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For many children, everything in life is very beautiful. And eating some beautiful imagination is also completely from a fairy tale world created by parents. Parents want their children to maintain this innocence and innocence, after all, this innocence will gradually disappear after entering society.

But there are also those who believe that it is not a fairy tale to tell children about the real world earlier. So should parents maintain the fairy tale world, or should they tell their children the reality earlier?

First, how to choose.

Actually, this choice isThere is a premiseof, ifIf the child is relatively young and has not yet entered junior high school, then it is recommended that parents try to maintain this fairy tale worldLet the child have some fantasies. After all, there are a lot of cruel things in the real world. When the child grows up in the future, he will have a lot of time to accept this cruel reality, so when the child is still ignorant, try to maintain his innocence and beauty.

ButAfter the child enters junior high school, his thinking gradually becomes more and more mature. At this time, parents can gradually let their children understand some cruelty in reality。But don't tell your child everything, because your child won't understand it all if you don't go out into society, and if you say too much, it will scare your child and make your child feel that the future is unexpected.

Second, some children will understand.

I believe that after reading this, you should be a little confused when you see this title. Why do some children understand it themselves? In fact, not all children are well protected by their parents from childhood to adulthood.

Some children, from the moment they are born, have to face ordinary families, even poor families. My parents are salarymen, who only get a salary of a few thousand yuan a month, and they have to maintain all kinds of expenses in the family. In fact, children who grow up in such families often do not need to tell their children how cruel the reality is, although the children are young, but the children understand everything.

If you continue to talk about how cruel reality is to such a child, then such a child may become more introverted and inferior, and the pressure will become greater.

Educating children requires ways and methods, and children of different ages also need to create different atmospheres. Blindly letting children indulge in the world of fairy tales is ruining children. But too early to let children understand the cruelty of society will also make children lose hope in the world.

I think parents can subtly tell their children about the reality of society, so as not to overwhelm him when he enters society in the future.

Before the child has come into contact with society, I think parents should tell him earlier that society is actually very cruel, so that he can be a little psychologically prepared, so that he can bear some blows when he comes out of society.

I think parents should slowly tell their children that the reality should let their children have such psychological preparation, otherwise when their children enter society, they will still maintain a fairytale world and will be easily deceived.

Understand reality early. Children who recognize reality early will grow up faster and more sensible than ordinary children, and will have a smoother road in the future.

I think it's to maintain the fairy tale world, because he is a child after all, and it is a bit cruel to let him recognize the reality too early.

I think children should understand reality, children can't always stay in the fairy tale world, children will always grow up, and children should know what they should know.

I believe that everyone has heard a lot of fairy tales when they were children, and they must have felt that this world is beautiful and colorful, but when they grow up, everyone understands that in fact, fairy tales are deceitful, and those beauty do not exist in the real world at all. But even so, parents still like to let their children live in a fairy tale world, and even hope that their children will never grow up and live in a fairy tale world, so why is this?

1. The world is too scary, so I hope that children can see the better side of the world.

When we grow up, we all know how terrible this world is, this is a jungle where the jungle of the jungle eats the strong, if you can't always have the upper hand in this jungle, then sooner or later you will be eliminated one day. But it is precisely because everyone has experienced too many terrible things that when facing their children, they will want to make them believe in the beauty of this world, and they hope to let their children see a beautiful world.

Therefore, in the process of educating children, parents always let their children live in fairy tales and always tell their children about the beauty of this world.

2. Because parents want their children to grow up healthy and be a kind person, they want them to live in a fairy tale world.

No parent wants their child to grow up to be the Great Demon King of the World.

It is the desire of parents for their children to grow up healthily and become a kind person, so when educating their children, they put their children in a fairy tale world, so that they can see more beautiful things, so as to form a more sound personality, so as to grow into a kind and tolerant person.

It is true that parents know that fairy tales are fake, but in the process of growing up in children, fairy tales are essential because it is a process that everyone goes through. Even if the child grows up in the future, walks out of this fairy tale world, and sees the sinister nature of this world, then he will not become a devil because of the sinister nature of the world, but can become a hero of the world, presumably this is the hope of every parent.

Out of love. Children living in fairy tales are carefree, innocent and romantic, and parents will be satisfied when they see such children.

Because these parents have already suffered too much in life, they don't want their children to suffer the hardships they have experienced again, so they want to protect their children and let them live in a fairy tale world and never be harmed.

Because parents know how hard life is, they don't want their children to experience this hardship too early, so they want their children to live in a fairy tale world without worry.