency will be very low, like a restaurant outside us, he may serve hundreds or thousands of customers a day, that is also cooking, you see how much higher the efficiency is.

Personally, I think that the reason why many people don't understand is mainly because they don't think about it from the other party's point of view, and they haven't really experienced this kind of life, so they don't understand this kind of hardship.

Because those people have never done this profession at all, they don't appreciate the hard work at all.

In fact, if the relatives in the family are very good, then it is also a good experience to be a full-time digital child. As for the fact that it is different from going out to work, the main thing is that you can be willful, after all, it is a blood relationship.

The so-called "full-time children" refers to the fact that young people choose to accompany their parents at home, do some housework, get a certain amount of living expenses from their parents, and at the same time have more time to prepare for graduate school entrance examinations, public examinations or find jobs. There are many cases of this phenomenon at present.

For example, both parents are retired, and both of them have monthly pensions.

Three or four thousand yuan, basically don't worry about him. Moreover, when his parents saw him helping at home, they also stuffed money from time to time.

There are also some young people, who are in a similar situation, because of the economic downturn, companies have cut wages or stopped work, etc., so it will become difficult to find a suitable job in a short period of time. At this time, it is also a good choice to accompany your parents and do your filial piety while also getting a housework income.

Especially for some young people who have just graduated, they often lack professional skills and social resources, and it is difficult to meet the requirements of employers in a short period of time, or they can only accept low-paying jobs, which also makes them unwilling to work casually, choose to continue their studies, or go home to take care of the elderly.

Life is stressful, idle and panicked, with children and afraid of depression, far away from the workplace for a long time, and afraid that it will be difficult to go back, so I am not willing to take the baby full-time as a full-time wife.

<> 1. Cannot be financially independent and have no voice in the family.

Some women do not work after they get married, but choose to be stay-at-home wives. Being a stay-at-home wife is not as easy as everyone thinks, but it is very difficult. Because you don't have a job and take care of the housework at home, you can't be financially independent.

If you don't have any money in your card, you have to ask your husband for money, and you have no confidence, and you will feel very embarrassed, which will make many housewives swallow their anger. Since they can't make money, housewives can only deal with some household chores, and they can't make decisions when they encounter big problems. If the husband is very good to him and can understand himself, then he is very lucky; However, some men enjoy the care of women while contemptuous of their wives with a condescending posture, and it is very likely that the two people do not have a common language and the marriage breaks down.

Second, every day is very busy and has no time for yourself.

Housewives do a lot of things every day, eat three meals a day, pick up and drop off children, clean the house, and buy daily necessities. But after these things were cleaned up, I found that I didn't even have time to wash my face, let alone put on makeup, and I was unkempt and plain all day long, which was very different from the fashionable women who went to work. If the children in the family are relatively small, they need to take care of the baby's daily life, and they also need to take care of the family's daily life, and often they don't even have time to eat well.

3. No matter how good you do, you can't get the understanding of others.

Although the full-time wife is very busy, but it is not a formal job, how good she does, it is difficult to get praise from others, everyone feels that since women do not work, do not earn money, housework is due, no matter how hard and tired, it is much more leisurely than going to work. Many people feel that housewives can't create value, just like an accessory, and it's hard to get everyone's affirmation.

It is particularly difficult to be a full-time wife, there is no economy, and all the expenses of the family, food and clothing, buying toys for the baby, and enrolling in interest classes all need money.

It is very difficult to be a stay-at-home wife, because a stay-at-home wife needs to take care of her family, work, and children's studies, and the pressure is also very high.

It's especially hard. In life, there is no private time of oneself at all, and no friends of oneself will devote all their time to family and children, and every day will be very tiring.

Being a stay-at-home wife is very hard because there are a lot of things to worry about in the process. And at this time, you will find that you are also very prone to crashes. Many people will have some experience of collapse in the process of being a stay-at-home wife.

Especially when your mood is particularly bad, and you encounter a child who keeps crying, you will find that your heart is very broken. And at this time, you will find that your temper will become more and more irritable. <>

Many people may choose to be a stay-at-home wife because they also want to take good care of their children and family. As a result, people give up their jobs to clean or pick up and drop off their children at home. In fact, you will find that being a stay-at-home wife is very hard.

Because at this time, they have a lot to worry about. Not only do you have to make breakfast for your husband, but you also have to take care of the children at home. Once the child is crying, they should immediately go to calm the child's emotions.

And they don't have their own spare time, and at the same time they have lost their circle of friends. <>

In the process of being a stay-at-home wife, many people will have some experience of collapse, especially when the child keeps crying. Because every girl will also have their own inner emotions, and they will also have times when they are particularly depressed. But in this process, the children will keep making noise, and at the same time, it will make these girls feel very hard.

When this happens, many women feel particularly devastated, and they want to escape from this life. And in the process of being a full-time wife, everyone will work very hard, but they will not be understood by their families. Therefore, many people will feel particularly devastated at this time, and some people even want to return to the workplace.

Therefore, many female friends are reluctant to get married, they feel that they will lose their original life after marriage. And after getting married, their lives will also be affected by others. At this time, female friends may feel that they are particularly hard, and their careers have also been affected.

And in this process, there will even be problems with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. And in the process of being a stay-at-home wife, husbands will not understand their wives' sadness, and they will not choose to be considerate of their wives.

Yes, being a stay-at-home wife is really tiring; I have had the experience of a breakdown, a lot of clothes at home have not been washed, the food has not been cooked, the children have been distressed, no one has helped me to coax, and I also saw that it was 12 o'clock, and the food could not be cooked.

I think it's really tiring, but I don't have a breakdown because I know how to regulate my emotions.

Being a stay-at-home wife has both advantages and disadvantages.

The advantages are: 1. All the time can be at your disposal, and you don't need to go to work and leave work on time.

2. Have enough time to do what you want to do, such as beauty, shopping, fitness, etc.

3. There is workplace pressure and deceit between colleagues, and there is no need to please others.

4. You can take care of your children wholeheartedly without worrying about your child's safety at all times.

2. It reduces the opportunity to contact with the outside world and cannot obtain social changes in real time.

3. Self-confidence will be damaged, because there is no contact with the living for a long time, and the housework is cumbersome, which is easy to cause upset.